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The Inner Workings of A Serial Submissive

1 year ago. October 13, 2023 at 8:23 PM

I received a very kind message in my inbox from a sub, telling me that she could help me find a Dom. I asked if I looked like I needed help, to which she replied a resounding “yes”.  🤨      

 

I began asking how she thought she could help me, and she quickly asked what other apps I have.  I asked if she could tell me what Doms would fit my needs and she told me that they were not to be found here, but in her community in Florida.   TRUSTing isn’t something that I do, so I have been asking many questions.  

 

She told me that the Doms in her community would travel to me once I spoke with her on a different app. I am TRUSTing that I am not the only one that thinks she is full of shit.  

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - Hmm..that's an interesting message..appreciate you sharing in case others also receive it. I would go with my intuition..do you know her?? Have you seen her active on blogs, forums, chats etc.. her profile etc.. perhaps she is trying to be helpful just as anything else online when you don't know someone be cautious..and... if you do happen to meet "Mr. Dreamy Dom" in Florida 🤭🤭 pleases kindly share and ee if he has a brother. .. :)
1 year ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared} - I have never seen her before, until she messaged me out of the blue. She obviously has not read my profile and cannot be for real.
1 year ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - Exactly 👍
1 year ago
Becsen​(sub female){Owned} - I've received the same kind of messages, saying its urgent information - that there a lot of creeps on this site. And that she can connect to trustworthy Doms in her community. Thank you for sharing!
1 year ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared} - I asked her how many subs that she has “helped” get a Dom and she said thousands.
1 year ago
Becsen​(sub female){Owned} - Hah 😂
When she said she could connect me to "reliable trustworthy verified Doms", I said I wasn't interested because I'm not looking (and I didn't TRUST her ofc, and wanted to see what she'd do). She went on with "So you'll keep finding creeps here".
1 year ago
I'mME - Lmao.
1 year ago
Purĕ​(sub female) - I am a bit offended now, that I didn't received that caring message of wanting to help me find a Dom 😪 #sarcasmOff
1 year ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared} - I will happily forward on your info. lol
1 year ago
A Minx - 🤔 Hmmm ×2... there are scam apps out there that can steal your personal information and, yes, even online bank account money once downloaded, if you do not have the app they want you to use; PULEEZE do your due diligence on this!

