Name' sake

She walked like forever

And smelled like dreams

And smiled like a promise

And shined like heavens gate

I still remember, there was this girl . . . 

To all of you who have lost someone dear, and I know many of you have - you must understand - death is as much a part of life as night is to dawn.

When you fully understand this, it gives a certain comfort - we are all only here for a limited time. 

Yes, I know it hurts when they went before their time, or what we percieve as "their time" - but in the grand scheme of things, life is fleeting.

Smell the flowers, rejoice that in the now, you are here - breathing, feeling, seeing all this world has to offer - for one day you will join them in being just a memory.

I will hold you, and weep with you - for I too have lost loved ones - many in fact. But please continue, for your story is still being told.

Know that you do not suffer this pain alone.

I was watching a video yesterday (for research purposes 😏) This girl was spanking another girl with a leather paddle. Pretty hot, right? Well the thing is, the girl being paddled was smiling and/or giggling almost the whole time - Sometimes at the girl, sometimes at the camera. Now I know nervous laughter is a thing - But what made the video un-fun (I mean, not suited for my research) was that the girl seemed impervious to pain.

It wasnt like that "play spanking" you see either, the girl with the paddle was "beating" her ass hard.

After a while I said to my screen "well at least PRETEND it hurts ffs!" Lol. (she eventually did)

It seems curious to me, even though our human bodies are basically the same - blood, muscles, veins, nerves . . . How vast the spectrum can be of "reaction"

I had one girl (smartass little bitch) (god I miss her 😏) I would take the hairbrush to her behind - hard and fast - when I stopped she would say "when are you going to start?"

And another girl, start crying in pain when I raised my hand to start, lol "Wtf? I havent even hit you yet??"

*Sidebar here - im not one to try and teach anything to anyone - there are far more qualified individuals here that do a fine job at that - but know this going in to your first session/s young Doms/Dommes, peoples pain thresholds are different, and their reactions to pain are different. Go sloooooow!

ok, where were we? Oh yes - so after I cleaned up from my research I started thinking about this - what governs our ability, or lack there-of - to handle pain? 🤔  Is it the constitution of our bodies? Or is it the mind? Is it both?

I know this subject has been studied by many people, but ive never seen a real, satisfactory conclusion. Theory mostly.

"Shut up Pavlov! Just shut up!"

In a "typical" situation - "oww! That hurts!" And one would do what is necessary to stop the cause and see if attention is needed to the hurt area.

Butt ☝️

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More random ramblings

Good morning peeps!  👋🙂

I remember this little hole in the wall dive bar I used to go to, to drown my sorrows.

Tuesdays was quarter draft night. Yes, draft glasses of beer where only a quarter way back then. And you could still smoke in a bar.

Sometimes my father-in-law came in and we'd shoot the shit till the wee hours - oh my god that man could drink! Its like alcohol didnt effect him.

Mostly I remember playing pool in the back. I got quite good - in fact I would usually run the table. I became "the guy to try and beat" - im not bragging - simply the truth - I was that good.

But there was this one guy - Al , oh how I remember Al. Smooth gentleman, quiet type - He would beat me every single time. People would actually start gathering around to watch Al kick my ass, lol.

Closest I ever came to beating him was we drew a tie one game.

Anyway, this song on the jukebox was one of my fondest memories of those days - takes me back.

(yes kids, jukeboxes where actually a thing)

Plant a seed, and watch it grow 

and die

And reap what you sew

And deny

And live your life to and fro

And lie

Seasons come and go

As you and I

Counter cancer cells

With diatribes of 

Soon you'll be well

But in the end, my friend

Well, we know

"So tell us Jack, what is the most recent thing you've learned?"

"well teach, today I learned how to play snooker"

"very good young man"

"Now who would like to go next?"

When a man is aroused in public its exceedingly obvious. 

When a woman is aroused in public, no one knows.

A woman can say to a man "how big are you?"

whats a man to say? "how deep are you?"

Men are pretty straight forward - stroke stroke stroke stroke splat!!!

women are, mood and lighting and emotional harmony and endurance and planetary alignment and timing and strive strive strive strive splat!!!

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Men are ready to go at "baby, you look good in that"

women are like "what have you done for me lately!??"

Men are like "mmmmm"

women are like "pig!!"

Men be like "baby I have a headache, can we fuck?"

women be like . . . . . . 

Men be like "thats it! Ive had it! Bend over!!"

women be like "I dare you!"

Men be like "I love you baby girl"

women be like "I love you too Daddy"

Calamari is squid

And sushi is raw fish

And caviar is fish eggs

And

Men are from Mars

And

Women are from Venus