Understanding me.

Why?
Do some Subs change Doms weekly? Do they not want to invest time in getting to know someone, only wanting instant gratification? Do some say they are with the love of their life, and say they are committed to them and then break up happens, two days later they are professing their love for their new Dom, being collared instantly. I don’t understand this at all. I came into this wanting to learn. I was very cautious. I spoke to Doms and gained protection from one, who is my dearest friend. He vetted the “Insta Doms” I was able to find my Dom, my Bishop. I did not go into it lightly, there were many talks before the thought of us becoming serious, and even a year later we are still working through the gauntlet.
I’m kind of ranting today. So I apologize for this not being in a perfect format, flowing from beginning to end. It’s kind of a 2 part rant. Part 1 is what you just read, switching of Doms as if they are tissue paper. Now for part 2. I shall call it “ I need to be spanked,- But i’m not your Dom”
There are some Subs,not all just some. Want an instant relationship. They want to be worshiped (but don't we all). These subs start calling the prospective dom as “Sir” without his permission, perhaps he would want to be called something else, and save the “Sir” for a relationship. He continues to chat with prospective sub. She starts making demands. Wanting tasks but in sexual manner only. She wants to get right into the sex part (which is fine if both parties if want just sex) She tells him she needs to be spanked. OK? Why? Because she likes it. There is no reason for him to spank her as he’s not her Dom. When he tells here enough is enough she gets pissy and angry and then feels attacked.
What about the Doms that want to have a relationship. That want to build not just play. Shouldn't there be a progression to see if one is compatible? Why are not the Doms needs heard out also.? I've seen so much of the “me, me ,me”
I just wanted to rant about this as it hit home.