Some of you may have noticed I have changed my role from sub to switch. I was considering just being quiet about it but after a couple of suggestions from friends, here I am.
I feel like the change is most appropriate and honest; especially the way I view D/s relationships. Different people bring about different aspects of my personality.
My first D/s relationship I had been more dominant but I identified as switch back then; leaning more towards sub. I had fantasies that were more dominant in nature. I tucked all that away for many years.
After the narcissist dom that I had, I made the decision to lock away my kink for awhile. My last Dom brought it back.
I am still a “pleaser” and will always be, but I have found that it goes well with caring for someone more submissive.