Lately I got into the kind of discussion that I sometimes wonder into and then wish that I hadn't. In this discussion it was suggested that complaining was not "domlike". Following this was a short list of noble qualities that a dom should adhere to. Well, if anyone on this site feels that I have been anything other than polite and pleasant then I am both surprised and apologetic. However I have not agreed to a code of conduct, I am not joining the nights of the round table or even the boy scouts. There are, of cause, a set of rules that we should all follow, but they are mostly rules that any person would follow when communicating with any other person. (Quite honestly I think that even most of these rules are optional. For example I am not obliged to be polite. I choose to be). I certainly missed the meeting in which a code of conduct, for doms, was discussed, and I do not agree to it know.
Even if I accepted that there was such a thing as "domlike", quite honestly I would only ever except the judgment of my future sub. Except in extreme circumstances, I do not really agree to anyone ells having a say.
I welcome all (well most) comments and criticisms but, in future, please bair in mind that I have a perfectly serviceable conscience. I do not need anyone to stand in for it.