I was ffering support to someone in a Submissive forum. Not on here but on Fetlife. Her Dominant is a switch and he wants her to Service Top him and she was having a hard time wrapping her mind around this.
So I did as any good person would do, and offered her my advice and my support. I kindly told her she could add me and chat about anything at any time. She was happy to make a new friend but then two seconds later.
BAM.....You have been banned for ONE week because...Waah you made a friend.
No where in their rules did it say I couldnt offer to be a support system for someone. No where in the rules did it say I couldnt add people or have them add me IF THEY WANTED TO.
Are we seriously back in kindergarten? So Fuck Them. Keep me banned, you have really kicked my desire to return to being a Kink Educator, Mentor, and truly a Support System in my community for fellow Submissives like me and who need genuine friends and not anyone just looking for afast hook up.
Anyways that jsut really bothered me, and honestly it didnt accomplish anything for them. I still got a new little friend and she and I are going to be support systems together and I wont ever let her feel alone in this world. We submissives have to stick together and lift each other up in the moments that we can.
*hops off her soapbox*