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Under The Whip

A place where a humble blind service submissive can calm her mind and clear out the corners with her thoughts, opinions, stories, experiences, and tribulations.
5 months ago. November 15, 2024 at 6:06 AM

I was ffering support to someone in a Submissive forum. Not on here but on Fetlife. Her Dominant is a switch and he wants her to Service Top him and she was having a hard time wrapping her mind around this. 

 

So I did as any good person would do, and offered her my advice and my support. I kindly told her she could add me and chat about anything at any time. She was happy to make a new friend but then two seconds later. 

 

BAM.....You have been banned for ONE week because...Waah you made a friend. 

 

No where in their rules did it say I couldnt offer to be a support system for someone. No where in the rules did it say I couldnt add people or have them add me IF THEY WANTED TO. 

 

Are we seriously back in kindergarten?  So Fuck Them. Keep me banned, you have really kicked my desire to return to being a Kink Educator, Mentor, and truly a Support System in my community for fellow Submissives like me and who need genuine friends and not anyone just looking for  afast hook up. 

 

Anyways that jsut really bothered me, and honestly it didnt accomplish anything for them. I still got a new little friend and she and I are going to be support systems together and I wont ever let her feel alone in this world. We submissives have to stick together and lift each other up in the moments that we can. 

 

*hops off her soapbox*

Jack in the box -
I don't really go on FL anymore but last time I did it was kinda cringe ?
(Looked up an old friend)
5 months ago
BunnyBites​(sub female)​{HoK} - Yeah, but I have started to help my Masters build a nice little community of genuine people. So that is something good coming out of it.

Just the cesspool of drama and stuff is just annoying to me. Regardless I am about to make my own group on there and actually try to help people.
5 months ago
Jack in the box -
You are one of the good ones ???
5 months ago
BunnyBites​(sub female)​{HoK} - Thank you. I appreciate it.
5 months ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - FL has a click and they don't like outsiders much unless you're showing your tits and saying little. Your Ban was most likely the ones who see you as a threat and FL isn't much for checking on facts. Ban first, make the member jump through hoops, maybe unban the day before the ban ends ?
5 months ago
BunnyBites​(sub female)​{HoK} - They likely did because I was the only one the girl replied to in regards to advice and how mine was insightful and really helped her. I appreciate what you said, and the fact you read it and commented. Thank you. Made me feel a bit better.
5 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male) - FL is definitely different. I am in a group from where I use to live in Tennessee. I only communicate with them and maybe a few strays here or there. It is not like chatting on here.. good for you and making a friend continuing to show support.
5 months ago
BunnyBites​(sub female)​{HoK} - I mean after I got banned my Master Calvin did go over their rules with a fine tooth comb because if I had violated a rule I would have gotten in trouble and been made to apologize, but he said I did nothing wrong. There was nothing in the rules and the OP was the one who reached out to me first about chatting. So I wasnt just trying to start something.

Oh well, I made a new friend, and I got a great laugh and something I could share with everyone here about it. I appreciate you leaving a comment. Thank you so much.
5 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male) - You are very welcome
5 months ago
Voldemort​(dom male)Verified Account - FL sucks.
5 months ago
Voldemort​(dom male)Verified Account - Like someone said above as long as you are flaunting your assets you're all good.
5 months ago
Ingénue​{VK} - Glad you found a friend. Those can be useful.
5 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male) - Without snickers lol
5 months ago
Ingénue​{VK} - Smirks
5 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male) - Oh yeah that too......lol
5 months ago
Ingénue​{VK} - See? So many options.
5 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male) - Lol
5 months ago

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