Excuse me! I'm talking

I expect my play time kitten. 

Let's practice your waiting position....

Kneel with your butt resting on your souls.

Chin up and chest out.

Hands behind your back.

Why are you smiling? Is it the crop I have in my hands.😏

I love caressing your face. Eyes forward with a yes Sir after every command.

Yes Sir!

Come here and walk on your hands and knees.

Yes Sir! 

Under my balls...that is the spot. Show me your gratitude. 

Yes Sir!

That feels wonderful kitten. The way you kiss it and suck on my taint and balls. Those full licks, so slow. All that saliva running down my ass. Take the tip and swirl it in those full 👄.

My toes are curling. Head is back trying to remember where I am. That mouth has become magic.

Get on all fours Now! 

On knees and palms with your face forward.

Crop in hand. Who owns you! 

Sir

Smack

Thankyou Sir in such a soft voice.

That voice is so sultry it drives me crazy

Smack

Thank you Sir. 

Over and over, in between rubbing her buttocks and feeling the warmth from my crop. That bum is so hot to the touch.

I get down on my knees to cool it with kisses and gentle rubs.

Ass up

Stretch those arms out and head down. Ass up for a better inspection.

I put my 👅 on her asshole licking it and playing with it. She starts to purr....

Thank you Sirrr 

I run my fingers down her pussy...so wet. Squeezing, just a little pressure because it's such a phat pussy. Looking at it from behind has me so excited.

I make sure I tell her that she did this and will be taking care me after I enjoyed her taste

Spitting on her ass for my fingers to run between her ass cheeks better. Then the tip of my finger rolls into her asshole.

Left hand, middle finger starts to push into her moistness. GOD SHE LOOKS SO FUCKIN HOT!

Finding her gspot I roll my finger onto it. Swollen on the other side of her clit. So wet...and the sounds coming from her. Amazing

Sir...may I please cum. 

No sweet girl. I will tell you when it's time. I am enjoying myself and don't interrupt again!

Two fingers now, arm is up and pushing harder downward. Seconds later I feel her squeezing my fingers and moaning. 

I am sooo sorryyy Sir. Sooo sorryyy!!! 

Smack with my right hand while she rides the wave. 

Such a bad girl.. Smack...Sorry Sir. I will do better.

Hope you enjoyed😘

Commisioned based sales can be stressful. Most don't understand the stress that it brings knowing your pay check is derived from what you sell that day. So there is a saying....K.I.S.S....keep it simple stupid. 

You hand someone your recommendations on a  piece of paper. The prices are printed with all the added fees. Just before handing the customer that dreaded paper you went over what is included, why those items are recommended. How those items will effect you. You talked about your experiences.

Does any of this sound familiar?

So let's 💋....keep it simple stupid

When getting to know a Dom or sub we should always talk about expectations. The more honest the better. This would be the time when experiences are exchanged. This is equal time. No one person has agreed to anything. Communication is key at this moment. 

As the Dom I should articulate my experience. What I am not proficient at and what I would enjoy learning from future experiences. K.I.S.S.

As we are going over the finer details of what is suggested or recommended we move along to what is needed. This would be the time when questions are asked. What relationship expectations do each have? A dynamic only? A friendship? To one day marry and have kids playing in the yard? K.I.S.S.

What is the time expectations for all this to take place? Can some of this be planned out for future dates? Online only or can we travel.  K.I.S.S.

Sales is a stressful job. Meeting and greeting is stressful. Honesty is even harder. One has to be honest with themselves first in order to be honest with other. A Dom is a salesman....plain and simple. Now are they an honest salesman is a good question.

I was called out by someone for not taking the time to get to know them. "How can you get to know someone if you don't ask questions" She was correct. I have been all the better for it. 

I have kept it simple since. Being honest with myself and others. Making typos all along the way. 

Submissives I would make a simple recommendation of keeping it simple silly. Ask the hard questions before the price is finally given. Just make sure you have the means to pay it. 

Be safe people

I am quite certain many already know this but I would like to address topic. The outcome.

Setting the submissive and the Dominate up for failure. After knowing a sub's weaknesses and strengths some attributes are forever embedded. It's not their fault.

We can not change everything. After talking about the action. Punishing the action. Being constructive and showing the sub how to speak or physically do the action and they still fail what to do? If we know the action will fail and still allow it then the Dom is to blame. The Dominat set the submissive up for failure. 

Yes I take responsibility. I don't remember the AA first step but this in my rule book.

We have options. Step away from the dynamic for failure to adhere to protocols, rituals and the like. Or we can accept a submissive for their strengths and fortify those traits. Work on those short comings that can be addressed. Acknowledging a fault doesn't take it away. Learning to adapt to that fault is a strength. Having things in place to over shadow faults and keep them at bay is a strength. 

I have been saying this over and over. I will not punish for failure that could have been avoided due to my inaction.

Yes I am quite certain someone else can tame that fault. Yes you are the best. All hail you...

