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A good girl's guide to submission

Hi there! This blog is written by a submissive who would love to share her story so others can learn from it (and so can I from you!). It's the story of a slave in training.
It's also a safe place for everyone to be what and who they want to be!
I hope you enjoy reading it!
10 months ago. January 18, 2024 at 9:38 PM

Welcome, hello! It’s very nice to meet you, fellow sub or honourable Dom. 


I want to introduce to you the beauty of submission from a submissive’s perspective. I want to share with each and every one of you that is slightly interested how amazing it can be - if done right. What it takes, what it costs, what you get back for it. 

I know there’s a vast ocean of blogs on this topic already existing on here, and an even bigger amount on the rest of the internet. 

So where do I make a difference? 

There have been several different Masters who admitted to my way of submitting being unique. I found my gift very early on in life, way earlier than most slaves do, and it’s been my life’s passion ever since. What I hope with this blog is to inspire other women, men, and everyone who doesn’t fit in those boundaries into fueling their own passion. Whether this be for simple submission, or full slavedom, or even to become a Dom of their own. Or even just to give people a small insight into the mind of a slave. You might not agree with everything I say. You might not be into everything I write about, and that’s okay. It doesn’t make either one of us any less. It’s just a story about a girl who enjoys serving. 


But here is a disclaimer: I’m still young, I’m still learning as well. I don’t claim to know everything, on the contrary, I’m convinced there is more I don’t know than that I do. It is a journey for me as much as it is for you. Yes, the title hints this is a guide. But not an absolute one; just more of a suggestion. It was actually inspired by one of my favourite book series!
So just sit back, relax and enjoy the accounts and thoughts of a submissive. 


Now, I think a proper introduction is in place after all these initial remarks. I’m a 20 year old submissive, slave and masochist. I can hear you thinking: she’s so young! Yes, I am. I’ve fallen into BDSM at the age of 15. Yes, that is underaged. But it’s the time where you learn all about sexuality. You start discovering your body. And in my case, I figured out quite quickly that I loved obeying commands. This evolved into finding out pain felt nice. 

When I met my Master at 16, he was also newly exploring the kink scene, so we learned together. We discovered what we liked, what we didn’t. At the age of 18 I decided I wanted to be his slave, to fully surrender to him and his needs. Master was overjoyed! 


And that’s the point where this journey starts. The becoming of a slave and the lessons I learned. The joys it brings, the love that it is. This post is really just an introduction. I won’t yet dive into any depths, but expect a full exploration very soon. I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoy writing it.
If you have any questions, or want to become my friend, you can always send me a text. I’m open for anyone (though please do respect that I am already owned, and there’s nothing that can change my mind on that). This is a safe place to be who you are, whoever and whatever you are! 


I hope we have a fun time together on this journey. 

Love, your subby friend 

xxxalexxx​(sub female) - When I read the fellow subs and honorable Doms- i immediately thought well damn I want to be called an honorable sub just to piss off the Doms and I know understand that I will never shake the brat in me
10 months ago
goodestgirl​(masochist female) - I feel this comment on so many levels. But isn’t being a brat part of the fun?
10 months ago
xxxalexxx​(sub female) - It is most certainly ALL of the fun hehehe
10 months ago
goodestgirl​(masochist female) - Noooo there’s also fun in the obeying part! (That will actually be the next topic I post about). But being a brat every now and then, and goofing around, it’s the besttt
10 months ago
I'mME - You stated that you were underage, so that answers my question of whether their are age limits in the Netherlands.

Your 'Master' is no Master.

As to getting to know you, you seem like a lovely young lady.
10 months ago
goodestgirl​(masochist female) - Hi, would you be so kind as to tell me why my Master would be no Master?
Yes, officially there’s an age limit on BDSM here. I know that. Master knows that. He was underaged too when we started. And it started lightly. A light tap on my bum. Some soft praise. And he would never do anything against my will. We were just two lovers exploring sexuality really.
Let me know what you think!
10 months ago
Jack in the box -

'ello and thank you for sharing young lady 🙂🌹
10 months ago

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