Drinfear's Ravings

 I recently posted this in response to someone's question, and thought it to be very insightful, as well as very well thought out, then I either lost it (always a possibility) or it was removed.. I do not know which, nor do I pretend to.. My view on Dominance is thus..

 Submission is a gift. PERIOD. Yes some feel the need to give it to others, but the fact remains, it is GIVEN.. Like trust, or respect, it cannot be DEMANDED.. It cannot be bullied.. All that comes from such scenarios is FEAR, not submission.. Fear breeds resentment, thoughts of escape as well as thoughts of revenge. 

 AS a gift, it can be given, but on the same hand can be taken away from someone not worthy of that gift.. I do not talk about the things I can or will do, I SHOW those in My life that I continue to remain worthy of these gifts.. Trust, Respect, Submission. 

 As a Dom, I fill 5 Roles in the life of each and every girl that enters My Household. Whether they ARE here, or were here 30 years ago, My dedication to My word has no expiration limit. I am still friends with girls I collared in the late 90's.. I always WILL be. I'll never be romantically involved with them again, but if they need a friend, they know they can pick up the phone and I'm there.

 My Roles, and the order of their importance, in MY opinion, is

1) I am their Protector. I prefer NOT to be a violent person, and avoid violence at every opportunity, BUT, threaten My Family, or back Me into a corner, and someone will need a LOT of one on one time with a very good doctor, a very good TEAM of doctors, or a body bag. THEIR choice, but keep in mind.. I ALWAYS live, regardless of the odds.. (Details available on request for anyone interested.. I will not go into My Family curse here..)

2) I am their Provider.. If My Family has a need, I will move heaven and earth to fill it, regardless of personal pain, or personal sacrifice, if it fills that need.. Many is the night I have gone to bed hungry so My Family had their needs met.

3) I am their Guide.. I get to know My girls better than they know themselves.. Usually by the time they realize they WANT Me to do something, I'm already DOING it.. Then get asked shyly 'how did you know..?' I get to know their hopes, their dreams, their goals in life.. Then I steer them along the paths that can make them a reality if it is within My ability to do so.. My goal is to make them the best possible version of themselves that THEY see, not what -I- want them to be..

4) I am their Friend.. A shoulder to support them, an ear to listen, an arm to catch them if they stumble, or a hand to help them up if they fall.. But I do not expect to be their ONLY friend, I urge and push them to find others.. Similar minds and individuals that share their outlook.. People to hang out with outside the Household, away from the Family, people they can be themselves with.. Natalie had a friend before we moved that she took days long road trips with often..

 Lastly, 5) I am their Lover.. I list it last, regardless of it's significance, HOW could I throw My girl down and ravage her knowing she has other concerns crowding her mind? How would SHE benefit from such actions? My girls KNOW they are seen, heard, acknowledged.. They are here with a purpose above and beyond physical wants or needs.. 

 This is just MY view on the subject, as I said. Flame away those that feel the need to do so, it will not change My view.. 

Dom

 He doesn't need to belittle, He watches, takes note and waits,

His patience has no concept of bounds.

 He plants a seed and watches it bloom, until the time is right,

Then her realization at the truth completely astounds.

 There is no confrontation, He makes of her no demands,

He merely makes a statement here or there.

 But the total comprehension as she realizes the truth,

Shows her how much He has forever truly cares.

 She can run and hide, and sometimes does, from this brutal naked truth,

His aura can tame the wildest beast..

 What chance does she truly have, when push comes to a shove,

The facts are daunting, to say the very least..

Unfinished..

Dom

5/1/25

Something that popped into My head recently and refused to go away.. Had to get it down..

 The word Loyalty provokes images of various extremes depending on the individual reading the word. Some may immediately focus on for better or worse, in sickness and in health.. While others may immediately focus on the aspect of remaining true to ones' self, as well as their personal aspirations and goals. Both are legit perspectives, however, how do they coincide within the lifestyle relationship? HOW can anyone besides the individual decide which is right or which may be wrong?