"Go now. I will be in there in 20 minutes. I expect you to be washed and shaved. Make sure you leave that patch there so I can run my hands through it"

I come in with an expectation of finding more. To get in her head. She has been stubborn, annoyingly so. "Get on the bed, kneel and stretch your arms out"

"Yes Sir"

I bind her wrists with the softer cuffs, the type with some padding. Carpel tunnel so I have to be careful of her hands and some positions even if she doesn't complain. Do the same with her ankles and then attached chains to all so she cannot move from that wonderful position. 

Her butt is exposed, cheeks are spread wide. She is due for a reminder of who owns who. She had missed a few Sir's. Gotten snappy about dinner. A few other incidents during the week. They were corrected but she was told they were not forgotten.

I had gotten my crop, the cheap faux leather flogger, her favorite toy vibe and the blind fold. Lights are dimmed now.

I use my hands and a little lotion on her bum and lower back. Just massaging her for a few loosening and relaxing her. Tell her of the good things she has done. What improvements I have noticed. What things we should work on together. " thank you Sir, that means alot to me"

Now for your reminders and punishments. I ask if she is ready?" Yes Sir" My hand swats her butt with her saying Sir each time it lands. She's getting two swats for every missed Sir. 10 is the right number.  I then get the flogger which stings even more on that red bum. I find the cheaper one doesn't leave marks so easily. Three swats for every time she neglected a task given. " thank you Sir I will do better" 

Now for the crop. She is red and stingy. Tears haven't crept in yet. Nor was that my intention. She has such a high pain threshold that only the crop will do. I padd her backside letting her feel it on the parts I haven't touched. I run my fingers through her fat pussy lips. Moist, very moist. On goes the blindfold.

Crack right above her knees in that delicious delicate spot. She flinches making that sound when you're breathing in fast because it fnnn hurts. Smack on the other side. A little whimper comes out. I tell her this is for your bratting. "Thank you Sir, I will do better!" " LOUDER!" I say. "I WILL DO BETTER SIR!"

Crack. One by one 4 for every bratty misbehavior. Four for the week by my count. She whimpered and some tears did come but that's why I used the blindfold. Her eyes were burning from her own tears with no way to wipe them having the blindfold on tight. It stayed wet as a second punishment.

I told her she did a wonderful job taking her reminders and how proud I was. I do this for her benefit but it would be a lie if I said I didn't enjoy it just a little. I can see seven marks that will be there when this night is through.

Her favorite toy is on now. Must be fnnn magic. I start on her pussy lips just gliding it up and down slowly. So fnn moist. She has got to be turned on now to get past those puusy lips. 

Now the questions. One is hard or truly dislike to 10 which is great or love it.

One through ten " how do much did you enjoy my hand swatting you?"

8

One through ten " how much did you deserve my hand swatting you?"

10

The flgger?

7

6

Hmmm interesting? Why?

" I accomplished most I believe in a timely manner"

"We will discuss further later"

Crop?

9

10

I now have a finger on her g spot. Playing with it while vibing her clit.

" No you may not cum!"

"How hard is it to use Sir around others?"

4

" Do you neglect things to aggravate Daddy?"

7

"Do you need more attention/affection?"

10

"Does Daddy take care of your needs?"

8

"Do you want to play with others?" 

7

How happy are you with Daddy?" 

9

" Do you wish to see others in pain?"

10

" Do you enjoy the pain I inflict when no punishment is involved?"

10

" You may cum now!"

Me. " here's my # I am working on another car that day and it won't take long to fix that"

Her. " thanks"

She calls " I didn't know this was your #" 

Me. " just was trying to help"

Her. " oh well that's nice but I really shouldn't. Aren't you married?"

Me. "Yes...but she is okay with me talking to you"

Her. "I really shouldn't sooo I will let you go"

Me. "Okay, have a great day"

I had already realized she was a brat. She craved attention. She stayed fit and it showed. Heels on every time she walked in the door. Nails perfect, french manicured. Just sexy as fuck and enjoying the attention.

1 month later she calls

Her. " just saying hi and I am bored"

Me." No problem, I am just a filler"

Her." No!.... I didn't mean it like that. You said your wife doesn't mind right?"

Me." No she doesn't. You calling cause you want some attention aren't you?"

Her." Maybe"

Me." You want to grab some dinner?"

Her." I can't, your married. I keep very private and that's too much"

Me." That's okay I like some things you probably would like but I might be too much for you"

Her." What? You're so upfront and seem honest but wat you mean"

Me." I like good girls. You seem like a brat! Brats either need attention or a good fuckin spanking. Wich is it?"

Her." Wow it's like that?.....I do like it different than others. What's the word? FREAK!!!! is what they call it?"

Me." Call me later"

She called later on just when I was laying down. I even took the spare room for that reason.

Her." Hi, how are you?"

Me." Turned on wanting to play"

Her." I can't speak too loud. I haven't done this since high school"

Me." Let me hear your sexy voice"

Her." Okay"

Me." WHO'S A GOOD GIRL?"

