The Culture that has been here all the time

My wife is significantly affected by Dementia +, but we still retain some aspects of synchronicity.

"Jared Heathman, board certified psychiatrist with Your Family Psychiatrist in Houston, Texas, told Medical News Today: “Married couples often think the same, which is called synchronized thinking. This type of thinking can be something that brings couples together. People often choose partners that are similar to them."

"When lovers are in sync? 
When you are synced with your partner you are fully present with that person – mind, body, spirit. ✓ You can walk side by side—somehow your footsteps match up… even though he's 5 inches taller. ✓ You can finish each other's sentences… you are paying attention."

"Can a spark come later in a relationship? 
But according to dating experts, a real healthy spark and foundation can take time to build, a.k.a. that love-at-first-sight feeling isn't all that sustainable."

"Does your heart synchronize with someone you love?
The Science on Heart Rhythms

One of the ways we know we're in love is that we begin to experience behavioral synchrony. We might start finishing each other's sentences or crave the same foods, activities, and desires. This kind of synchrony extends to our heartbeats, too."

These are just a sample of what a Google search produces. Jim

Happy Mother's Day and International Nurses Day

Hello Friends,

From fake news to manipulated advertising, we all must be on our guard because it is too easy to be fooled by anything. The world's militaries know much about this and deliberately use their power to their advantage. All businesses use it to some degree, and some go too far, and the deception is close to lies that can cause harm.

I noticed that online dating sites and social sites of all kinds, even kinky sites, can have flaws. The worst is that unscrupulous scammers prey upon unsuspecting potential victims. I have been duped several times, and this encouraged me to become an amateur investigator: I unmasked about twenty of these nefarious, unscrupulous people and tracked them to where they really were and who they were. I remain vigilant now, and I don't waste time hunting them any longer.

So, I like meeting new people here and on other sites, but I remain alert. I truly enjoy the openness and candid expression in the kink world. I enjoy the ladies and girls who openly share their desires, photos, and videos of their lovely bodies. Also how they elaborate on their likes and dislikes.

Ok, Friends,

So, I am texting and exchanging photos with Anastasia, a beautiful blonde woman from Ukraine (not her real name). We discussed, among other things, the war with Russia from which she fled. We entered into a very explicit description of what we could do sexually, and she told me she would have a vacation soon from her job and wished to visit me. This occurred over a year ago before I knew I didn't have to use a website that charges for every message and every photo exchange. Once I found out, I knew I had to break away. I wrote a "fairy tale" where she was the Princess in the forest that a woodsman rescued. It was then that she explained in great detail how she wanted me to tie her up and have my way with her. Tie her in a chair so she could expose her ass and pussy for me and how she wanted me to play with her. You can't imagine my disappointment when I ran out of credits to use on the website, and I didn't have enough money to buy more credits. Sigh

Hello Friends,

The ancient KamaSutra categorizeses three male and three female size categories. It generalizes pairing with each size group, resulting in nine variations. Thanks to the BDSM Kink folks who are willing to provide photos of pussies and cocks and commentary about preferences, I see the situation is more complex.

The appearance of individual sex organs has many more variables. Beyond function, it then becomes a matter of preferential erotic stimulation based on sight and also preferences in touch/feel, especially in oral sex.

How your partner responds will encourage the development of a relationship once the preliminary preferences bring you together.

Before this openness, people could only play sex roulette and hope their partner, and they were a match and compatible sexually.

Long-term relationships would be more successful if people could understand their preferences, find ways to find each other and have a test relationship before committing. Hopefully, all other relationship factors can be satisfied as well, I.E., personalities. 

That is, if the partners want a long-term relationship. 

Hello Friends,

With so many toys and replicas of vaginas and penises, if you were blindfolded or you kept your eyes closed (if you could), could you be sure you were having sex with a natural person? What if your partner got some very realistic and precise replicas? Mmmmm. What if the room became as dark as possible, and an AI robot partner made love to you? Would you be insulted or thrilled?

Do you think this scientific progress has value for long-term space missions?

What if you woke up covered with hickeys and smeared with red lipstick?

