You know you would think that is being the year 2024 there would still be hope for humanity. That there are signs of intelligent life out there and yet all I see are reasons and excuses for the need to have warning labels. Sometimes I think and feel that the Spartans knew how to continue their culture correctly.
Still I look to the people in our community with the utmost respect because here I find the most open minded and forward thinkers. So it still amazes me when I come across people who write things in community groups that still think in such an archaic backwards and selfish way:
I can't give my submissive girl oral, because that would be an act of submission on my part.
I won't allow my subs to cum, because they are not worth it.
Why would I give pleasure to something that's beneath me?
My sub should not feel any pleasure because as the Dominant, I am the only one who is supposed to feel that.
I mean seriously? First off this screams massive insecurities. Secondly just how selfish you are. Clearly a taker and never wanting to give in a relationship. Thirdly if you think a submissive is not a human being worthy of respect then youre just an abuser in my eyes.
You need to remember that a submissive is a role they step into. A decision THEY decide to make in order to please and serve. It does NOT make them less than you. It does not make them unworthy of love, affection and respect.
I may choose to kneel, to serve and please but I am still your equal no matter what. Treating me any way outside of the agreement of our dynamic will never be permitted or tolerated.
I also want to add if you feel that pleasuring your submissive is an act of submission then who really is in control of that dynamic and relationship? What about forcing them to have an orgasm? Wouldnt that be your choice? What about making them be silent and endure you going down on them for as long as it pleases you no matter how sensitive and overwhelming it can be?
Isnt part of being a Dominant to guide, protect, help your submissive grow? What if I told you that for a lot of people an orgasm is a great way to be grounded. A great stress reliever? What if I told you that having orgasms at the hand of your Dominant makes the submission deepen?
Perhaps some more self work is needed on the part of the Dominant that says these things and believes these things? Some introspection.
Now if you have agreed to that sort of Dynamic more power to you. If that is what you need and desire then there is no judgment. I have simply in my past been with men like this. They arent my cup of tea.
For me its a two way street. I am eager and happy to serve and please your needs, desires and wants. However I as a person, a woman have needs as well and if you arent willing to reciprocate in the dynamic and relationship for this tango dance to work.
Well Sir...There is the door!!!
