The Grump is Here

I am walking through town minding my garden when something catches the corner of my eye. For a second I think "did I see that ? Nah I didn't , yes yes I did " and I stop in me tracks look back to have a gander and there it is ....the glimpse the fleeting second the chink of broken societal confines. 

She wasn't dressed in a ball gown like, nope, not rocking a power suit ,nope , nor in a weeny tiny bikini nope nope. She was just dressed. Mrs Plain Jane pushing her buggy trying to duck n' dive through the crowd. Yet I saw. I saw what I saw. She had bent down to adjust something in the buggy and in that moment of bending her hoody had risen up slightly and her jeans had stretched downwards at the hem but it was enough to put the spotlight on her bright pink knickers that allowed the  very top of her ass crack to peek out and I had seen it by default by pure accident as it was where I just happened to be looking at the very moment ! 

This millisecond of a flash made me think how much I love the concept of more is less especially when it relates to my kinks my love of BDSM. It told me as if I needed telling how much I enjoy the little details the small moments in BDSM that for me go beyond kink and go into the realm of lightening bolts to my thoughts . 

Quick introduction to me : dyslexic sarcastic Irish Dom very comfortable with my Dom persona and make no apologies , the thin skinned may need to not read !

So as a come and go over the years cage resident I have always been open-minded to talking to all walks of submissive females and indeed those who are dommes who allow themselves talk to me and are not afraid I'll try to get into their knickers ! This attitude I have of I'll talk to you has yielded some cracking conversations some friends some submissives and some filthy feckers giggling like a demon. There then came a thing a trend I began to notice where my chat was becoming shorter on the benefit for both and definitely was beginning to exclude me ! 

Ahh shite I thought I'm just a non battery dildo here to some of the 'submissives' who engage and then get bollicked up knock out one and feck off like fox at a hen house filled and happy out . 

I began to get less energy to chat to find myself as they say pouring from an empty cup . 

Oh I know and I am very aware of the things the protections etc a submissive needs to engage in here in order to be safe and rightly so. So maybe I'm unlucky that the 'submissives' I've started to bump into recently are takers pure joyride takers , get their orgasm and piss off to sleep happy out tensions eased that fecker at work no longer annoying them. 

So my smart arsed attitudes here will probably piss of some but I'm relating my experiences and I'm not sugar coating them to make those offended not cry in outrage. I'm saying I have a lot to offer and taking from me all the time has become tiresome and fuckin made me wary and cautious which I fuckin hate.