Master and the Sub

In this world we live in you really need to adjust your mindset on a day to day basis. One day everything is going well, the next the shit has hit the fan and the walls are covered in it. Why can't someone create a set of basic rule's for all to follow, nothing that requires a lawyer to read before signing just a basic outline of how things should be. It's amazing that in this lifestyle we have simple contracts that protect both parties but in the real world we have politics, religion rmakinglife complicated, why is that? Why can't I drink my bourbon, smoke a little weed and smack my sub's ass while my cock is deep in her making her cum without being a serious moral issue or depending on the hole a violation of the law. Seriously how do you prosecute that, well your honor we were outside his window when the suspect inserted his cock into her anus. What the fuck were you doing spying on me through my bedroom window, isn't that trespassing? Oh maybe you should mind your own fucking business, what a bunch of hypocrites we have nowadays. Do as I say not as I do as he untie's the prostitute and removes the butt plug before paying her too leave with tax payers money. You just got to love the world we live in, damned if you do fucking weirdo if you don't. So you want to be a Dominate or Master do you have what it take's, highly unlikely unless you have done your, education part, did the practice work, and lastly got an A plus in the hand's on section of the course. Oh don't forget you have to pass the gentleman's section with flying colors, no D score will make it. Oh now sub's this also applies to you, there has  to be truth towards your word's you have half the power and all the pussy so if you claim all 3 holes are open and close one due to certain circumstances then that's false advertising. Do you spit or swallow, and if a Dom is willing to go down south after you have been asleep and sweating then the favor must be repaid I know sweaty balls are disgusting but you have to show as much enthusiasm as he doe's with your pussy. Now let's talk about in person day to day living with your Dom or sub, this is a whole new cluster fuck, everyday life, what's that all about. Let me explain for the newbies it mean's walking into the bathroom after someone has taking the shit from hell, holy hell what the fuck just died in here, damn what the fuck did you eat or did it crawl up your ass and die. Now for you dom's don't be surprised to see those little white rat's that looked like they have been murdered in the bathroom trash can, trust me it's totally normal. Embrace it and help her through that week of hell, you will be a hero instead of an asshole. Ladies it's quite normal for you to see stain's of some kind in your dom's underwear we have a leakage issue and were not quite sure how or when it started but it is real, we are sorry in advance. Day to day, clothes on the floor, dishes left out, strange odors, clogs, all around shit that can't be explained or you refuse to want to explain it, but it happen's. Live with it because you love this person and with that come's the change of mindset. What you once thought now doesn't matter, life has changed for the better in the long run, just keep a positive attitude and the rest is easy. To all I wish the best of luck, for me and Hazel we are doing wonderful, gas mask needed on occasion, think green fog kinda days. But it's so great having the one you love and cherish and can fart in front of. lol Have a wonderful day my friends.

So how much are you worth? I personally am worth trillions, in my head. But to other's who knows and who give's a rat's ass, it only matter's to you. Let me explain this, if you think lowly of yourself then you look for people or put yourself in situations that are below your worth. If you are a person that care's about other's, has feelings for those that are hurting or in need, give's to charity's, live's by a set of standard' and moral's, obey's the law's and fight's for everyone not just yourself then you are worth a hell of a lot. If you choose to disregard someone"s feeling, toss them aside when you are done using them, kick puppies, treat people like shit to get what you want then your worth is zero. We all have a choice in this life, how you choose to look at yourself and live your life is totally up to you and only you. Let me ask you this question why do you care what other people think about you if you are a good person? Now I can understand if you're a douce bag, then you might want to take a good look at your life just a little. But if you're living your life in a good way then why the hell doe's anyone else's opinion matter, it doesn't. I am happy with me, I have been for many year's, no I'm not perfect, no one is but I'm happy because I'm proud of who I am. I smoke, I drink, I cuss, I think about sex a lot, but I also, follow the rules, I care about all people, because we are all human, I treat my lioness like a queen, I have respect for other's feeling's, I take into consideration all facts before making a decision, I live by a strict code of honor and moral's and value's, I would never do anything to bring shame to my parent's or my beautiful lioness. So in my life I set my self worth quite high, where did you set the bar? When you die will people grieve or show up to your funeral to make sure you're dead this is a good question to ask yourself. When you feel that your self worth is low ask yourself who is contributing the money to the account you, or other's, because it's you that make's the biggest deposit. Alway's think highly of yourself and other's will too, are self worth is priceless. 

