Climbing to Amazing heights means risking amazing falls. Those wondrous places we seek to find carry hot knives, both on the journey and at the destination when we slip. Tread carefully your path. Sometimes you think it is those around you who have let you down. Sometimes it is. Sometimes it is ourselves who allow us the luxury and folly of fleshing out the hidden parts we don’t see. It’s a delusion based on what we want most in another person, which has nothing to do with them. But do you recognize it before it turns to ash in your mouth? Open your eyes not just your heart and mind. The heart longs for something, the mind may imagine it so... the eyes will see it as it is. If it is not established fact then do not believe your lying mind. Don’t read into words what is not there. Dig deeper! Better to risk upsetting the person they are than to allow yourself the pain of falling in love with what you wish they were. The person they are is usually not so terrible that you couldn’t love them anyway if the qualities you seek are truly present. If they are so picky then you don’t need to be with them in the first play do you? The right Dom or sub for you is the one who accepts the true you, right? So, make sure you are accepting the true them.
It’s only fair and honest, so remember that as well.
PappaBear
