I just spent a lot of time this morning sifting through messages at another BDSM site for seniors. Out of 82 messages I found only 1 who was a real Dom/Master. And it was very nice to read a sane and legitimate profile ... LOL!
There have always been wannabes but in 1999 when I first started searching for a Dom/Master, it seemed to me that there were more people who were real than fake. Today it seems that a lot more want to just have fun, sex, one night stands, cheating on their partners, using others, etc than real Dominants./Masters.
They are entitled to what they want, but after reading my profile, you would think that they would not contact me, because I clearly state what I'm looking for. It's the same one that I have here. I can only guess that if they are looking for instant gratification, then they have not read my profile and probably don't care to. And that they are only looking for temporary satisfaction. That's not my goal or my style.
Oh well, the trials and tribulations of finding a mate are endless.