I suppose it could be good for some as for me I won't be happy unless I made love to a real live woman. Romantic setting, playful adventures, fond memories. And I prefer a long-term monogamous relationship as long as I am alive. After all, I am a fully self-aware sentient being.

Hello Friends,

Some of you may know about the subject of this post, but some may not: Items are not what they say they are.

Even though "nut" is in its name, a peanut is actually a legume. Like soybeans, lentils, and other legumes, peanuts are edible seeds that grow in pods. 

Tomatoes are botanically defined as fruits because they form from a flower and contain seeds.

A strawberry is actually a multiple fruit which consists of many tiny individual fruits embedded in a fleshy receptacle.

A banana is an elongated, edible fruit – botanically a berry

Corn, Zea mays, belongs to the Poaceae family, and while eaten sometimes as a vegetable and sometimes as a grain, it is actually classified by botanists as a fruit, as are tomatoes, green peppers, cucumbers, zucchini and other squashes.

The avocado, alligator pear or avocado pear is a medium-sized, evergreen tree in the laurel family: Prized for its large and unusually oily fruit. 

Eggplant, aubergine, brinjal, or baigan is a plant species in the nightshade family Solanaceae. Solanum melongena is grown worldwide for its edible fruit. Most commonly purple. *

Many animals may not be in the family they seem to be (probably another blog).

 

 

 

 

 

*"Nightshade is a family of plants that includes tomatoes, eggplant, potatoes, and peppers. Tobacco is also in the nightshade family. Nightshades are unique because they contain small amounts of alkaloids.

Alkaloids are chemicals that are mainly found in plants. For something to be considered an alkaloid, it must contain nitrogen and affect the human body, usually from a medicinal perspective. Morphine and quinine are two examples of plant-based medicines that contain alkaloids."

Hello Freinds,

All kinky variations I and a partner can agree to enjoy, and what we may want to try will start with a simple premise: Are we comfortable making love to each other, and is it satisfying? If so, then we may embark on a sensual, sexual adventure and enjoy each other. You may mistakenly believe I have rescued you, but you have rescued me. From what, you may ask? From a sensationless, senseless, sexless existence. No wonderful feeling of bliss. No falling off to sleep completely content and fulfilled. No early morning joyful awakening. 

Now, we can walk on a beach or a mountain trail and feel like this world was made for us—for us to enjoy. Every day, ordinary things become extraordinary when shared. We can share dreams for a future together.

We then find we are not only comfortable without a sexual relationship but our love relationship as well.

Let us stroll amid the blossoms in the gentle spring rain, then snuggle by a warm fire to fend off the chill. And say, I need you, I want you, I love you.

My Friends,

Within our sphere of reality, we are free to see what we want. I could see dark rainclouds as a gloomy threat or as a blessing for my gardens: it is all in my ability to choose. I have had a saying (it could be a mantra) that something is never as good or as wrong as it seems. A newer quote is, "It is what it is." However, how I feel about whatever and what I do about whatever is up to me. 

I have often been teased that I make a science out of everything (LOL): Investigate, experiment, theorize, and apply what I learn to my life.

I see all the plants and animals around me ask questions and look them up. When I stand with a wide-open vista, I imagine the past and future, how it got the way it is, and what it may look like.

Entropy ensures that things will change, and I can not stop it. However, I can accept, adjust, and move on.

 “Thoughts become perception, perception becomes reality. Alter your thoughts, alter your reality.”

— William James

Hello My Friends,

When you become my friend, I want to help you in any way I can. I encourage you to do things that will improve your health. I try to support you when things go wrong. I find ways to get you the things you need—sometimes, the things you want. There is not too much I expect from you, but what you offer me should be freely given and not because I did something for you or gave you something. It need not be symbiotic. I may enjoy your companionship, and that is my reward.

Dedicated to the unknown NYU student who saved me when my music manager wanted me to be able to get to a studio at 8 am even though I was working until way past 2 am. He drugged me. I was out of control for hours. She kept me safe, had me sit in a chair, and fed me bread and water until I was able to leave her apartment safely.