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10 months ago. January 11, 2024 at 4:46β€―AM

Recently, a couple of "Doms" on this site used some personal details of my past to their advantage. These details were in my blog posts. One tried to manipulate me into a conversation and false sense of security by giving medical advice. He wanted to "help me" while suggesting meds and illegal drugs to try without knowing anything about me or my medical history. That doesn't really sound like a doctor to me. I think that after 30+ mails to me to try and initiate a conversation that he got creative and came up with a new approach. Why would I take medical advice from a stranger on the internet who has consistently disrespected my boundaries after i said multiple times I wasn't interested?!

The other one used some information just to be a cruel person and harass me. Despite being asked to leave me alone and not contact me, he continues to act childish and bitter.
Both have now been blocked.

But it really made me question if being honest and vulnerable in my blog is worth it. I felt so conflicted. I felt like my privacy had been invaded. I dont even think I can feel that way when I, in fact, did write it, post it, and make it public.


I'm struggling with my words and self doubt about this. Do i even make this post? Should I not give them any more attention than I already have? Kind of like 'Dont Feed the Trolls'. Or do I ignore them and post what I want because they hold no influence over me.

It's a difficult decision

Spanks hard​(dom male){Looking } - Except medical advice from medical professionals only
10 months ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male){CurvyB} - It sure is a conflict. About all you can do is play whack a mole with trolls as they show up. I don't feel like you want to give up on growing and that does require transparency. You share what you feel comfortable sharing, some things are best left private, and for good reason. Then many think being female makes one week, which is anything but true. Keep being strong. Diana Rigg sure over came the scandles of her life, from the baby butt biting, and the "I do not need to be a proper woman", she did it being leading in her life, and her quick mind.
10 months ago
Amor Animus​(dom male) - No one has the right to alter or change your voice, but you. And no one can, but you. Don’t forget it.
10 months ago
antihero​(dom male) - 30+ messages what the? Some people are just nut cases.
10 months ago
Jack in the box -
I agree with what the other fine gentlemen here have said, posting blogs can have great theraputic value. At the same time know that what you post is public (very public depending on your settings)
As the saying goes "you do you boo"
😘🌹
No one is your Dom until they are πŸ˜‰
10 months ago
Sweet Minx​(sub female){NotLooking} - Hey Jack! Happy new year. I hope you are well πŸ€—
10 months ago
Jack in the box -
Well thank you pretty girl, and likewise
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10 months ago
fluffypoppet​(sub female){Protected} - I’m so sorry that happened. πŸ₯ΊπŸ₯ΊπŸ₯Ί

People have mostly been respectful when referencing my blog content in private messages.

It can feel odd though- even scary- to know someone you don’t have a healthy relationship with is reading personal stuff about you.

Personally, I still blog, because I hope it helps others… and I know sometimes it can be helpful for me too.

Stay safe… don’t let them silence you. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—
10 months ago
Literate Lycan​(dom male) - Good morning! I personally enjoy your blogs and your comments. You have an exceptional voice here in our community. As the others have written above, don’t let anyone silence your voice. Do as you have done - block them and smile.

As mentioned, absolutely no medical professionals should be soliciting their advice to you without a doctor-patient relationship. And that won’t be established on a website. Please pass the individual’s name to Cage Admin. I don’t know what they will do. But I’d recommend leaving it in their lap.

You do what is best for you. If you find some therapeutic release blogging, do so. You’ll find those who care will appreciate your voice. Have a stellar day!
10 months ago
KarterCummings​(dom female){YESS} - I agree with MSAshley... Sharing openly and honestly is brave and empowering. Dim your light for no fool. More power to you SNOW.
10 months ago

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