It is my belief that women know who they will give a chance, and who they wont. I put my self out there the best I can - and wait.
I no longer wish to chase, just for the sake of chasing.
Also, many profiles say "not looking", I respect that. And many profiles do not show at least a resemblence of who she is.
So I just put in my profile, contact me if you like what you see.
It has been said I could be missing out - I suppose that is true - but I have also been on sites like this for well over 10 years.
Ive had my share of "no response"s - rude responses, and even threatened on one occasion (2? ?). The stage, as it is set - man chases woman - gets tiring sometimes.
New world standards - old world modality.
It is curious to see the difference between when she responds to me vs when she reaches out to me.
35 to 40 messages on any given day - rude comments and dick picks. I do not wish to stand in that line.
I have made some amazing friends - People who have reached out to me, and yes, some that I have reached out to.
I believe (hope) my love will find me - and she will say "that is the man I want".
I have been contemplating this alot lately -
Am I missing out?
*Addendum - it would be sorely remiss of me to not mention the dear sweet angels that have reached out to me - thank you ⚘