Most of us here can spot things that just scream FAKE! when we take the time to read another's profile. Certain actions someone makes that lend credence to the idea they are not being truthful about what they are here for.
But God Damn!
Some of those stolen photos are hot as hell! I do wish I could get to know the person in the photo, provided of course they were interested in the lifestyle.
I wish I was better at cyber stalking
(Disclaimer: Not everyone who choses to keep information about themselves are fake. Everyone has the right to choose what and what not to disclose. While there are some indications fake profiles give, not everything others do should indicate they are having a fake profile)
I know you love my writing and do miss my stories I have written in the past. I miss it too, but haven't been inspired to write any fiction of late. So since I have had a few inquires about my 30 question post, I'll answer the ones about Number 7.
The names have been changed to protect the not so innocent
A bit of background: Back in the later 2000s, Alt.com was a fun place to be. The chat rooms were much like Cage's chatrooms today, but there was a number of rooms that people frequented. The most hopping one was "The MidWest Chat Room". We would have 20 to 30 people in the room a night. Everyone became very close. So much so, we would meet up real time in St. Louis once a year for a get together. Like 200 of us.
So this one time, I went unpartnered (I had not met my wife yet), just to hang out and talk to people face to face. While we didn't rent the whole hotel, we had a good chunk, including the main meeting area which we used as a scening area. I'm watching the various things going on when I feel a tug on my sleeve.
Turning around, there is this short, brown haired girl who says "Hi! I'm ShimmeringEyes! Are you TopekaDom?" We have never met before but chatted in the room and in IM. So we laughed and talked and watched and she was fixated on the floggings. Without turning away, she says "God, I need that!"
I took it as a cue and told her to strip, just to see if she would. She looks at me, sets her water glass on the table (MO state laws does not allow alcohol and nudity in the same room) and undresses right there. While she was doing that, I went and found a flogger to barrow. Then I dragged her by the hair to unoccupied piece of furniture and proceeded to flog the crap out of her.
After we were done, she was all smiles and dreamy. Someone gave us a blanket and we cuddled together against the wall. After a bit, the people she came to the event with came by to check on her. She got up and got dressed, then leaned down to give me a kiss. I kissed and whispered:
"Room 312"
She just looked at me, then turned and left with her friends. I got up and talked to a few people. One of those was another woman who watched us the whole time. This woman was someone who I never met face to face before but chatted her up in the room with the screen name of "Cheri". Cheri thought the entire scene was hot and said how she wished she could have joined us, but didn't want to interrupt.
I laughed and told her she should have asked anyway. By this time, another Dom comes up and asks her if she wants to do something, so I exited. Going back to my room, who do I find tapping at my door but ShimmeringEyes. Opening the door, I tell her if she goes inside, she is going to get fucked. She walked through the door before me.
(yeah, I'm not going into all that in detail)
Afterwards, we are done and cuddling with one another and I tell her about what Cheri said. Shimmering gasps and looks me in the eye, saying how much fun that would have been. I nodded and and got back into my traveling tool bag. The cuffing her spread eagle to the bed took little time and I left the room.
I found Cheri back in the main room. She was unpartnered, so I pulled her aside and gave her my room key and what was in there. As she turned to go, taking the key, I told her to wedge the door partially open since that was the only key.
I never saw either one of them face to face again.
It seems like I haven't been around here much. Not Blogging or doing much in the forums (don't even get me started about the chat room), but I have been here, keeping an eye on things as it were.
I've just been doing real life shit. Cleaning and seeing to cats and things like that. But I did want to take the time to thank those that have reached out to me to see if I was ok and wondering what the living fuck was going on.
Mainly is has been;
Cleaning my fucking Workroom
With all the projects I had been doing (including doing a small shelving unit for DVDS), I had a couple of inches of sawdust and paint stuff and tools all lying about. Then the wife decided she is going to get a floor loom and stacked the hall with all kinds of shit she wanted stored down in the workroom.
So that meant reorganizing the shelves there (what do you mean just tossing shit on a shelf and calling it good is not organization?) and then she bought 3 cases of wine that has be stored down there (yes it is her wine cellar too. But that is ok, I made a cat pan room out of the original wine cellar so who would blame her) and that had to be all put away.
But it also gave me some time to do man stuff: I got to screw all my charging basses to the wall. That cleared up a good deal of room. Got rid of an old hardwire network switch that the original house owners put in but we didn't ever use. Clipping those wires was fun.
Still not finished but am now worn my ass out. You know that feeling being the guy in a FMF threesum with two straight girls? Very satisfied but, goddamn that was a lot of work
You know, I enjoy the Cage. I love talking to the various people here and getting insights on how they feel about things and how they see things. I just wish people treated me the same way.
I try to keep things light hearted and be be respectful on how they work within the lifestyle.
But for fuck's sake, don't get all pissy about how I feel about Brats. I have stated my viewpoint again, and again, and again, and again. I've had a bit over 25 years watching the brat evolution and, frankly I am unimpressed.
Now if that is what you want to do, fine. Be yourself. But don't do it around me and expect me to keep my mouth shut.
One of the reason's I quit going to the chat room here is because there were those that thought it was cute to be "bratty" to me there and when I slammed them down, they got all pissy. It isn't worth going back.
I am just taking an informal poll, as I had an interesting discussion with some vanilla friends. We were talking about sex and they wanted to know about the more kinky things we do. Now kinky to these guys is like cowgirl fucking.
So when describing various antics, they were asking how you did that in bed. This, of course, led me to a realization: I could not remember the last time I had fucked in bed.
So I was wondering if this happened to others in the lifestyle. Is your bed just for sleeping or do you have sex in it?