Her." I am"

Me." Say it over and over"

Her." I am a good girl" over and over and over. " I am a good girl"

Me." Yes you are"

Finding a diamond in ruff is hard. Getting her to be the good girl you want her to be is harder. If it was easy everyone would do it.

Gabriel

I'll bring the floger

You'll ask politely for the cane

I'll bring the cuffs

You will not be  ashamed

I'll bring the D...

You bring the p....

I'll bring you a toy

you'll show so much joy

I'll suck your nippel

You'll wiggle with glee

You'll bend over for more

I'll show you I'm no bore

You'll lye on your back

I'll have a great snack

I'll bring you some pain

It might make you insane

And at the end your getting a few good smacks

I finally did it. Someone talked me into having phone sex. I had to get ito the mood. Took a hot shower. Trimmed the naughty bits. I even brushed my teeth for no other reason then you should.

Got the candles lit. Turned on some music. 

Every time my penis touched the screen it google searched some random shit. What a turn off...

NEVER AGAIN!!!!!

I have found a little enjoyment in my messages lately. Somebody commented that I was different than others. My messages were different  I took it as a compliment and then never heard from her again Lol I found that ever so amusing. It's fuckin funny right?

Anyway, on to the next message. I reach out to a newer member to see how she was getting on with the Cage. We had messaged previously so I felt comfortable. She states that she does not like it very much at all. 

So now imagine the very beginning of I like big butts and I cannot lie.

I'm like "what"? She's like "yeh"! I'm like "what's up with those other bro's"? She's like" all they want is this butt and I must get at least a hundred messages a day for butt stuff" and " I'm not even lying"

Now I'm quite sure you get the drift. I just wanted to throw that song in there. It still makes me shimmy my tiny booty. I suffer from a disease. It's quite serious and I hope everyone is aware of it. It's called no-ass-atall and it's quite serious. Hug a freind if they have it.

So back to the story. I remind her that it's not a sprint, why she's here. Is she learning anything. Had she reached out to the O.G. subs for direction? Help a little with her profile. She likes the changes. Smiles to her. I won't lie, it made me feel good. 

Then it's on to the O.G. If you don't know what that means I really can't help you. You might be helpless. Anyway here's the conundrum. They can spot you a mile away. Creeping up, they smell the inexperience. They're kind, helpful, caring but they're like steel. So hard to pierce the armor. Can't Dom them. Not instantaneous like anyway. No no no. So if your lucky enough like me to enjoy a conversation with one or two well let's just enjoy it. 

Honesty, a periodic message from someone experienced is helpful. Even if it's " how are you making out"? It says to me I'm not being an ass. That seems to be my M.O. as of late in R.L. 

Thanks for reading. Just had a few ramblings in the old noggin.

I recieved a nice message from someone, she was truly sweet. I just didn't understand what she was trying to say. It was a run on paragraph that I didn't understand or if there was a question.

I asked politely what her question was. Was there a question.Is she a slave, sub,pet, little. Profile lacked all the above. 

I am fully aware of sub frenzy. There's even Dom frenzy. I have been their. If you haven't then I would believe that you want, need, desire it. 

My simple advice is slow down (way down) With my limited experience I would request that you follow blogs that are as like minded as you. Even reach out to those writing them. 

Here's the tricky part...wait for it....wait for it...read the replies. Yes those lovely or sometimes nasty or just agreeable replies. They give alot of insight as well. Those replies will tell you if that person is followed and even respected inside this community.

By the banter that takes place inside those replies give the details of that persons wit, intelligence and how they are when confronted. 

Me, well I don't respond much so that would say I either don't follow through, am self centered, can't handle a disagreement or the truth is thank you for loves, responding but I'm still learning all the buttons

The very point I'm trying to make here is my online dominance difers to my IRL dominance. I realized this from those blogs, following insightful people and discovering that for myself. You should do the same. 

Everyone should find out who they are before they go jumping into the deep end. Then inquire about your prospective other, there on someone's radar for better or worse. 

Oh and be safe

I must confess my lacking of a sex drive has taken some pondering. An acknowledgment if you will of why and even when. 

Where shall I start..... Big question mark?

Is it age? well I am quite certain that plays a role but truly it is not the main reason. It's my hands , my rough hands. The calluses will never go away. Lotion them all you want but my hands will always stay rough. 

I woke up and felt good like it's just going to be a good day. Then a few hours later I am in my head. Deep breaths, wondering around in my mind. Someone jogged my memories. Somebody very sweet, caring and knowledgeable.

Now I was turned on, now things were stirring. One simple memory persisted.

I open the door and there she kneels. Head down, eyes down. How do you feel?    "very calm Daddy" I smile, not just the facial but somewhere deep inside. I get down on one knee, take her chin in my palm, my rough hands are not delicate on her smooth skin. I stare at her and then forgot about everything else. She was my everything. 

I believe that's where I left it.