Master and the Sub

Hello all our cage family, hope everyone is doing well and staying safe. In the middle of re financing the house we ran into a snag, Hazel didn't put my income on the income taxes and now we have to file an amendment to correct that so we can re finance, she blames herself and I told her it was no big deal. I love that women for being human, hell the IRS has no problem with it but the mortgage company does, Oh well. On another note we were browsing adoptable pets the other night and I and I said I happened to find a Great Dane pup up for adoption we looked at one last year, she was a blue but they wanted 3,500 dollars for her, sorry but I can and did buy a nice motorcycle for less. So we found this sweet Great Dane, Great pyrenees mix female up for adoption, went to see her yesterday, have to take my dog Ruby for a meet and hope they get along getting today which shouldn't be a problem Ruby is such a sweetheart. Now this dog is not cheap by no means 350 dollars, but better than the other one, she is just 6 month's old and already quite big, by the time she get's to be about 2 I antisipate I will be the proud owner of a small horse.lol This is going to be Hazel's dog, because I don't weigh enough to be able to deal with a dog that weighs close to my weight, I can just see myself being dragged down the street holding onto the leash while Hazel is laughing so hard she pee's herself. It will look like the cartoon Marma duke for all those old enough to remember the giant dog. So if all goes well today  we will be the proud parents of 3 kids, 2 grandkids, 2 dogs an 2 cats, 2 vehicle's, 2 motorcycle's life is complete. Oh and come October 14th we will officially be married one year, now to start thinking about an anniversary gift. Big Hug to all and Love from Lion and his Beautiful Lioness and our full house. Lol

Ok I"m old enough to remember growing up in southern Illinois and when we had winter it was cold and we had snow, lot's of it. Moved to the great state of Misery when I was a kid, like there we got cold and snow during the months of as usual November until about March. Last 10 years have not been normal for the weather, considering you can go out and play golf or bbq in December. May 2018 here it rained the entire month we had lot's of areas flooding, May 2019 had to turn on the AC and leave it on until Late September. May 2020 had the furnace on until the middle of the month and now as I sit here first part of September it went from 90 degrees on Labor Day to a whopping 55 degrees, furnace is on broke out the warm clothes. 

So here's another twist about this, we did't have a single tornado warning or anything here this year which I cannot ever remember that happening, the leaves have been falling off the trees since middle of August which is unusual. So how many of you scattered all over are experiencing this weird new way of life with the weather? I can honestly say I don't enjoy the cold and it takes its toll on my depression when it's gloomy, just don't care to do things. 

I can honestly say it's a hell of a lot more fun to play with the AC on then it is during winter. You can do things outdoors, the toys don't have to be warmed up before use unless you enjoy the shock of cold metal, or whatever material it's made out of, talking to the subs here (smiles a devious grin). There's no rush to get out of bed in the winter for second round sex in the shower because it's too cold to get out of bed. Attire for summer is better, little to no clothes is always nice when seeing your submissive run around the house, winter not so much with baggy sweatpants, frumpy pj's, sweaters, robes, makes you use your imagination a hell of a lot more, just saying. 

My vote is for warm weather, long bike rides, sitting outside in the evening, bbq's, cold beer, your submissive hanging from the ceiling by the window with a breeze blowing by her sweaty body after an extreme workout, enjoying the cool air conditioner while the sweat rolls off you laying together just can't be beat. Hope everyone is staying safe and warm if your weather sucks like ours, for all of you still enjoying the nice weather, well kiss my ass I'm jealous, Big Hug to everyone.

I wrote a blog but after being informed it may fall into the political category I deleted it, seems there are to many children here that haven't grown up yet. It's sad that having an opinion in this day and age will get you banned, screamed at, threatened or labeled. What ever happened to free speech, having a voice to say how you feel about a topic or person, I understand now why so many abused women are being silenced by drum roll please men. Yes I said it men, seems to me a good women in charge could actually get things done, I know my mother has accomplished quite a bit in her life with the so little she had toward with. Think if she only had the resources, what a difference it would have made. 

It happens here and will keep happening throughout history until one day we as humans actually come together as one instead of letting petty Annie shit divide us. Good luck to all during this pandemic, it might be over soon but, with all of those who think about themselves, not wearing mask, gathering in large numbers, complaining their rights are being violated, I say good luck returning to a normal BDSM lifestyle anytime soon. If only people could follow the rules, see terms of agreement and rules in the link below. Have a wonderful day everyone.

So as we all deal with Covid 19, the mass invasion of political ads, work, school, responsibilities, kids, everything that makes up our own private lives. What do you do when life fucks with your lifestyle? Over the course of the last year since Hazel got here I can truly count on one hand how many true lifestyle session's we have had, don't get me wrong we have had plenty of fun but true in depth master/sub moments have been rare. Her being sick for 4 months took it's toll, then comes the stress of the virus, stress of a job she didn't like, me not feeling well, financially obligations, life in general just doesn't help. So for everyone who can relate I have a solution, make the ordinary a little more interesting. Words whispered in an ear, a good slap on the ass, with the words I love you, maybe hold hands above head when you don't have time for proper tying, pair of underwear for a ball gag in a pinch. Sometimes you have to get creative when you may not have time or your just exhausted after a long day.  My beautiful friends I hope you find excitement in the normal when life fucks up your lifestyle. To all a Big hug and here's to hoping 2021 is way fucking better than this year.?

