I wanted to make a list of things that make us go hmmmm. Red flags with a blinking light that say 'Use Caution'. Please feel free to add in the comments, if I've missed anything :)
~ an empty or vague profile (they have something to hide or maybe just put out low effort)
~ avoiding your questions
~ no interest in learning about you except on sexual topics (probably only looking for a sexual relationship or quick fuck)
~ inconsistency, one day hot and the next cold (likely shopping around for multiple prospects)
~ putting all responsibility on you to convince them you're submissive, you're worth it, you're interested (this is a 2 way.street, being submissive doesnt mean you do all the work)
~ someone who keeps trying to prove something (how experienced they are or how rich they are)
~ pushing over and over for nudes or videos even after you say you are not comfortable with it
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