Regarding messages sent to females (this female more specifically)
my “hard no” limits on messaging:
1. If your initial message is 3 words long. ?
2. If your initial message is 3 words long and they are spelled incorrectly. ?
3. If your nickname, message title, message itself mentions your dick and/or dick size. ?
4. If the bulk of your initial message contains information about kink or fetishes. Is your boner typing or are you? Yes, we are on a BDSM website. I personally do not wish to dish out the skinny of what I’m into to every Dom I meet/chat with.
5. If your initial message contains a photo that suggests you may currently be residing in your vehicle. I understand we all have hard times. But go ahead and put the keys in the ignition and head the opposite direction bc I personally enjoy a man with a residence.
6. Unless you come Pinot Grigio, please do not tell me you can “own me”. It just is not going to happen!
...the messages that I love are the ones I receive that feel genuine...
asking a a specific question about something I wrote in a forum, blog or on my profile..
taking time to to share information about yourself as a person, and asking me questions about myself.
I love to hear from someone who is just genuinely inquisitive, interested or willing to share about themselves (vanilla parts, I want to know you as a person, then may feel comfortable/interested in sharing more details).