Protocol - A rule or rules that people practicing BDSM agree to follow.
I guess for me this would be mine and Masters contract. Before we moved forward "for real" in our relationship we established or contract. Its detailed and everything was agreed upon and discussed in detail. This was the beginning for me and started me down my learning path. Best thing I ever signed!!
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Pro Domme - A woman who is a professional top and dominant.
For this topic I have no nonprofessional experience with this... meaning I can be dominant in my professional life... but not what I prefer personally. I can if forced into the situation... but not my comfort zone. I respect women that can take this role... even admire it... but I'm turned off by a submissive male.
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Play Party - A social gathering where guests can engage in BDSM activity.
So I have lots of questions about this topic. Is a play party exactly how my brain is interrupting it? Is this an orgy? Or is this a gathering where you can observe, you could meet people, or you could join? I'm serious... Educate me!
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Play - A term used to describe the BDSM acts themselves.
I use the word Play alot!!! I am always asking Daddy for more playtime! But play is very specific for me... that means I want Daddy to let me be naughty!! Play means sloppy wet and down right nasty!!! I wanna get that look in my eyes of pure ecstasy!!
Yes please!!!
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Munch - An informal meeting or party, often at a public place, where people interested in BDSM can mingle.
I would love to have a munch! I would love to be invited to a munch! How exciting would it be to actually mingle and talk to others like myself... in real life! I've never talked to anyone other than master about our lifestyle. I think it would be so interesting to have a conversation with others. An open forum where we could all have a question and answer session. I love chatting with peeps on here but it would be cool in person too.
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Masochist - An individual who likes or becomes sexually gratified by their own pain or humiliation.
The definition in the vanilla world was not sexual at all. It just meant that it was someone that loved to punish themselves. Not until I met Master did I ever realize that I could enjoy sex and pain at the same time. I also believe 100% that if Daddy hadn't introduced it to me the way he did...I would have never tried it.
The term always meant something to me...but in the way of constantly punishing myself emotionally...which did cause physical effects. Through Daddy I have learned to channel that and direct it to pleasure. I'm forever grateful...
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Male Dominance - BDSM acts when the dominant partner is a man, also called maledom.
I've never heard the word maledom...but ok. As for male dominace itself is just such a turn on. I love to see a strong man. The kind you can tell is proud of his...his self, his lady, his family, etc. The kind that doesn't even know how sexy he really is. The kind that's in control naturally and proud to have his lady by his side.
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Master - The person who has control over a slave in a consensual master-slave relationship.
I am very familiar with this term. My Master is absolutely the best thing that has ever happened to me. My life has changed for the better the minute he became my Master.
I still struggle with not feeling worthy of his love and guidance. I still struggle with how to handle it when he becomes displeased with me. It’s different from any other relationship that I have ever been in. In all other relationships I was right in everything...even when I was wrong. I stood my ground until they would give in and apologize. With my relationship with Daddy...I never want to be in that position of discomfort or have him upset. I don’t know how to undo whatever I have done to make him upset with me. I don’t care about winning....I don’t care about losing....I just want him to be pleased. When I fall short....it’s debilitating. How do I show him that I’m the strong woman that he fell in love with but I’m also the woman that is completely and utterly his. I fall short of the perfection he deserves....
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Kink - Nonconventional sexual practices. BDSM is often referred to as kink.
This topic really made me think.
in my prior life (before Daddy) the work kink to me meant something taboo or just for private thoughts. Nothing that I would have ever acted out in real life. That thing that you think about and could never talk about. That thing that your very religious family would have never spoke to you about. That thing that you crave but never thought you would have it.
Now to me reading that definition....that’s just weird. It’s saying that my current sex life is nonconventional ? I’m sorry...but I have to disagree!!! I think my old life was the nonconventional! Everyone should have the right to know the beauty of our bodies and how they feel when intertwined with someone that your soul is bonded to...that’s where the magic is. That’s what my definition of kink is...
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Impact Play - A type of BDSM play that involves striking the body. This can be done with a hand, paddle, cane, whip, flogger, or other instrument.
My first experience with the topic was with Daddy. Before he ever did anything, he prepared me. He discussed what he would like to try, how he would do it and then he let me decide. When it happened I was still stunned but the amount of intensity it increased my orgasm was what was truly stunning.
I never would have imagined that pain mixed with surprise mixed with pleasure was so incredibly unbelievable. Hell... before Daddy I didn’t even realize that I could have an orgasm without touching my clit!
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