Ropes

When it is all said and done and the world is perfect. 

I will destroy you in the most beautiful way possible and take you into my self so we can be just one. ..

I have figured out why somethings break. Why we don't last. Why the entire world splits. It goes back to my key elements. Trust and communication. The pouring of the foundation. The bedrock of our future. This is something that must be built by us both. Not just the dominant. The dominant must create the world that we will live in and the submissive must add her beautiful and creative spirit to the mix. It is a would that must be built together.  

See most foundation are made together but poured separately. That creates a thin line between the two, leaving room for a potential fracture that can one day break us apart. We must pour together , mix together and completely meld. There can be no my side and your side. It has to be only an us. Nothing else will survive the test of time. You must communicate with me talk to me. You must trust me. We have to hold one another up for good times or bad . But it has to happen. We are our foundation. We are as strong or as weak as what we create together.

Hope this helps somebody.

Good luck. 

Today the darkness senses my weakness and it attacked.  It has always been a cruel friend,  the only companion I have . One that will never leaves me. Like Mercury in the cut , it is toxic to the body and plays tricks on the mind .

Then the sky lit up due to a coming storm . The sky was beautiful with its blue ribbons decorating the dark clouds. 

I yelled to the lightning,

" don't look down on me , you claim to bring light ,yet all you are is refined fire that destroys anything it touches" .

  It's hard to walk into the light when your world is so dark . I have given all my light away.  Who will light my path . Who will help me stand back up .  : I reach for the sky to grab the lightning.  To my surprise,  it reaches back and strikes me with all its ferocity and fury and shocks and burns  my body .

It tried to kill me , it failed.

I still live I yelled!!! It struck again.. it whispered to me. It said, silly man, I am not trying to kill you , I am showing you pain to prove you are alive . I have given my light to you,  now stand up and be the monster you need to be .

I start to stand .. as with anything ,I do it my self .
I look at around to see my surroundings.  And I notice something moving. 

She said to me ' hello  sir , my name is Delilah and I am your pain. I am the gift of light and I'll be yours forever.  She drops to her knees and bows her head.  I put a finger under her chin to make her look up . Her eye are filled with darkness and tears. 
She has always been a cruel friend one that never leaves me.  Then the sky flashes again and she was gone .
I hear the ever so slight a whisper. I am always here for you sir . I just wanted you to see my beautiful darkness and to show you I am not bad.

I am a Daddy Dom who's sadistic side is being born.

I am feeling dark .

I have learned new things about my self . A silent discovery if you will . A voice that has always been there . A noise in my mind . Something has been given light . It has been fed again.  More pain, more anger and rage . That is the fuel for the monster inside me. It is coming to the surface and wants to be heard.  It is a strick and very domineering voice that like to take control. As the Daddy sleeps the anger and rage take over . I have to regulate it and make sure it dose not destroy everything around me . I know there are women out there that take this from me . And enjoy this person, this voice, this being.  With a look ,I have your attention,  with a signal of my hand you kneel. Allow me Into your life , let me take your pain and worries of the day.  Let me feed that Masochistic need inside of you. We will survive and we will feed eachothers demons.  So come and let's play.  

This is what the voice has said and this is what I have learned.  All of me need to be fed or else one takes over.  I must find balance in my self and soon i will become a very good and balanced DaddyDom.  

Seems we all have to continue our journey. 

I just want to start my life.  I have been going through the motions for the last 7 years.  Do this ... be that. The is how it works. I am tired.  I am ready to break free from the constraints of this reality and I will start my own. I will never be held down again.  I will never fall to the vanilla world.  I have broken free from the chains,  the very chains I put on my self . I have removed all obstacles and useless emotions , like fear and resentment.  I have embrace my true Daddy and a very Dominant self . I have once again grow and have been reborn again.  I have found the inner strength and have push on through my hurt and pain and used my rage and anger to find a new self . I am now a Daddy that knows love and discipline . I use this to keep the respect of my Sub and little. 
I have gather the ones that will love me and I have shown the love of a Daddy.  It has attracted the future I have been after .  I have found my             sub/littles.  It was in a place I never thought to look . Never new you where so close and so far away. Two parts of the world. I know we are now on a collision course and I can't wait.

We as Doms , again I must step in and now we must talk to the D types .

I know we have the plan ,I know we must have obedience.  It is imperative for our growth and well as our subs . They must trust in us correct... yes .