 Personally, I do not judge individuals. It is neither My purpose nor place to do so.. I have no clue as to their path through life, so how could I possibly, in all fairness, do so? Just as THEY have no valid point of reference to judge Me in MY path, having never walked in My shoes.. That being said, this post is more of a point to ponder, a question to the community.. Which do YOU prefer? Someone that would sacrifice hopes and dreams for their life to maintain a coherent bond with one they have devoted themselves to over years of devotion? Or one that would jump ship at the first sign of an issue to maintain their own independent loyalty to self at the first sign of upcoming strife..? Better YET.. WHICH type do you perceive YOURSELF as? 

 I have had the pleasure of spending the last 7 years of My life with Natalie, My little, who has had multiple chances to jump ship in that time. SOME of which even -I- told her not to pass up.. Yet I wake every day to see her smiling face in bed beside Me and couldn't be more thankful for her presence. I recently was approved for the Disability I applied for in 2022 due to an accident I was involved in back in 2007.. (details available upon request for those that may be curious) Even now, though I have given multiple chances to release her from the relationship, she remains steadfast. I know several out here that I have had the privilege to get to know that share our perspective.. Are there any others?

 I look forward to the community responses..

Dom

 Yes, for those in the know, I have returned after quite the unintentional hiatus.. Quite a bit has happened since, which I will not go into here, but I have returned, for as long as I am able.. I have missed being here, it felt like Home when I left, due to the small clique I had found to connect with.. But time marches on, so they say, and people slip in and out of our lives along the way, for good or ill..

 For those that may not know, My name is Dom, My history is in the blog record, I do believe, if not, feel free to message Me and I'll be happy to give it.. Looking forward to (hopefully) making new friends and catching up with those I lost touch with..

Dom

  Is there ANY sight as beautiful,
As a woman that KNOWS she is loved?
  That KNOWS you are there beside her,
When the push comes to a shaove?

  The way she melts against You,
The sighs she whispers in Your ear
  The naps together in each others' arms,
The way she lights up when You are near.

  So many perfect moments in life,
The ones only Your memories will show.
  Thar demure smile she gives, that light in her eyes
Tell You everything that You need to know.

  She gives herself to You completely,
Her love, her life is now in Your hands.
  Everything she is, has been given to You
Are You BRAVE enough now to be her Man?

Dom Jordan
10/28/23

Have you SEEN My eyes? That shiver you felt as you looked into them that ran like a jolt down your spine? In person? You can FEEL them like a physical weight running light as the wind, prickling your akin like an electrical charge as they roam over your body,, despite layers of clothes between then and your skin.

*I slowly let My steelygray gaze slide down from the top of your head.. Your feel their weightlike hundreds of tiny nails dancing across your skin.. Down your neck.. Across your chest.. As it starts to close in on My first prize, I smile and decide to drag out this delicious torment, watching the goosebumps rise across your skin as it passes, My eyes make large, slow,, lazy circles around your left breast, smiling as I watch you gasp again and again as the circles close slowly on the tip of that magical mound..  Circling the entire circumference.. Closer.. Closer.. Your breath coming harder, it reaches your aeriola making you grunt and gasp harder as it nears its destination.. Finally it stops THERE, and your left nipple JUMPS erect as of firmly pinched and a deep guttural groan forces itself through  your lips as you revel in the sensation.. I smile smugly moving My eyes down the quivering mound to the right across the heaving  breast bone goosebumps rising, almost popping like sprks, EVER so slowly SCRAPING  its way up the right breast to THERE making you cry out as your right nipple joins the left, both hard enough to cut diamonds..

