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5 years ago. February 18, 2019 at 9:54 AM

wtf...

Im going to do something I don’t normally do but here goes.  The Muse is going to vent.  There may be cussing. 

 

I am on my second 12 hour shift.  By the time Monday night surrenders to Tuesday morning I will already have 36 hours for the week, with three more work days to follow.  Scheduled overtime.  

I normally would not mind this if: 1. We had the adequate amount of staff to support all the residents, 2. The residents were not flipping the F out tonight (seriously), and 3. I don’t know... I’m sure I’ll think of something else. OH!!! 3. If I were getting paid as much as all the other Medication Aides ... as I have been here longest, have more responsibilities and train those coming in... who get paid more... brand new.

So I come in to work at 7pm and discover that I’ll be in charge of not just one unit but the entire building for our busy shift. And by the way, Muse... you are only going to have three aids total to help care for the 60 residents while you pass meds. 2 of the aids are required to be in the unit with only 19 residents. That leaves myself (whose busy passing meds) and one aid to care for the 40 residents remaining.

I have one resident with a cognitive impairment... peeing all over the common area living room. Another resident cussing because he can’t go poking around inside the nurses station to find his glasses at 2am......And another resident who keeps messing with his urostomy tube so that it looks like a murder scene every time we go check on him.

 

Im sooooo done.

I just had to vent.  I love my residents and I’d love to not be stressed out so I could deal with all of this.  I’ve managed to have patience thus far.

Satindragon - All I can say is I will pray for you. It takes a special person to care for the elderly. You and the other people who do this kind of work are truly angels sent from above. Hang in there.💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
5 years ago
Thecharmedmuse​(switch female){My Wildman} - Thank you, Satin! It just keeps ..... on... 2 more hours. God let me keep my patience. And good humor.
5 years ago
Satindragon - In prayer for you. Lord please give this wonderful lady the strength to do this job she loves. Make the last two hours quite and easy. For I ask.this in your name, amen
5 years ago
Thecharmedmuse​(switch female){My Wildman} - Amen!
5 years ago
Finished​(switch female) - You truly are an angel! Please feel free to vent at any time! We are here for you just like you are there for all those lucky people at the residence! I’ve been a home care worker in the past and can relate a little of what you’re going through. People who care for others on the front line never get paid enough - not just for your time, it’s the emotional attention you give to each patient. It’s exhausting. Rewarding but exhausting. You will never get paid enough and yet you continue. I just wish the powers that be recognized how difficult it is and provided adequate help so that each person doesn’t risk burn out. Why they think that proper care doesn’t deserve to be property compensated I’ll never understand. Just because it’s a profession mostly made up of women and we’re supposed to be the ‘caretakers’ doesn’t mean we should taken advantage of.
Ok... I guess I had to vent as well. Sorry! It’s why I got out of the biz myself...
Make sure you make time for self care! 😸😸❤️❤️
5 years ago
Thecharmedmuse​(switch female){My Wildman} - I often consider doing something else. It’s sad when it isn’t the work or the people I work with ... it’s simply the managent.
We are currently without a director of nursing (again).... I’ve been there for nearly three years and I’ve seen 6 directors come and go. The next one will be 7 and will come in and try to change everything and really at this point it’s hard to say what procedures we are to follow anymore. *sigh*.
Thank you for your encouragement.
5 years ago
Loulou​(sub female) - Hugs 🤗
5 years ago
Thecharmedmuse​(switch female){My Wildman} - Back atcha 😘
5 years ago
SchrodingersDinosaur​(switch female) - *Hugs Muse*... There is a reason you are our Queen, and it's not that you have awesome taste in music (which you do) or write steamy and fun erotica (whewww... Henna's revisited Gothic Parts One and Two a couple of times now...) or poke little masters and dominos with pussy boobs and slave drives. It's because you go out of your way to check in on, support, and care about your peoples, both here and in the real. You are a fantastic queen. Chin up or the crown slips (but if it does you have an emissary and a bunch o other happy sycophants ready to help you out!). 😘
5 years ago
Thecharmedmuse​(switch female){My Wildman} - You are very sweet to say, Henna. I’m keeping my chin up. 😘
5 years ago
SchrodingersDinosaur​(switch female) - You just let us know when you need a hand with it, your royal subjects are here! 😘😘😘
5 years ago
Satindragon - I hope tonight is better than last night.
5 years ago
Thecharmedmuse​(switch female){My Wildman} - Tonight has been stellar thus far. I want a tee shirt that says “Handling it!”
5 years ago

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