TL;DR

Metaphor, feeling, admission, feeling, humor.

There. You just read fifty percent of everything I write.

Cheers.

Justification

5 years ago. November 22, 2019 at 2:10 AM

I told myself I would write here every day no matter the topic.

I wondered if I would choose the title first or write the subject.

I wondered why I choose to expel my word vomit here rather than the comfort of a friend's welcoming ear.

I wondered what end will justify these means and now my imagination is going.

Y'all, work sucks sometimes. It drains me of the person I am and challenges me every. damn. day. There are so many times I feel fortunate and rewarded to be doing the work I do. I really do enjoy it, but sometimes it's just exhausting. Outside of the normal work related complaints is just one, one that I see mirrored in my writings here thus far.

All of my training and education is unfocused and broad. I excel in the things I want to do, but I don't have the resources yet for further knowledge.

That said, anyone who reads this that has a knack for public speaking, please reach out to your friendly neighborhood Moxie. I learned today that I don't have the, well, moxie to address groups about unrehearsed material.

Cheers, you beautiful kinksters! May you fare better today than I did!

(I still had an above average day, that means I'm wishing nothing but good for y'all.)

Oh, and a picture...uhhh,

Here's a twofer!

SchrodingersDinosaur(switch female){N/a} - Don't best yourself up for the public speaking thing, Moxie. I suppose there is the rare person who comes out of the womb ready to address the masses but for most of us it's a learned skill, that takes a hell of a lot of practice. And I'll let you in on a secret, even those of us that do appear to have it down still get nervous prior. I personally don't barf but it isn't uncommon.

And since I'm on the 'Blog, it'll make you feel better' soapbox today, I'll say it again...As a fellow word vomiter, use this space however you need. Talking with a friendly ear is a great thing, but sometimes you just gotta write shit down and show it to the world. If someone doesn't want to read it, well, #Bye Felicia! They can exit your blog stage left!
- Henna

5 years ago

SSG{ENM-TLP} - Great advice!

5 years ago

SSG{ENM-TLP} - Moxie, practice. The best way to get good at presenting information is to present information. You can do that through FB Live, YouTube, there are all kinds of ways you can practice. There is a group that has meetings pretty much everywhere called Toastmasters International. Check your area to see if there is a local group. They help you and it is a great experience. I was a member years ago.

I agree with Henna. Your blog is your own. Write what you want. I use mine for whatever I am feeling. If I feel silly, pink and glittery, then that is what you'll see. If I have a topic on my mind that I feel would help others, then I share it because I remember what it was like needing answers when I first started here. Whatever it is that cleanses your mind, heart and soul is what you should write.

Thank you for sharing your life with us. -- ssg{MJS}

5 years ago

PHXDom(dom male) - I guess some people just don't have it in them to go that extra 1.5 miles!
As for your 'word vomit', I'll agree with both of the ladies who have already posted.. keep writing!

5 years ago

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Justification

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