I don't know whose writing this is, but truer words could not be spoken...
Few will understand the life they live,
It can't be reasoned, only felt by two souls joined as one.
All who see them, know what they have is something different, something special.
Very special.....❤
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The Master is an artist ,
His slave the clay,
with the whip He will shape her ,
with humility He will mold her,
Some will admire her,
But only the Master,
Not even the slave,
Will know her true beauty
for her true beauty lies in her love for her Master.
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The embers glow brighter
As fingers trace faint circles
Around hardening nipples
Heart pounds faster
Breathing quickens
Hands move lightly over sensitive skin
Legs part
Fingers push past soft petals
into the wetness
Only to find fire burning
Pushing shoving invading spaces
As need grows
the fire burns hotter
memories, images invade her mind
as fingers explore deeper
finding release
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Take being a Dom out of the equation for a moment. Because in my opinion, you cannot be a true and good Dom, if you are not a good man first.
A real man treats a woman, first and foremost, with respect. Every person deserves to be respected, man or woman, by the mere fact they are a human being and it is a basic human right.
A real man has integrity. And that means, being strong enough in character to be honest. Honest about himself, honest about his situation ... just honest.
I consider myself a feminist, to a degree. I believe in equal rights, the right to choose our own lives and paths .. you get the gist of it (I hope). A real man gives a woman the chance to choose for herself, knowing all the facts before entering into a relationship with him. As well, as when things evolve in the relationship. Be man enough to just be honest, not ghosting her, playing cruel tricks, leaving her confused and hurt.
One who is brave enough to tell the truth, face the realities. He does not take that choice away from her. Forcing her, unwittingly to make a choice based on a lie. A real man owns up to his mistakes.
Lying is a choice. It is not an accident. It is deliberate. It is the act of a coward.
I have watched friends here be lied to, myself included, blatantly lied to, omissions, fed half-truths, or completely mislead, tricked and treated cruelly.
Sadly, some here are only masters of one thing ... deceit and cruelty. Over-inflated egos. You are not worth the time of day. There are many better men out there that will most happily step up and show her how a real man treats her and enjoy her and you won't even be a spot of dust in their light.
To the men here who are deceivers ... I say "How dare you!!!???" How dare you try to isolate a woman from her friends? How dare you lie, trick and mislead? How dare you play with a woman's heart and emotions like they have no worth?? Who do you think you are??
I will tell you ... you are spineless, cowards and weak. Not even CLOSE to the measure of a real man. And most definitely not a good and true Dom.
A real man treats with respect, caring, love, kindness and honesty, even with the knowledge she may walk away. But at least you can both have your dignity intact and it is based on truth.
A real man makes the choice to do the right thing, not play games. These are REAL lives, REAL people, REAL emotions, REAL pain.
When you have these qualities and live by them each and every day, then you can consider yourself to be ready to be a good and true Dom.
Unfortunately, those who need to read this won't. Sadly, they will just move on to their next victim. You know who you are!! And if you don't, well...if you are doing any of the above to a person ... hopefully you'll feel some guilt and step up and just do the right thing.
And to the good men and Doms here, please .. keep being who you are. Women, subs ... need you! They need to know there are good men and Doms out there. And when you know of a wrong doing, reach out and let them know ... it's not cool. Be a mentor.
Yes, I am angry today. Angry that my precious friends are in pain and I can only console and help hold them up until they gain their strength and confidence again.
To those who cause such pain, I'll leave you to your imagination as to how I'd like to use my sword on you.
Better yet, BE A MAN!!!
A REAL man!
... feel so safe and secure...like no other.
Sometimes, a picture can describe the feeling more than any words.
Thank you Daddy for taking such good care of your babygirl.
The countdown continues...5 days until I am in your arms again
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This is not my writing, but it certainly gets to the heart of a Dom and his sub, and certainly spoke to me of late due to outside pressures ... enjoy.
When your submissive is in pain, whether it be physical, or emotional, or maybe feeling the often unjust pressures of life, that is when she needs her Master/Daddy, to love her a little harder, to hold the leash just a bit firmer.
She expects and needs her Master/Daddy to give her their strength and quiet resolve, to help her overcome the pain within their body or the chaos inside her mind.
They look to us to always keep them in that place they so much cherish, at your feet as your dutiful and honored submissive.
The same trials will at times also come to visit their Master/Daddy as well. In those moments, he needs his loving submissive to show her devotion, her immense inner strength gained from his guidance and devotion to her.
This is the real reason that leash has two ends, so we can also pull ourselves closer when he feels his need for our support and comfort.
Always saying what needs to be said and felt, even when we think it should go without saying, say it anyway. It’s called reassurance, and no matter how strong or unbreakable the bond of love, both still need to hear their undying love and loyalty.
True Mastery and submission can read those needed moments like an open book.
When a Master/Daddy is so blessed to have a submissive with such keen and loving insight, as I am so fortunate to have, she will gladly give you her strength during those trying moments, as you do her each and every day. This exchange of power inspires her to be even deeper in her subservience to you as her King.
Those two ends of the leash……sometimes, both must tug a bit harder to show their faith and devotion to that unbreakable bond, found no place else on earth.
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We've all had them. I'm sure every sub has had at least one .. and at the time, we feel awkward or embarrassed. What do I speak of??
Well ... ACCESSORY MALFUNCTIONS!! 🤣🤣 and sometimes... you just have to laugh!!