Ok Ladies, correct me if I'm wrong but don't you want respect, love and someone who treats you well. Recently my lioness's Jeep broke down so I got it fixed and took it to her work because she had my car and she doesn't like my low car. Her co workers couldn't believe that I did this for her and replied I was a one of kind. I am not special, just trained from days gone by that a man worth a shit take's care of the women he cares about or love's. I see many young girls complain about how their boyfriends would rather play video games or hang out with their friends, to this I say find someone new. Plenty of men out their wanting a women to love and be loved. So ladies never settle for someone who talks the talk but hasn't got the balls or determination to make you feel special as you should be walking the walk. I hope you find the one who goes out of their way to show you how much they really care. 

I spent Thursday cleaning in the attic from the mess the roofers let earlier this year. My beautiful lioness was off on Friday and wanted to go for a bike ride, I took her about 50 miles from where we live to a small town next to the Missouri River, peaceful little town population of about 250 people. It was a nice ride there and back, once home I cooked some burgers on the grill and we watched The Rocky Horror Picture Show, she had never seen it. Now I must ask you all what is your opinion of the movie I personally think it's a cult classic she was not impressed. So we ended the evening with a collaring ceremony and a bit of fun which made a very nice end to a great day. Right now I am refinancing the house, putting her name on the deed incase something should happen to me, still waiting for our federal tax refund which will come in handy for a few projects around here. It's funny how she doesn't think she doe's enough for me but I couldn't be happier just knowing how much she love's me. Hope everyone is doing well, big hug to all and much love from us to you.

Sorry to everyone but life gets in the way of staying in touch. So Hazel's mother arrived on August 5th she was supposed to leave August 17th, we put her on a plane yesterday so it's been an interesting month. I have to say I absolutely love this woman, she can dish out the shit and sarcasm as well as take it. I can cook, along with bake so while she was here items included bbq ribs off the grill, homemade chocolate chip cookies among other good food. She made the mistake of saying in front of my father she had gained weight during her visit, my father without missing a beat tells her good thing the don't charge by the pound or you couldn't afford to fly home, she replied fuck you. My parents absolutely love her in fact my mother gave her a necklace and ring, I couldn't be happier that they all get along with each other. My mother in law brought with her an engagement ring and wedding ring belonging to Hazel's grandmother, she give them to me and says propose with these. I already knew how Hazel wanted this done I was told when we first met.  Now understand we are already married but it was rather a quick and private ceremony, well one night after dinner Hazel says can we go for a bike ride, she as been working a new job and it's been a little stressful with them because the place is short handed so not much time off. I say sure, brain already planning out what and how to do this, we leave the house, she's on the back of my bike so I in charge of where we go. I take random roads here and there until we get to the court house where we got our marriage license.  Stop the bike get off and tell her cigarette break, az we sit on the curb having a smoke break I say this place has meaning to us its where we got our license so I could marry my beautiful lioness, so insert her full name will you marry me? Pulls out both rings and puts them on her finger, she says yes and the tears run down her face. Only time I want to make her cry is when she is happy.  Get back home walk in the door and I tell her mother I made your daughter cry, she replies good for you, love that woman. Big hug to all, may your life be filled with everything that makes you happy.  Love to all. 

