My journey

    Good morning Cage friends.  I was doing some reading last night on a link posted to another blog I wrote. At the bottom of my writing, I have posted some things I found very interesting.   I have heard them before and I thought I'd share, as maybe it helps someone else.  Please note, these phrases and the meaning behind them DON'T apply to everyone who says them, but to someone who is exercising manipulative behavior, often they do. 

Have a wonderful day cage friends. 

-Ds

     I wasn't really sure whether to put this in a forum post or a blog.   I blog more often than go to the forums, so I decided to put it here. A good friend of mine suggested I blog about it because I was wondering what the response would be.

     I was wondering for the submissives out there.. How many of you have gone through experiences where you have been taken for granted over Time (ie months, years).   Controlled... Mind screwed and groomed, just to be let down and find out you were only a temporary good time for the person /Dom you were with?   Being built up, made to feel special.  Being helped to become stronger in different aspects of life.. Only so you'd stick around for games.   Only to find out in the end, you were a temporary prize piece for them and were easily let go of.  When you finally got the courage to walk away... They tried once more, told you how special you were, but would not show you the love and respect you deserved, but when they didn't... You left and they easily let you go?  How many of you have gone through this? How long did you stick it out?  If you don't want to say in the comments, I completely understand.   You can of course send me a message if this is more comfortable.

Thanks cage friends for taking the time to read.💜

-Ds

Be strong. Be you.  Surround yourself by those who will stand by you and encourage you.  Do the same for them. All I have for tonight.  My brain seems to be fried and tired lol 😂

Have a good night cage buddies. 

-Ds

Sometimes you have to just shut down your mind.   Relax.  Engage with those who support you, laugh, and have a nice hot cup of decaf coffee before going to bed.  

Thankful for this group of wonderful people here I have met.  

Have a great night cage friends 

💚Ds

*Knocks myself in the head... *  Caring about someone sometimes means Putting things behind you because they no longer matter or are applicable.. And letting them go about their lives because you realize you never really were as important to them as they were to you.  And you deserve to be surrounded by people who value you.  Who communicate with you. Who are direct with you. Who allow you to express your feelings.  You deserve someone to not give up on you when times get difficult.   

My journey, ups and downs, allow me to grow.  Thank you for letting me share with you Cage friends. 

Have a great night 

-Ds

I'm free to be me.   That feeling of peace running over me.  No more feeling confused. No more feeling lost.  Just being.  Free.  I struggled for so long to let go of the past and something I felt was meant to be.    The gray areas, being blinded and confused, and being frustrated. Being afraid I'd never find love and a connection again...when all I was, was a very special friend.

I'm not afraid anymore.   The cord has been cut.  I will make some person, some day a very proud Dom.  It feels so good to be free.

Have a great day cage friends

-Ds

     One thing I have learned over some time, is that if you want to change, do it for YOU.   If you want to be happy, be happy for YOU.  Be proud of YOU.    You must be happy with yourself before someone else will ever be happy to be with you.  What matters first is that you are happy with who you are.  Don't change for anyone else.  If someone wants you to change and you are happy with who you are... Then they don't really want you. They want someone who you aren't.  Be you. Be strong and confident in who you are.  This is the most sexy thing ever :).

Like the song says.. Paraphrased a bit.. You don't have to try to impress cage friends, take a breath, look in the mirror at yourself, like you, be you💜

Have a wonderful night cage friends 

-Ds

     When I found this meme today, my heart sank. How well I can relate.    When we find love, real love, it is something we feel we can wait an eternity for.   We go through the motions... Allowing ourselves to feel unwanted for so long.   If a connection happens with that person finally, after years of hoping..  You feel you don't ever want it to go away.   You feel it's right, you even say so.  The other person does too.  Then boom.. It's gone. Out of reach.   You continue to hold on... Wait again.  Hoping it will return.  True love doesn't go away.  But someone who truly loves you in return will show it. You won't have to guess.   You'll just spend time continuing to wait.. Hoping and wondering that it will be the same again as it was for that time period that it was good.

Not everyone will be so patient.  But someone who really is in love with you.. Truly loves you, I believe will. 

Have a great day cage friends. 

-Ds

Although you don't NEED a Dominant to make you believe this....   Sometimes that extra support, protection, encouragement is so helpful.... A Real Dom will do these things submissives.  Please remember that. 

Believe it... You ARE beautiful 💜

Have a great night cage friends 

-Ds

     I was taught by a great Dom to be proud of who I am and my body.  I have continued along that journey and will not let anyone bring me down or silence me. I am proud of what I have been through that had brought me to where I am. The successes.  The failures.   All have led to growth.  

     Cage friends, please don't let others silence you either.  Don't let them judge you by your past, present, or future. Be you. Be proud of what has brought you to where you are now and keep going. 

Thank you to the Dom who taught me to stay strong and be who I am, to just "be." 

Have a great night cage friends.. 

-Ds