Ropes

The lie of independence.  It makes us stable , it makes you depend on know one.  It helps you to stand on your very own two feet.  Very good very nice . So now what can anyone offer you that you can't do for your self. It is a path of loneliness and a take no crap from anyone.  This kind of relationship teaches you to not need anyone.  That all find and good.  So tell me how do we form bonds of togetherness,  how do we grow together and know that our partner is there no matter the hardship.  See when you set out to this path you are taking the problems of your world on your very own shoulders.  That is still a good thing.  But we must see both sides of the coin. To not need someone to not trust anyone but your self . You are setting the bar so high that no man ,Dom or Daddy will be able  to reach.  You have reached your goal alone.  So who do you celebrate with.  The one that showed you this path.  If logic  dictates they will not appreciate your movements the way a life partner would,  if you leave them then they will be ok with it because they don't need you. See when you have a partner that has grown with you and loves you like no other . Then you have truly won in your goals and accomplishments because we were here to witness it .This is really just an opinion.  We all have them .
But my way, my path forms bonds that will last a lifetime with your other.  Your personal path all you have is your self. After all that is what ypu wanted. Or is it .