In this world we live in you really need to adjust your mindset on a day to day basis. One day everything is going well, the next the shit has hit the fan and the walls are covered in it. Why can't someone create a set of basic rule's for all to follow, nothing that requires a lawyer to read before signing just a basic outline of how things should be. It's amazing that in this lifestyle we have simple contracts that protect both parties but in the real world we have politics, religion rmakinglife complicated, why is that? Why can't I drink my bourbon, smoke a little weed and smack my sub's ass while my cock is deep in her making her cum without being a serious moral issue or depending on the hole a violation of the law. Seriously how do you prosecute that, well your honor we were outside his window when the suspect inserted his cock into her anus. What the fuck were you doing spying on me through my bedroom window, isn't that trespassing? Oh maybe you should mind your own fucking business, what a bunch of hypocrites we have nowadays. Do as I say not as I do as he untie's the prostitute and removes the butt plug before paying her too leave with tax payers money. You just got to love the world we live in, damned if you do fucking weirdo if you don't. So you want to be a Dominate or Master do you have what it take's, highly unlikely unless you have done your, education part, did the practice work, and lastly got an A plus in the hand's on section of the course. Oh don't forget you have to pass the gentleman's section with flying colors, no D score will make it. Oh now sub's this also applies to you, there has  to be truth towards your word's you have half the power and all the pussy so if you claim all 3 holes are open and close one due to certain circumstances then that's false advertising. Do you spit or swallow, and if a Dom is willing to go down south after you have been asleep and sweating then the favor must be repaid I know sweaty balls are disgusting but you have to show as much enthusiasm as he doe's with your pussy. Now let's talk about in person day to day living with your Dom or sub, this is a whole new cluster fuck, everyday life, what's that all about. Let me explain for the newbies it mean's walking into the bathroom after someone has taking the shit from hell, holy hell what the fuck just died in here, damn what the fuck did you eat or did it crawl up your ass and die. Now for you dom's don't be surprised to see those little white rat's that looked like they have been murdered in the bathroom trash can, trust me it's totally normal. Embrace it and help her through that week of hell, you will be a hero instead of an asshole. Ladies it's quite normal for you to see stain's of some kind in your dom's underwear we have a leakage issue and were not quite sure how or when it started but it is real, we are sorry in advance. Day to day, clothes on the floor, dishes left out, strange odors, clogs, all around shit that can't be explained or you refuse to want to explain it, but it happen's. Live with it because you love this person and with that come's the change of mindset. What you once thought now doesn't matter, life has changed for the better in the long run, just keep a positive attitude and the rest is easy. To all I wish the best of luck, for me and Hazel we are doing wonderful, gas mask needed on occasion, think green fog kinda days. But it's so great having the one you love and cherish and can fart in front of. lol Have a wonderful day my friends.

So how much are you worth? I personally am worth trillions, in my head. But to other's who knows and who give's a rat's ass, it only matter's to you. Let me explain this, if you think lowly of yourself then you look for people or put yourself in situations that are below your worth. If you are a person that care's about other's, has feelings for those that are hurting or in need, give's to charity's, live's by a set of standard' and moral's, obey's the law's and fight's for everyone not just yourself then you are worth a hell of a lot. If you choose to disregard someone"s feeling, toss them aside when you are done using them, kick puppies, treat people like shit to get what you want then your worth is zero. We all have a choice in this life, how you choose to look at yourself and live your life is totally up to you and only you. Let me ask you this question why do you care what other people think about you if you are a good person? Now I can understand if you're a douce bag, then you might want to take a good look at your life just a little. But if you're living your life in a good way then why the hell doe's anyone else's opinion matter, it doesn't. I am happy with me, I have been for many year's, no I'm not perfect, no one is but I'm happy because I'm proud of who I am. I smoke, I drink, I cuss, I think about sex a lot, but I also, follow the rules, I care about all people, because we are all human, I treat my lioness like a queen, I have respect for other's feeling's, I take into consideration all facts before making a decision, I live by a strict code of honor and moral's and value's, I would never do anything to bring shame to my parent's or my beautiful lioness. So in my life I set my self worth quite high, where did you set the bar? When you die will people grieve or show up to your funeral to make sure you're dead this is a good question to ask yourself. When you feel that your self worth is low ask yourself who is contributing the money to the account you, or other's, because it's you that make's the biggest deposit. Alway's think highly of yourself and other's will too, are self worth is priceless. 

Ok, class take a seat, today's class is about manner's and proper ediqute when speaking to or with someone. We start with a greeting like hello, hi, how are you, these are used instead of what's up, sup, or hey, hey sexy can only be used after a minimum 4 to 6 months dating time and that's kinda questionable. Now after first contact, following words should be used like I read your profile, blog, and I find it or you interesting, fascinating, intriguing, not used are things like, I'm horny, you want to fuck, nice tits, get on your knees I have a surprise for you, any such words you wouldn't say to your mother, father or supervisor shouldn't be used in your message to someone. Now for a closing to this should be, well I don't think we will match well, followed by either I hope you have a nice or wonderful day, or best wishes in your search. Common closings are of course sincerely insert name here, thanks for your time, and nice to meet you. Things not used are fuck you, go to hell, piss off, or as stated above things not said to mother, father, or supervisor just because you didn't get what you wanted. Shows you're immature.

Following is an example of a proper way to communicate with others. 

Hi, Hello, How are you  in subject line.

I read your profile, blog, bonus points for doing both, and I would like to get to know you better, if pictures are in said profile or blog, then I think you're very beautiful, pretty, should be stated. Maybe touch a point in said profile or blog with details of common interest, common kinks, maybe same location or you always wanted to visit there. Many ways can be used as a start to a conversation in which things can be learned either forwarding the conversation or ending it. Now you can end said message with words like, I hope you have a wonderful day, take care, hope the weather where you are is good,  I hope we can be friends, nice to meet  you. 

Now if you don't get a reply, take this as a No their not interested and move on, don't under any circumstances send another message asking why, spewing foul language, or even blocking someone, as this shows you're insecure, petty, and desperate, all not signs of a good Dominant less a good person.  Now one last thing class, these should be also used in meetings people in person, online or offline proper manners and ediqute should always be used. Good luck on your journey and extra luck to those who have to put up with the dill weeds.