My journey

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - A phrase I recently had to use...

"I may be *A* sub, but I am not YOUR sub...so STFU." Lol!

Untill I agree to be someone's sub, I don't HAVE to listen, follow advice, or use terms of respect. Any moment I do, is a gift and should be treasured and valued as such.

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Yep, I repeat it often. I have it in my profile. I will not call anyone Sir, Master, Dom or any other title. There are Doms who parade around acting like any sub should just kneel before them because they're a Dom. Not this sub! I will be respectful if they are respectful as well. But I don't have to do anything they tell me just because. If I give my submission, of course, that all changes.. But if not they are on the same level I am as far as I'm concerned. If I speak to a Dom that demands I do something or calls him something and I have not submitted, it's a HUGE red flag for me and they will never get my submission.

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Recently, I had a "Dom" recent out to me. I insulted him because..well, he was an idiot and he replied back with *STFU and listen to Daddy."...

I told HIM to STFU and then told him what I stated above. He came back 2 days later with "how are you love".

See, idiot.

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Indeed. Some of these guys will never get it. Can't act like that and expect to be respected, let alone be gifted submission. I had one tell me... After speaking less than 2 hrs LOOK AHUT THE F*** UP AND LISTEN TO ME. I am the Dom here B****. Needless to say, I once would have just gotten upset. I didn't. I told him just why he would never get the privilege of getting to know me any better and blocked him.
Being a Dom does not have to = being disrespectful and all these situations equate to are them using their role to assert control they haven't earned.

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Oops "SHUT" Lol stupid autocorrect 😂

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Amen!!!!! ❤️🤗❤️