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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.
1 month ago. April 6, 2024 at 4:41 PM

Hello Friends,

Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a real disorder that develops when a person has experienced or witnessed a scary, shocking, terrifying, or dangerous event. These stressful or traumatic events usually involve a situation where someone's life has been threatened or severe injury has occurred.1

CAREGIVER STRESS not true PTSD yet it can be bad too.

What are the psychological stress among caregivers?
Caregiving is rewarding but stressful

But the demands of caregiving also cause emotional and physical stress. It's common to feel angry, frustrated, worn out or sad. And it's common to feel alone. Caregiver stress can put caregivers at risk of changes in their own health.2

 

I now have to help care for my wife, and gradually, things are becoming more manageable, but I still have lingering stresses and aftereffects. It seems it will take time to approach a more normal feel of life. There are moments I want to sleep and other moments I feel like I should be doing more than I am doing right now. There are moments when I think I can do some things I put off and sometimes feel I should try to do it all at once. The bottom line? I need to understand and adapt to the new reality.

 

2 https://rb.gy/go92zd

1  https://mightypursuit.com/blog/what-is-ptsd/?gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjw5cOwBhCiARIsAJ5njuY83-yVk0BfJlqEC6NpSmbjTj6sk7DQJBb-cDff1mcEUsYgaS5rrcIaAnmNEALw_wcB

aradialspire​(dom femme) - If you can access caregiver support groups (especially locally, IRL), I encourage you. You'll face challenges as someone taking care of a loved one that others who are not doing this will never understand. The things you feel are valid, and sometimes they can feel pretty awful, but it is okay! It's just part of caring for a loved one who can't care for themselves.
1 month ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Having a bit of help, can cause a sense of overwhelming relief.
Therefore, you tend to get an emotional rollercoaster, triggered by not having to do it all by yourself anymore.
This will take time to come to terms with.
Just try to relax and allow the emotions to came and go naturally. Take some much needed time to allow for yourself to enjoy some of the mundane things in life.
Such as sleep, music, gardening, art, a walk, a drive, ETC...

1 month ago
Vacquero one​(dom male) - Took care of my father during the day time for five years. Damn humbling when the man that cared for you as a boy had to be dressed, fed bathed and taken care of.
Really hit me how thankful I was for every minute with my dad back then, when I would kneel down put on and tie his work boots for him. It was my honor to take care of and serve him, my Dad. Thank you for the post. Really appreciate the memory it unlocked.
1 month ago
Vacquero one​(dom male) - Good advice flit.
1 month ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - That is so honorable what you did for your dad @Vacquero, thank you for sharing that w/us.
1 month ago
Vacquero one​(dom male) - AD. My prayers and thoughts are gong out to you.
1 month ago
Vacquero one​(dom male) - Sir. If you ever want to talk about it you message me. Forgive me for being so selfish for not combining all of my responses in one message to you. My Dad had Lewy Body.
1 month ago

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