lambsone's thoughts

I've contacted my gynecologist and am awaiting a reply but thought I'd ask here as well in case anyone has had this problem and has already figured out what to do about it.

While doing my first task for countrySir, I encountered a bloody vaginal discharge on the 6" (4.5" shaft) dildo I was using. This is the 2nd time it's happened.

Thrusting seems to be causing this whether hand held or mounted on a service and riding it. I use Replens cream applicators to insert lube in my vagina and Replens from the tube to hand apply to the oitside entrance. I also lube the dildo. I initially have some pain inserting the dildo but once seated inside and thrusting there's no pain.

However, when I remove the dildo, there is a bloody discharge on the underside of the shaft. I'm not sure if I'm tearing something inside or not. I try not to be as aggressive as an excited man might be but still this happens. And the discharge continues for awhile even after removing the dildo. 

Anyway, does this problem sound familiar to anyone? I am not a virgin but I haven't really had much sex in life and my younger body never did this. But I'm not yet sure what a menopausal 72 year body can handle. I sure as heck don't want this to be a sexual problem for Sir and I. I am about 10 years older than he.

Thanks in advance.

Update from research: Post Coital Bleeding

Today 9-20-24 I have accepted "countrySir" as my permanent Dominant/Master 24/7. He makes me laugh a lot. I find him to be mature and understanding but also firm. He is experienced in the role from a prior marriage (now a widower). Our spiritual beliefs are the same and he is also my brother in Christ, and a substitute Pastor when required.

Therefore life will be changing for me. I will be learning how to please him and fulfill my role. I look forward to belonging to such a good man.

I do need to get permission to respond to any Dominants that message me and the conversations cannot be of a sexual nature as I need to put all of that energy into focusing on him.

I don't yet know how to navigate friendships, so as I learn from his expectations and we negotiate our lives together then I'll be better able to know what I can and cannot do.

So please be patient with me as I learn to walk this new, never before traveled path.

My niece is getting married on November 1 and I'd like to do some sight seeing before and after. She will get married in Sedona, but lives in Mesa.

Right now I'm thinking of arriving in Phoenix on Monday Oct 28 and leaving on Nov 4. It all depends on how economic I can be while on vacation.

Does anyone have suggestions about Hotels, Bed and Breakfasts, a safe room in a home or temp. shelter in the lodging arena. Good things as well as warnings about the options?

Also recommendations on sights to see, day trips, good agencies that offer them? In my research I've discovered tours to the Grand Canyon, Tombstone, Antelope Valley, Sedona. Some of these require booking for two people and I'm only one. 

Any helpful suggestions would be appreciated. I am on a tight budget so any ideas on how to save money while there would be great also.

Little Girl has crossed the Rainbow Bridge. She crossed today Friday the 13th around 1:30 pm. She bought herself extra time when I couldn't get her to come to me for her appointment on the 11th. She went quietly but she is now romping in Heaven and having the time of her life.

I found a funny photo of her that I forgot that I took a long time ago. After that is a poem I wrote many years ago when I was writing cat poems and wanted a different perspective of a cat's life. It now applies.

I had bloodwork done on Little Girl last week and got the results today. It was bad. She will take a walk on the rainbow Bridge on Wed 9-11-2024. She's 18 and has kidney failure and heart failure and thyroid issues. It's time. She's been a good kitty and now she needs her rest.

Ever since I let my hair turn grey/white, it has been unmanageable, dry, frizzy, tangled. I asked a group of Elders on FB abiut grey hair and got a ton of advice and product suggestions at the time.

But a few months ago, I attended a Celtic event at our Fairgrounds and there was a brush and misc. item vendor there. I asked if he had any natural bristle brushes. He showed me two. One long hard boar bristle and one short soft bristle. I bought the soft bristle.

I've been using a synthetic bristle brush from the dollar store for years. The moment I ran the natural bristle through my hair, I noticed a big difference. It felt good on my scalp. It went through my hair like cutting butter. It got rid of tangles easily and non painfully. It was quicker in getting it all brushed. Most of the fizzles disappeared. My hair felt silky smooth.

I never thought bristles would make a difference, but they do. The funny thing is that my Scottish surname logo is a boar's head. I've always hated that symbol because it was butt ugly and I was hoping for something more dignified and elegant. No longer. This boar bristle brush has made me a believer, and I've made peace with my clan logo preference.

The handle is made of sturdy bamboo so would be a nice dual punishment item.

When I first saw this image my thought was "Pretty", I have to share it. It has a victorian feel to it. But as I studied it, I saw that the moon seems to be encompassing the Sun and the Sun in turn seems to be causing the Moon to bloom. There's gotta be a relationship lesson in there somewhere.