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1 year ago. March 12, 2023 at 11:57 PM

I always like to try and put myself in dominants shoes to try and understand what makes domination hard so I can help them grow or give them what they need/want. I also do this so I can grow to be a better submissive. Now that I’m a 24/7 submissive I find myself doing this even more because I want to please my master and mistress.

 

There is something that I’ve been particularly wondering about though. I enjoy my little time very much and I enjoy having my dominant with me during it and taking care of me.

 

However I always wondered how the dominant felt about it.

 

Do they enjoy it? If so then why?

What about it do they like?

Do they not like anything about it?

Do they sometimes feel like they want to spend little time with me but don’t know if I feel like being little?

Are there certain activities you’d like to do with me while little?

Do they feel like they can’t say what they would like?

Dose the hate and misinformation out there also frustrate them?

Do they enjoy giving care for their little or would they rather just watch them enjoy their little time?

How did you imagine yourself interacting with your little before you actually had one?


I haven’t asked these questions before. Maybe I was too shy or worried, or maybe I just didn’t have the right dominant to ask. Maybe I just didn’t want to hear the answers because of worry or hate. I do now though but I still haven’t really asked them. I just wish I knew more of what dominates think about littles. Also what they think about MDLG/DDLG in general.

I'mME - bluelunarmoon,

I'm answering as a human being. Why don't you feel as if you can ask your particular Dom?
These are very good questions..
As a human being (very rarely submissive , but just bc I have not encountered one who appears to care very much about accepting someone for where they are and/or where I want to go.)
But a need/necessity for me would be for a Dom/Master to
humanly communicate these things.
This chasm that so many think is part of D/s except in the fun part is mind boggling to me.

I know that did not answer your questions, but maybe I still have some food for thought.
Speaking of which I'm hungry, lol.
I'm interested in seeing some answers.
1 year ago

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