Especially, if it's an 'out of the blue' contact or you do not know that person. I don't care how kind they may seem, I would say be very wary of downloading any app because 'someone' is tantalizingly dangling a nearby Dom in your face - I think the Poo Meter is at high alert on this one! Take care and please remember to always trust your gut!
1 year ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared} - I was immediately skeptical and have no intention of doing anything she wants. I have even contacted admin about her
1 year ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - Although my original post was meant more tongue and cheek, I didn't initially catch the part of this "helpful " person requesting you download another app.. I personally would not download any app some random person requested.. I don't download anything without checking and re-checking, especially, if you don't know this person, I would exercise caution..as I mentioned previously always go with your intuition and stay safe.
1 year ago
A Minx - So sorry about my rant there dear SG, Blondie only mentioned a "different app" (which she may already have). It just freaked me out to see her post, unfortunately fraud is so much a part of life these days and wish that wasn't the case. A relative recently had >$20K sucked out of an account due to a scamming device, the work done to recover money, tamp down feelings of absolute violation and working with authorities and credit companies was massive!! I'm only trying to be a proponent of cautiousness in most things online. I would not wish any heartache on anyone (well, read that as most people) in this community! 😇
1 year ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - No need to apologize..the blog post didn't sit well with me and I reread it prior to seeing your comment and I agree..we all need to keep ourselves safe..predators come in all shapes, sizes and genders.
1 year ago
Bunnie - Definitely sounds shady 🤔
1 year ago
Notely - Yup we all got weird message mine was few years ago this Dom wanted me to message this girl for him he had prem it was free when site first began as he said. But when you get someone from know we’re no blue prints no nothing to good to be true like ignore delete even report it does not stop them block. Screen shot it if you have to you have to go to profile to report them at the bottom.
1 year ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - Yeah, I received one of those a few weeks ago someone wanting me to mail someone else because that person had blocked them.. if you were blocked it probably was for a reason..don't mail me with your childish drama..
1 year ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared} - I have reported her and screen shots were sent
1 year ago
TigerBDSM​(dom male){looking} - Seen it, heard it, had it done to those I know..
Due to my being FOREVER HOPEFULL in believing people in life, ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE.
That said, odd that someone random determined that you get to be blessed with this wonderful gesture! You must be a superb person in the lifestyle AND the person offering KNOWS you deserve the UNLIMITED quality they offer in Fla.
Yes, you probably are of quality and deserve the same AND yes all genuine offers are great to get. Key word genuine.
However, when offered anything that might be wonderful (even if you truly qualify for it) you should always wonder...oh, why me?!
Hoping for success, and be prepared for failure.
If nobody ever hears from you again..then we all know you went to the promessd land of "PERFECT BDSM LAND" never to return to us normal folk..LOL
Side note the admin is good at spotting bad trends and if cognizant of them will research and respond. If fraud, then many are frauded, hence a viable trail.
Again hoping for success, since good thing DO happen in life.
Be well and enjoy the lifestyle!
1 year ago
intenseoldman​(dom male) - Coming outta Florida--that's a scam alert in itself, luring you to another app with the promise of a traveling dom from some finer stable than this? Easy as Doordash, a Dom on your doorstep... 🤔 did she mention anything about their sub finder program?
1 year ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared} - She did not mention anything about sub finder. I can ask, if you’d like. lol
1 year ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - Hmm.. a doordasher sub/Dom finder 🤭 sounds more like a job for Grubb 🤭🤭
1 year ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared} - Hahahahahaha.
1 year ago
Notely - Comment deleted by poster.
1 year ago
A Minx - This... is... YOUR... BILLION... $$$... IDEA! and, yes I am shouting! 😊
Must build in Rewards program too!
I say, 🏃 with it! (you're welcome, and when you finally go public I will def buy a bunch of stock!) 🤣
1 year ago
SouthernFire​(sub female) - Oh yeah she messaged me this morning. Got on my nerves very fast and ticked me off. Glad I'm not only one who thought it was all weird.
1 year ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared} - I thought it best to share with everyone just in case anyone should take her seriously
1 year ago
SouthernFire​(sub female) - Our conversation didn't get as far as yours. Before my coffee I have no ppl patience. So I cut her off early
1 year ago
Notely - They say that they help you find a dom or sub and its forceful thing has been a scam from like 13/16 years ago even from the alt and collar me days never know who could be gana scammer or someone just trying to get thier hots on. They pretend to be a couple or widow guy make a girl talk to others it happens even on video games. Just sharing. When they act forceful sweet talk but know effect yes its a scam know one ever ask who they meet you unless the person meet you at a club not just coming from stanger message out of know were.
1 year ago
TigerBDSM​(dom male){looking} - Success!
The beauty of a tight nitted group/site.
Often a bozo faction flourishes due to people not speaking publicly.
BRAVO to everyone AND Cage!
1 year ago
TigerBDSM​(dom male){looking} - Thank you.
1 year ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared} - I am currently just playing with her. It’s kinda fun. lol
1 year ago
TigerBDSM​(dom male){looking} - Please stop. Unbenouned to you they know how to play back (24 years online experience)
Best to move on and utilize your time on things worthwhiled. You time is more valuable elsewhere.
View it this way, a cancer has potentially been stopped. Will reoccur again, but as the cancer is killed quicker and quicker it eventually move elsewhere.
1 year ago
Love Sir​(dom male) - Did she also represent a Nigerian Prince who needs your help moving money in exchange for a substantial payment?
1 year ago
slaveMikayla​(sub female){MstrJ } - HAHAHAHA I am definitely following you, but it took a different tack with me. I shut it down too quick to get to the bait apparently. ;) I TRUST everyone else will too. ;)
1 year ago
MsDove​(sub female){Eternal Pi} - Creepy. There ARE some great people here and some creepy ones. That's life. Doubt if the writer was actually a sub.
1 year ago
MsDove​(sub female){Eternal Pi} - Did you report them to the Cage?
1 year ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared} - Yes I did. I sent screen shots of the conversation
1 year ago
MsDove​(sub female){Eternal Pi} - Thing is, the person will just show up under a different account.
1 year ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared} - Probably, but hopefully we can make it harder for them to get anyone because we are talking about it.
1 year ago
Becsen​(sub female){Owned} - The person has now written to me again. Same account, but now as a Dom male "seeking a connection".
1 year ago
Blondie​(sub female){Collared} - I see them on here every now and again. Hopefully no one is taken in by them. Admin doesn’t seem to want to do anything
1 year ago
I'mME - At the end of the day, these scummy scammers have infiltrated every space online. That tells me it's lucrative, I have not seen any numbers but let's say out of 10 people that they try scamming out of money (let's face it, it's always about money) they manage to actually scam 2 people. That could add up very quickly.
I was scammed off of a YouTube commercial about three weeks ago. A wifi booster paying the shipping. I finally received the booster, noticed the lack of information on shipping receipt but I thought it it didn't work, then the seven dollars was a wash. A few days later during my 2-week check of my bank account, there was a charge of $82.45 for a Off Road Bicycle something. I immediately called the number, and got a supposed 3rd party customer service company. After trying to get information from this rude (I'm sure part of the scammers network) she says she 2ill cancel my subscription. 😳 I replied, so you will be refunding my money to my account. She said, NO, we don't give refunds. Without hesitation, I replied, you will be doing this one B____, then I said "Lady you lay down with dogs you wake up w fleas. I hung up.
Afterwards I thought, what subscription? 🤷
I called back the next day, and I'm pretty sure I got the same person on the line. I said, my next phone call is to my bank, so she said she would need to check with the company. She was back in less than 30 seconds, with an offer to give me 40% back. No is what I said, then I was offered a 70% discount for my family to use the store. I asked what store, lol and NO. This is where it gets good, she tells me it's a recorded line and tries to strong arm me with the following. We will refund your money, if you agree not take this any further. I thought WTH, these people have lost their minds. So I reply with, "Yeah, sure, whatever!"
I repeated my dog quip. End of story, correct? Nope. I miss a text message from my bank asking me if I tried a charge of $59.04. (bc of all the scummy scammers who send garbage, I only glance at my texts every other day or so) %hey block 5h3 card until 5h3y hear from me, so it was only when I tried to get gas, card wouldn't work, and I check my bank account. I see that charge with a different business name beside it.
So all of that created a situation where I had to get a new card. I called them people back and it was useless trying to communicate with bc they are scummy scammers, but I did get a name for the supposed store that I had signed up for subscription.
I googled that and pages and pages of people that had complained popped up. I read a few of the complaints, all similar stories. Someone buys something small and no S/H fee. The amounts were varied, but seem to hover around $100, and every single one had at least one more attempt at charging another amount.

I asked the bank why didn't they catch the first one, I didn't get an answer.

I apologize for the long story, I wanted people to know that no space is safe. As far as I'm concerned Google is YouTube and as such they support scummy scammers.
The End

1 year ago

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