I've had these chats with a couple of my sub-sisters in the past and we've always said we should just put it out there. Hey ... life happens! And sometimes, while awkward and embarrassing in the moment ... it's funny!!
So ladies!! I'm putting it out there!!
My most recent one took place late last night.
Daddy and I were enjoying a very nice play time. Daddy had instructed me to be ready with my vibrator, my dildo (aka anaconda 🤭🤭) and my mini wand. Ooooo! Triple stimulation!! My favorite!!!
After some time of playing, Daddy says it's time for it to go into my ass ... yeeesss!! MMmmmmm ... I am enjoying .. immensely!! 😏 My rythym increasing and more forceful... yes! "So close Daddy!" I shout! Yes! Yes! ... Wait?! What?? Wha?? At the most inopportune moment ... Uuummm Daddy??? .. uh oh Daddy ... I broke my vibrator!!! YUP!! BROKE IT! In 2 places. First at the spot where the realistic part of it ends and the controls start and tore the rabbit off almost completely! (Poor little rabbit ) 🤣🤣🤣
Bursts of laughter from both of us!!
Giggling and jokes ensue, then carry on!
Things happen! And girls … we’ve all had them happen! I know I’ve had a few!
From breaking vibrators (RIP little rabbit), to sun dresses flying up over my shoulders in a gust of wind while walking downtown (when not wearing panties).
To lace painties falling down my hips while walking to bus to work, trying to grip one side of them through my dress to keep them from falling all the way to my ankles, praying 🙏 there's a seat so I don't have to stand taking the chance of them falling again in front of everyone around me (to explain…I had lost a fair bit of weight..apparently too much to wear them anymore).
To sitting at my desk at work and my butt plug flying out from a huge sneeze (yes, that really happened)😳 squirming and maneuvering in the most strangest positions while trying to get it back into place, because I don’t dare stand up from my chair as it’s tangled in my dress .. again, no panties to catch it! LMAO
We’ve all had some kind mishap or accessory malfunction, that Doms (sorry in advance) haven’t got a clue what we go through for them!! And … sometimes … you just have to laugh because it's just damn hysterical!
Bdsm does not always have to be serious and protocols. The handbook 📕 (wait … there’s a handbook??) never told us to expect these situations and how to handle them with lady-like decorum. We get embarrassed and awkward, thinking we’re the only ones it’s happened to. But in chatting with my closest sub-sisters … alas … I am not alone!!
Come on girls ... 'fess up!
Tell me about your accessory malfunctions! I've told you a few of mine!
Care to share?? 🤣🤣
Part of this is from a previous blog of mine .. but now expanding on it ..
The mind of a sub is quite a curious place. Just as I’m sure it is in that of a Dom, yet so very intriguing to me. I can only speak on my experiences as a sub. I would love to hear the perspective of a Dom.
Much of a submissive’s emotions are affected by cause. Who or what has caused a particular emotion to surface has a great effect on what we feel and how we react.
The willingness to please, the desire to be nurtured, to grow, to be the best version of ourselves, all while having to balance this raw primal emotion with the everyday. Not being able to discuss with close friends who would definitely not understand, the fear of being judged – it takes a strong individual to choose this lifestyle.
Submission can be very difficult, it‘s a mental discipline fed by the desires of the soul.
Subs don’t choose to be wired this way, we just are, and the same goes for Dominants. Our desires are conjured in the depths of our soul, which in turn, engages the mind to command the body.
A D/s dynamic has all the ingredients to be highly charged and emotional from very early on, all while still learning about each other. Dealing with the fears and insecurities of past experiences and personalities.
As subs, we need our Dominant to have an awareness of what a sub actually has to deal with and the difficulties that we may face.
When we find ourselves lost and confused in our thoughts and feelings, we count on our Dom to first help calm our fears. Then help us look at it all, talk through the issues and help us come up with a solution or plan of action when those things happen again. When we do that, we grow together in our dynamic. Having a better understanding of each other and triggers, helps our relationship grow stronger. It is not easy by any means. People say and do things in reactions to things or circumstances. They are our coping mechanisms. Feelings get hurt (yes, even Doms), disappointment happens, which, unfortunately perpetuates those fears and play on a subs emotional well-being.
The willingness and desire to entrust the most cherished parts of our being in the form of body, mind and spirit is to feel a deep level of commitment. That level of commitment can only come from both Dom and sub being willing to open up about themselves, their thoughts, their fears, their lives. How can trust build with someone we barely know?
When the lines become blurred, it’s very easy for confusion to set in. Consistency and a commitment to the betterment of the relationship is what maintains a harmonious balance.
I recognize how quickly and easily our thoughts can go in a situation or how a feeling can spiral. Taking us to the worst case scenario of what has brought it all on. We over-think, over-analyze and yes, we're emotional, it's what makes us subs.
A Dom once told me of His awe for his sub's inner strength to open herself to be as vulnerable and exposed to Him as she does. And how He realized He was equally responsible for being as open to her as well.
He also mentioned He was often forced to ponder who actually serves whom? He explained He sometimes struggled to draw a distinction; but realized the beautiful thing is that He didn’t have to – A good Dom also knows how to serve.
So to all those struggling and finding your way ... take a deep breath, you are not alone in the way you feel. We all experience it.
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Heck!! Just this mental picture should produce a short chuckle! 😆😆
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... because sometimes, he puts up with all this !! 😆
Heeheehee 🤭🤭🤭
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