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8 months ago. August 21, 2023 at 10:26 PM

Submission is an amazing thing to experience, especially if you understand what it is that occurs. She doesn’t drop to her knees because you bark a demand at her. She doesn’t offer her neck for you to collar, simply because you go out and purchase a piece of neck candy. She doesn’t blindly follow orders, nor react positively to superficial gestures. To submit requires a connection and deep understanding between two individuals. An understanding that is natural, organic and innate.

 

It requires the ability as a Dominant to offer a safe space within a safe place. That place requires unequivocal and unconditional acceptance, with not even a whisper of judgement. A space where the submissive can learn to break free from the anchors that social conditioning and a lifetime of interactions with toxicity have bound them too.

 

A place where the submissive can understand that they truly are a beautiful human being, deserving of love, respect, adoration and happiness. A place where they can be free to see what respect, love, emotion and care actually means and how it can help to reduce a lifetime of negativity and toxic splash from a unequal society that has always been, and still currently is, driven by patriarchal teachings and influence.

 

It is never about one person exerting control over another. It’s about the submissive willingly and knowingly giving themselves over to the Dominant. This understanding and consent are essential components that make the experience not only meaningful and authentic, but also sustainable for the long term. Consent being the baseline and foundation that the framework of power exchange builds upon. Power exchange cannot occur, without the context found in the word exchange. Submission is not just taken from another human being.

 

Submission must be offered consensually, to allow the Dominant to step up, take that power and subjugate her. If this process does not occur and the dynamic is not formed and built on the basis of consent, then it is nothing but another failed dynamic or relationship waiting to occur. Because if consent is not the love language from the start, then consent will never be important to the Dominant, nor will the submissive understand that extreme importance in every interaction.

 

It is so much more than external displays of authority or simple symbols. It's about emotional connection, trust, and a shared understanding of roles and desires within the relationship and dynamic. When a person relies upon displays of authority or symbols alone, without the emotional context, it is simply an act of domineering control, instead of integrating the complexities of human connections and dynamics.

 

To Dominate another human being, requires much more than just wanting to control or own another human being to make your cock hard. It’s about understanding that a deeper exploration of the psychological and emotional aspects of submission must be undertaken, in order to experience and understand the breathtaking beauty found when innate and natural subjugation occurs.

 

Look at her and recognise what many will never distinguish and so many more will never understand. In the delicate dance between passion and submission, lies the beauty of a woman who embodies both fervor and surrender. Her presence is a canvas painted with vibrant hues of desire, a testament to the depth of her emotions.

 

A passionate fire burns within her, igniting every aspect of her life with an undeniable intensity. Her pursuits, whether they be professional or personal, are marked by the same fervent dedication that fuels her submission. It's as though her passion acts as a current, propelling her towards her goals while simultaneously deepening her connection with her Dominant.

 

Yet, her agency remains undeniably intact, a silent force that harmonises her dual nature. Through her submission, she finds empowerment, discovering a profound strength in yielding control to her Dominant. This agency isn't surrendered. Instead it becomes a gift she offers willingly, a conscious act of trust and love. Her submission becomes an avenue through which her passionate spirit flows freely, a channel that transforms her yearning into devotion.

 

This unique dynamic does not diminish her strength as a woman; rather, it magnifies her power and resilience. Her submission isn't a sign of weakness, but a testament to her courage and authenticity. By embracing her submissive nature, she navigates the intricate realms of vulnerability and intimacy, unraveling layers of herself that society often encourages to remain hidden. In this deeply personal journey, she unearths hidden facets of her identity and sheds societal constraints.

 

Her love for her Dominant is a reflection of her self-assuredness and emotional depth, as she navigates the captivating interplay between her fierce passion, unwavering submission, and the empowerment that binds them together. This intricate tapestry of emotions and dynamics showcases her ability to embrace vulnerability while maintaining her inner strength.

 

Her willingness to surrender is not a sign of weakness, but rather a display of courage and trust in the unique connection they share. Through their mutual understanding, she finds empowerment in relinquishing control, and he as the Dominant finds strength in cherishing her profound devotion. Together, they create a harmonious balance that transcends traditional notions of power and intimacy, revealing a partnership built on mutual respect, consent, and a shared journey of self-discovery, growth and evolution beyond societal norms.

 

That is why submission embodies strength, and never weakness…

 

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Satindragon - Great blog!! That connection you speak of is what brought me to this lifestyle. I personally think it is much deeper than. It's a bond.
8 months ago
AussiePrimal - It certainly is
8 months ago
SouthernFire​(sub female) - Very well written and beautifully. 💜
8 months ago
AussiePrimal - Thank you for enjoying
8 months ago
MsDove​(sub female){Eternal Pi} - Truly beautiful description. I wonder if the experience of a male submissive is the same as the female experience. I guess I could ask the same question about the Domme experience.
8 months ago
AussiePrimal - It is the same way. I am Pansexual and males submit in the same calibre.
8 months ago
blushingforyou​(sub female){NotLooking} - It is absolutely about trust in the other person. To allow yourself the freedom then to submit.

8 months ago
AussiePrimal - Exactly
8 months ago

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