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6 months ago. April 30, 2024 at 7:24 PM

 

Presentation of one's self... 

 

in our lifestyle, we strive to make changes.

We work to better ourselves, we encourage others, we treat ourselves right, we work towards goals, we inspire one another, we strive to be kind, genuine and caring, to not only ourselves, but to others as well. 

We work hard to change for the better of one's self. 

We diligently put in the effort to give ourselves self-love, self-worth, self value, and self-respect. 

We strive and work hard to make these changes to be the best version of ourselves that we can be. 

We learn, we grow, and we are constantly, and consistently, continuing the growth process.  

 

To hold one's self to a higher standard. 

To be respectful of the thoughts and feelings of ourselves and others. 

To give unto another, the way you would want another to give unto you. 

To teach another the value of being kind in the face of judgment. 

To be appealing to another, not only to the eye, but in the way we hold ourselves to a higher mentality. 

 

Presentation is not only about appearance.

It is about how Y/you treat Y/yourself, how Y/you treat another, how Y/you handle situations, how Y/you speak to and / or about others, etc. 

It's taking and holding Y/yourself to a higher standard. 

Yielding to the inner peace inside Y/you, to be beautiful within Y/yourself, so that Y/you may be prepared and ready to one day yield to another, and / or Dominate another. 

 

To have no preconceived judgments. 

To being the best Y/you that Y/you can be. 

To be the best version of Y/yourself, so that one day Y/you will be ready to give over Y/your complete and total submission to another, and / or hold anothers submission. 

 

Y/your Dominant/submissive will expect Y/you to act with a compassionate, truthful, caring, kind,  generous heart, mind, body, and soul. 

 

your will becomes His will. 

you are a product of how He represents Himself. 

If you act up, brat out, are rude, unkind, talk about others, gossip, complain, are disagreeable, etc 

This makes your Dom look bad.

For He is responsible for you and your actions. your actions reflect badly onto Him.  

 

If your Dom were to guide you in the wrong manner or way, you then reflect that and project that onto others. 

 

We are here to learn and grow. 

To prepare ourselves in this journey of self-improvement of ourselves and for our future selves. 

 

Honestly, if our future selves have any chance at finding and keeping a dominant/submissive worth having.

We then have to make these changes within ourselves. 

 

It all starts here L/lady's and G/gentlemen. 

 

If we are to be the best versions of ourselves, we must start now.

We must give the best versions of ourselves to all, and to ourselves, right now. 

 

This is presentation of one's self. 

To bettering us and to helping others better themselves. 

 

Thank Y/you 

flitterfly... :):):) 

DawnRobin 🥰 

Andron - I Flitter when a man like me gets to be my age; the only thing that would make me feel better about myself and like I accomplished something is becoming a hermit, like retiring to a quiet, out-of-the-way corner of the world and peacefully waiting for the end. Seems I missed any chance for something better than that in my life. I am content with what I have and who I am.
6 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - Continue to work on yourself , see your growth and potential. 👍
6 months ago
ErosRising​(dom male){Hekate} - This. This post right here. My hat off to you!!
6 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Thank You
6 months ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - Y/you , means what? My brain keeps saying Why/you but that doesn't always word correctly 🤔.
6 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Y/you is Dom and sub its D/s 🤗
6 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - i have only learned that in the last couple months.
And the
i me my
And
He His Your when talking about subs and Doms very recently. 😊
6 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - Is this fucking with your thought process Max ? 🤔 lol
6 months ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - Yes Don, it is. Things need to make sense or have some relevance to logic, or it's just distracting and I struggle to read the content for the distraction. If Y/you is the same as D/S, then why use unknown/unfamiliar terms when there is already something clearly defined and known? To me, it goes back to redefining words/terms that I have always struggled with. I think I can safely chalk it up to my being analytical 😂😂. I enjoy Flitterfly's content and if I'm planning to continue to read it, I need to understand the language.
Thank you FlitterFly for clarifying that for me, you do you.
6 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Let me put it this way.
i was told when speaking to a sub use lower case everytime.
And when speaking to a Dom always use upper case.
It's the correct way to address another in our lifestyle. Lol
So when saying something and i need to say "You" = Dom
And you = sub.
Meaning all can learn and be a better Y/you lol
Thank You Mr. Heathen
6 months ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - Which reads easier, comes across clearly and sounds better in your mind?
Y/you can be the best at what Y/you do.
or
A Dom can be the best at what he or she does, just as much as a Sub can be the best at what they do also.

I understand that yours is shorter and that is most likely the case in the person who told you about the Y/you... they most likely struggle with words being strung together, so they tend to shorten what they say, which in the long run looks bad and communicates poorly in my eyes. However, everybody has the right to be themselves and again I reiterate the above. I didn't understand the language because it's new so I asked and you answered. E/ewe see it as a correct way to address another in our lifestyle, while I look at the facts in the abundance of other blogs, forums, and even profiles that do not use such verbiage.

While I respect the perception and use of such Y/you, that is up to you. It's not something I think I'll be following 😉
A general rule of communication in a proper setting: If one wouldn't say it from their mouth in a conversation, then one should convey oneself equally in all forms of communication if it is to be viewed as proper.

Thank you again Flitterfly and I'll be ending my portion of this conversation with the above. Anything else I would add would come across as harsh and give a feeling of chastisement. Neither of which do I have any desire to do at the moment. I value your friendship and literature, thus I asked and replied to the best of my abilities, in a neutral format. If you wish to speak further on this, we can do it privately as we have before. Have a wonderful day. *Bows and walks away from the conversation.*
6 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Giggling hysterically.
Mr Heathen, lord idk.
All I know is that this was used to slow my ass down, and think, also, it works, and i am only learning here.
So forgive this girls learning curve.
Roflmao.
It's a growth and something i am working on.
i will take note, lol
i wanted at least one thing that i put an extreme amount of effort in before brating out again. Lmfao.

i will as LL how to proced.
Roflmao
Help LL!!!!
hehehehehe

Thank You My Friend for not attacking me with that vicious, insatiable Beast of Yours

He scares me. 😱
A little bit. 🤗
Sooth the Beast. 🥰

6 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Also Y/you is Domme/sub or anyone, everyone.
6 months ago
ErosRising​(dom male){Hekate} - You all have my head spinning now. Holy crap!! LMAO
6 months ago

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