As most people know, being a switch is not easy. Especially when the some switches are found to be intimidating(imho). For awhile, I felt like being a switch was a bad thing. That I had to be one or the other not both. It turns out that doms won't deal with a switch because they're afraid that they will be dominated without notice, the scene will change in the blink of an eye, their masculinity would be in jeopardy. Uh, no. If any knowledgeable person knows anything, like with any dynamic, there has to be conversation, an agreement etc. I rather submit anyway to be honest (only to the right person). I'm not going to force you to do anything that you're comfortable with, why should I? The would be crossing boundaries wouldn't it? I may/may not be the only switch who feels this way. I felt like that I had to be with other switches that want to be doms at some point. That only a switch would be compatible, that's incorrect. What are your thoughts? I would like to hear them.