So what do we do when there is a problem.  Something that happens when things go on behind the scenes out of our control.  Don't throw blind orders and expect a submissive to remain submissive.  She is bound to us and in our heads remain a submissive.  So when they turn from us and we don't notice. What do we do.  Barking our orders won't solve this issue.  We need to see what is going on . We need to ask questions or step up to the new challenge.  Nothing ever stays the same . We are in an ever evolving world and our relationship move just as fast. So if there is a problem or our Sub turns from us to others . Who's fault is it . Well it's obvious.... it is your fault... the Dom. Why... the reason I hear .... she is to hard to train, she is not learning, she keeps acting up.. she is not a real Sub. All theses things are our failures ,they are our let downs . Why again is It our fault,  because we choose to lead . And bumps in the road are our responsibility and consider that she is following us . So if we go off road... yup you guessed it ....she is going with us . It is our responsibility to care for our sub. We must be there . That is the trade off .  She does it on her own for so long , rules her world all day and all night.  She does not want this . She is the beautifully crafted Independent woman who does not want to be alone in her beautiful journey and she has chosen you.  All of you Doms , Daddies/Mommies and Masters. We are in control and in the driver seat . So of we fail to do this the yes she/he will look elsewhere,  that is how our world is . The relationship is always up for negotiation and if we fail we loes our treasured Sub our love in this world.  Sometimes we lose our partners.  I imagine this happens in the vanilla world as well but here we had warnings,  signs because we are not with out communication,  we have her trust . That is why it hurts them so much and why it hurts them more than us . She believed in us and trusted us . And when we fail there whole world has the potential to crash down or she will take control again.  Remember what a Sub truly is . She is not some girl that will suck your dick at the drop of a  hat( well she is but...), someone that is weak .... that is completely wrong . She is the strongest women ever . She is a queen. And she will walk away from us if she loese faith or trust in us . Our job is very hard . We must tend to our subs . If we don't then we will ultimately lose her/him. Every thing has a reason,  every thing has an effect.  At the end of the day we must be able to see or she will start her search again and again.  She will fall into a loop that will make her believe the next destination is better and she will never see happiness in front . She will never stop looking.  That is a sad day when we fail because it makes our sub independent and she shows off her strength. Then we complain.. moral of this is . Be mindful of her feelings and her wishes.  She will ask and ask and ask.  But when she has had enough of you taking,  she will stop giving.  And then my friends.. it is to late . So let us keep watching and if you can help others do it . We are a community of kink. We rely on this community,  full of drama as it is.  

To pave a new road over the old one is sad and sometimes necessary for our growth but it is a sad thing to do and offers little for our mental well being. So we must do better.

So good luck and chose your sub wisely and make sure you match. They come in many flavors so make sure she reflects what you want back . Be ready to adapt if you want to keep her. 

I my self have gone through some changes and I am ready to go again.  Goodluck all .

Good night all .

The lie of independence.  It makes us stable , it makes you depend on know one.  It helps you to stand on your very own two feet.  Very good very nice . So now what can anyone offer you that you can't do for your self. It is a path of loneliness and a take no crap from anyone.  This kind of relationship teaches you to not need anyone.  That all find and good.  So tell me how do we form bonds of togetherness,  how do we grow together and know that our partner is there no matter the hardship.  See when you set out to this path you are taking the problems of your world on your very own shoulders.  That is still a good thing.  But we must see both sides of the coin. To not need someone to not trust anyone but your self . You are setting the bar so high that no man ,Dom or Daddy will be able  to reach.  You have reached your goal alone.  So who do you celebrate with.  The one that showed you this path.  If logic  dictates they will not appreciate your movements the way a life partner would,  if you leave them then they will be ok with it because they don't need you. See when you have a partner that has grown with you and loves you like no other . Then you have truly won in your goals and accomplishments because we were here to witness it .This is really just an opinion.  We all have them .
But my way, my path forms bonds that will last a lifetime with your other.  Your personal path all you have is your self. After all that is what ypu wanted. Or is it .

So finish it. All things that live in this world die.

That's why you must find joy in the living while the time is yours. To deny this is to deny life but to embrace it will make you stronger than you think.        I  will embrace my pain, i will embrace my anger. I will turn it inwards and devour my self. I will set my heart on fire and electrocute my mind. I will crumble and die erasing the last vestiges of my former self .
From this we can arise a new and once again wage war on a world that has rejected us. Stand strong and let us unite as the kinky people we are and burn the way forward.. so follow me .As long as you choose to do this I will never abandon you. I am a Daddy for all that need me .

I wrote this for some one special and I am sure it helped them for . So I leaves there words for you as well if you ever decide to talk with me. It is called The Rest.

The Rest .

We go to bed and we wake up .  Maybe we wake up and go to bed . Kinda a chicken or egg scenario.  What we do with either situation,  sleep or waking moments means something.  When we rest and close our eye we are dreaming of possibilities and new avenues of life and an unlimited number of what ifs. That is why it is important to sleep so we can attempt to make this come true or a semblance of it .  So when it's time to wake we leave the worries of yesterday where they are.  Nothing that has happened can be fixed . Only what we do today can make a difference in our dreams and our tomorrow's. 
So please little one.  Sleep, dream and one day the world will be right.  Just never stop moving forward and I will hold your hand in your dreams even of you dont see it , I am there .

There are my words for you. 
From me to you .

When we discover our selves as Doms we walk in this world with a plan.  Some times we need blind trust. Yes I know but as our sub take the time to know us and learn that we can do it trust in our ability.  I know not all of us Doms are up to speed but learn to tell the difference between us . If we have a plan trust it . If we say it will be ok , then it will be . Leave it to us to fix things in progress.  Nothing that begins will end up the way you exactly wanted it . We adjust and compromise.  We shift our views to be better.  We create a movement in our hearts and minds . We strive to make the world tolerable for our beautiful subs . If its possible don't try to change things to your way . If you wanted things your way then you would not need or want us Doms . So let us work for you so that you may rest when you get home.  That way we can be your focus and better serve us .
It is a give and take .Trust and communication trump all .  Just know that as a Dom . I truly care for all you beautiful subs. I truly mean that .