I often try to explain what is in my head. Sometimes though, I am not the expert of my soul. Sometimes it is someone else who describes your affiliation so well, that you just need to share it. I was lucky enough to find such a perfect description of something about myself I analyze often. So much so, I needed to make it part of my story.
This is not about me specifically. It is just a powerful statement about my life as a submissive. Thank you to SeekingOne (whom I have permission from to repost) for vocalizing this in such a resounding way. Original blog linked below.
To me the alpha female is strong, confident, and can stand on her own two feet. She is in charge of her work life and sometimes even her home life. She has to make all the choices/decisions so when it comes to relinquishing sexual control behind closed doors she needs a Dominant male. Someone that can see her strength and not be afraid if it but rather embrace it. He knows she can choose to submit to anyone but she chose him because she feels his strength. More importantly she submits because she respects him and trusts him. The alpha female knows he can guide them together without her feeling “less”. Her choices at work are out of necessity and her need to thrive and provide for herself and/or her family. It’s her way of protecting them. When she submits behind closed doors she is feeling safe because she knows the Dominant male she chose will protect her. It’s her turn now to feel safe, loved and let someone else take the reins without giving up her independence or self-worth. Her value is not diminished by submitting but instead increased in the relationship. She gives the gift no one else gives him and that’s a bond no one else shares but the two of them.
Trust, respect, feeling protected and loved. These are all the things an alpha female desires in order to submit. Unfortunately some confuse this with being a brat and don’t understand it’s just her strength and independence shining through. She is too strong for a weak man who thinks she is a brat.
I smile knowing my girl is a strong, independent and fierce woman .......and she is all mine!!
For those that feel being an alpha submissive is being a brat......I’m laughing in your faces 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
(EVEN INCLUDED THE LAUGHING FACES!! BECAUSE THEY ARE SO TRUE!)
Link to original blog by "SeekingOne" Thank you for the simple, yet powerful, definition of this submissive style.
https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?postid=44204&blog_id=8268
