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Thoughts of a sub whose seen too much in her young life.
4 years ago. October 2, 2019 at 11:26 PM

So I have had a very hard time accepting I'm a little.  I don't know why I am but I am. I struggle with it often and try not to let it show but someone today asked me "are you sure you're not a little?" Which of course took me by surprise. How can something I've been fighting so hard be so obvious to someone else. He tried to encourage me to embrace but for some reason it's just so hard. I am a mom with responsibilities, how am I supposed to embrace it with open arms? 

 

But than I see a lot of you posting about your little side and it really does encourage me to try and embrace it. So I just want to say thank you to all you littles out there who make it look fun and okay to accept. I'm sure I'm still going to struggle with it for a little while but here's to embracing who I am.

 

Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - I think you possibly fall under the little/middle spectrum which is more of a angsty teen rather than a younger age group. I too struggle with my little side and fight it because there’s been so much bad stuff I’ve had to deal with how can I POSSIBLY just let go and relax and still PROTECT my little side? The rest of me never got that privilege in life so why should that side of me? But then I think of it the other way too, I need to give little me so much MORE of everything I didn’t have growing up for exactly that reason as well!!🌈❤️ Hope maybe this helps a little? HUGS AND LOVE
4 years ago
Pandabear​(sub female) - I might have to agree with you on that one and hugs are always helpful!
4 years ago
Manda Panda​(sub female) - I know how you feel. I have 4 kids, ages 10 to 16, and I'm a little/middle. It's not easy being a parent to teens and embracing my middle/little side. I try by doing things with my girls, like makeup and play games with them. I have my stuffie from when I was a kid. I don't have any "middle/little clothes"; I don't really know what my middle/little would wear.
Anyway, msg me anytime if you want to just chat about our littles and being moms, or anything else.
4 years ago
Pandabear​(sub female) - That would be amazing thank you so much!
4 years ago

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