There is something in my lifestyle which I cannot stand. Stop judging other peoples dynamics. Please just stop.
What you and your Dom has is beautiful but so too is what me and my Dom have. Perhaps not the same. Perhaps what you want and what I want are different. But different does not mean wrong. Different means different.
Perhaps I crave marks on my body. Bruises which remind me of the obedience desired by my Sir. Perhaps you see marks as disrespect or abuse. That is you. That is your opinion. But it does not make me a victim of abuse nor you a weakling. It makes us different.
And is BDSM already not under enough judgement and attack. Why must we judge each other. Why must we tell each other what is wrong or what is right. I know my truth. I know my limits..and I will defend them.
Now i understand and have experienced true abuse. I know when something truly abusive is happening we must step in. But when someone enjoys more impact play. More pain. Or even someone who were to enjoy CNC we cannot and must not call that abuse.
Please let's be a community..a place where differences are treasured not shunned. A place where we accept each other and the beauty that makes us unique. We are a community and we need to be safe.
Stop burning bridges and let's start building them. Let's learn from each others kinks not end them. Stop judging each other. Subs should not cut down subs or tell them to leave Doms..support is support. Support means being there and comforting not destroying. And that is my community. The one I believe in. The one i want..
