DidiRN(sub female)

New journeys and new beginnings

This is where I share my random thoughts and feelings as I go through this journey of self discovery and change.

Change can be scary, but it is a good thing. There will be positives and negatives, the trick is to spin the negatives into positives and learn from everything.

Hopefully sharing these things will help others who are going through similar situations, and at the same time give the readers a chance to get to know me.

"Who in the world am I? Ah, that's the great puzzle." Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

Another year gone by

1 month ago. October 11, 2024 at 10:55 AM

It's my birthday. There, I said it. I'm a whole year older. Yay me!

For as long as I can remember it's been treated as just another day, and even if plans were made they always ended up cancelled or forgotten. I get it, life happens. In the grand scheme of things I am not that important, and I know it. It's like Spock says "The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few, or the one". Sometimes it still hurts though.

That could be why I threw myself into work harder than normal this week, even agreeing to stay late Saturday morning to help out. I'd rather spend my time helping others sitting at home with my thoughts anyway.

I need to get out of this funk. Does anyone want to share a favorite birthday tradition or memory?

The Kinky Poet(other male) - Firstly I hope you have a great birthday, sending birthday wishes across the void.
My b'day thing isn't very jolly but I spent my 50th paralyzed in hospital so now each birthday Is a reminder of how long I've been paralyzed for.
I hope someone brings you gifts and cake
Love and light T.K.P xx

1 month ago

intenseoldman(dom male) - Happy birthday 🎂. There's phone calls from the kids bu no one around for cake and ice cream. I just go out treat myself to a good dinner, and raise a silent toast to me.

1 month ago

amalthea(sub female){Mr Gregory} - Happy Birthday!!!! My birthday is around Thanksgiving. I always watch Elf.

1 month ago

Mr Gregory(dom male){A&P} - Happy bday! I hope you have an awesome day!

1 month ago

Ingénue{VK} - Happy birthday!

1 month ago

Susie Q{Daddy Ant} - HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! I know that it seems like only words but you are not alone! Throwing confetti all over you and sending the best vibes your way! Birthdays are in the heart. My birthdays haven’t always been fun but gratefulness for another year to be you….thats the gift. The best birthday I’ve had was by myself watching a Harry Potter marathon! All sorts of junk food and all day in my jammies!!

1 month ago

Sweet Ginger(sub female){⚓ } - Happy Birthday! 🧁 you are the most important person in your life!
I usually buy a little something special for myself and or a little extra pampering..I hope you find a way to treat yourself today! 💕

1 month ago

trappedperhaps(sub female) - Happy birthday 🎂🎁🎈🎊🎉. I recently celebrated mine also. Went out to eat dinner with family. It was kind of a shot show as couple members felt the need to be high & really not present. Won’t make that mistake again. Birthdays not necessarily mine, have always been a big deal for me. I say find something you absolutely love & make a tradition doing that every year so your prepared for what’s to come ❤️ best wishes ~

1 month ago

Six Foot Four - If it's any consolation, I haven't had a clue when my birthday's rolled around the last...while. Folks usually have to tell me. Happy birthday to you! *hoists a drink in your general direction*

1 month ago

VagabondD - I know I'm late to the party but better late than never. Happy Birthday. A toast to you young one.

4 weeks ago

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DidiRN​(sub female)

New journeys and new beginnings

Another year gone by

DidiRN(sub female)