I smile looking away so you can catch your breath for a moment, KNOWING the torment about to start.. Then looking back, I start tracing a line slowly down your chest to your stomach. You tense and twitch as My gaze tickles across that sensitive skin.. I smile as you start to squirm in your seat, KNOWING what's coming.. DREADING it, but NEEDING it from the depths of your being.. Lower.. passing your navel, My gaze GRINDS like sandpaper across your tender flesh the closer it gets to its destination.. You TRY to fight the need, gathering your determination with all your effort, you LOCK  your legs together.. Lower.. Your determination starts to waver.. Lower.. Your knees part slightly.. Lower still.. Your thighs part slightly more.. Crossing the very base of your stomach.. SCRAPING as they close in on their target.. You lose all your will, slowly opening your legs baring your innermost self to My scrutiny with a sob, NEEDING Me to claim your deepest self.. After an eternity, My eyes land THERE, making you SCREAM as a thousand tiny teeth RIP across your swollen clip, you have no choice but to surrender, screaming again as THE most intense orgssm of your life ROARS through your body,, Searing EVRRY nerve as it passes, from the top of your head to the tips of your toes in wave upon wave of pleasure, lightning crackles along every nerve, making your body tense and twitch  as your mind disconnects from all your senses but the pleasure pulsing through you to the very core of your being..
I watch a moment or two more, smirking  as My gaze lingers brushing it back and forth eliciting trembles and shudders as it moves.. Then in My deep guttural bass voice so deep you FEEL it in your bones mote than hear it, making your body twitch again as it triggers another wave of pleasure..*
'good thing you were wearing panties, little one.. That could have been messier'

  I KNOW I may not always say it,

Or show it every minute of the day..

 But LIFE isn't as precious as you are,

THIS is what I should say..

 Sometimes I can be a bit snippy.

And sarcasm at times plays a big part,..

 But NOTHING could ever take your place,

YOU have remade and filled My shriveled heart.

 The smile on your face when I kiss you,

The way you melt into Me when I squeeze..

 Lets Me know I am HOME and lose all doubts, 

Your love is like a summer breeze.

 I can't SEE a life without you now,

You have become the WHOLE of My world,

 I'm so lucky that you finally found Me

You'll forever BE, My babygirl..

I LOVE you, Natalie..

Dom

12/30/20

 YES, I 'consider' Myself a 'DOM'.. I have over 30 years now living the Lifestyle daily.. AM I? That is not for ME to say, it is what it is.. I have experience, but MY 'style' may not be E/everyone's 'cup of tea,' so to speak..  I accept this. AGAIN, it IS what it IS.. I have a plethora of experiences in My life.. Some good.. Some.. meh.. Not so much.. But I am evolving.. WITH the help of those in My life that push Me to be the 'best ME I CAN be'.. (My thanks to the PrincessFlitterP and the flitterfly for pushing ever harder..) 

 My ULTIMATE goal, and I write this as thunder is crashing in the locality W/we live in, is to be to be a leader in the Lifestyle I have dedicated My life to..

Dom

 Sometimes in life people enter Y/your life, some that are HERE for the duration, some that come and go.. SOME for the better.. Some.. Meh.. Not so much.. No MATTER the emotional connection O/one might feel to another, NOBODY is perfect.. No RELATIONSHIP is perfect.. Y/you might love the individual in Y/your life with every fiber of Y/you SOUL.. But T/they will NEVER be the 'perfect' person.. NOBODY is perfect. PERIOD. Some may be perfect for Y/you, but that is STILL not absolutely perfect..  I am fortunate enough to have one that had an established History of acceptance, trust, and belief in Me. She has proven herself over the years together, and despite the times she had offers which I TOLD her she'd be absolutely CRAZY not to accept, I wake up to her smiling face because (DESPITE My original prejudice to her AGE, which I felt might be too immature to accept someone so much older than she was) she KNOWS the value of Loyalty, Respect, and Trust.. I am the luckiest Man alive to have this woman in My life, and I am forever grateful.. 

Dom

 My Friend is, apparently, as Dyslexic as *I* am, HeyLittleOne, your film is actually SEVEN.. 

But just in case He was being ironic, My Friend, YOUR movie was The Secretary.. (LOVE James Spader)

 'The Universe can't handle ONE of Me..'

Thanks for the challenge, TKP.