Ok, class take a seat, today's class is about manner's and proper ediqute when speaking to or with someone. We start with a greeting like hello, hi, how are you, these are used instead of what's up, sup, or hey, hey sexy can only be used after a minimum 4 to 6 months dating time and that's kinda questionable. Now after first contact, following words should be used like I read your profile, blog, and I find it or you interesting, fascinating, intriguing, not used are things like, I'm horny, you want to fuck, nice tits, get on your knees I have a surprise for you, any such words you wouldn't say to your mother, father or supervisor shouldn't be used in your message to someone. Now for a closing to this should be, well I don't think we will match well, followed by either I hope you have a nice or wonderful day, or best wishes in your search. Common closings are of course sincerely insert name here, thanks for your time, and nice to meet you. Things not used are fuck you, go to hell, piss off, or as stated above things not said to mother, father, or supervisor just because you didn't get what you wanted. Shows you're immature.

Following is an example of a proper way to communicate with others. 

Hi, Hello, How are you  in subject line.

I read your profile, blog, bonus points for doing both, and I would like to get to know you better, if pictures are in said profile or blog, then I think you're very beautiful, pretty, should be stated. Maybe touch a point in said profile or blog with details of common interest, common kinks, maybe same location or you always wanted to visit there. Many ways can be used as a start to a conversation in which things can be learned either forwarding the conversation or ending it. Now you can end said message with words like, I hope you have a wonderful day, take care, hope the weather where you are is good,  I hope we can be friends, nice to meet  you. 

Now if you don't get a reply, take this as a No their not interested and move on, don't under any circumstances send another message asking why, spewing foul language, or even blocking someone, as this shows you're insecure, petty, and desperate, all not signs of a good Dominant less a good person.  Now one last thing class, these should be also used in meetings people in person, online or offline proper manners and ediqute should always be used. Good luck on your journey and extra luck to those who have to put up with the dill weeds.

The words look simple but are they? Do you show people your true self or hide behind a false you. Can you be honest enough to tell people how you feel or do you hide your emotions? In this lifestyle or in the real world do you put on a fake persona to please someone? is it ok, probably not but why do you do it, the words exposed, vulnerable, naked, come to mind, why because we don't want other to see us as weak or give them power to hurt us, why because human nature drives us to control others with information. Remember the old saying information is power, applies to life, work, relationships and dom's and sub's. Husband who make's the money has power over his wife who doesn't have a job, boss has power over employee who needs to pay bills, Dom has power over sub because she is insecure, so why would we ever be true to ourselves and other's? Because we have something to gain. Now you ask what do I have to gain being my true self? First off peace of mind, knowing the person you're with is there with you because they want to be, second, trust if they want the real you then you can trust they have your best interest at heart, third they truly love you for who you truly are. Now I will share something funny here, got one of those spam e-mails that stated a guy had hacked my computer and put a program on it that saw I looked at porn and if I didn't pay him 900.00 dollars he would contact my friends and family from my contact's list and let them know what I had been looking at. So fucking funny I had to laugh, my family and friends know the true me and everyone knows I watch porn on occasion, so dude what else you got. lol My point is be yourself, if you surround yourself with people that truly know you then the information they have will not hurt you but support you in all things you do. My lioness had a friend with high connections, ran a background check on me as did my second ex-wife know what they found? Absolutely nothing because I am and always will be true to myself and other's who know me. Can you say that about yourself or the one's who say they love you or want to be your Dom or Sub, ask these questions when a potential new partner is knocking on your door, are showing the true you and are you seeing the true them. Honesty is a great hope until you catch someone in a lie, please get all and I mean all the information about someone's true self before ever falling for the outside persona. Hope everyone has a wonderful 4th of July weekend, I will be spending mine with the most beautiful woman in the world to me, along with my lovely parents and damn good food my lioness is making. Big Hug and my love to all.

Ok so something I have been trying to teach my beautiful lioness is be the better person. So what does that mean, it means just that be better than those who seek to piss you off, hurt you, make you come down to their level so they can gloat. My beautiful lioness doesn't like her sister in law, but on Mother's Day we called her to wish her a good day, something hazel was totally against. I told her this makes you the better person, did her sister in law return the favor, no but that is fine it shows everyone around that she is petty. When people act like asses and you respond then you drop to their level of pettiness, you give power to those who seek limelight. Never give in to those who are not worth your time, for they have self esteem issues and seek attention. My mother always taught me to take the high ground, be the person you want to be not what others expect of you, be proud of who you are and what you have done in this life. So I have always tried to live a life that I am proud to say I'm happy with who I am, for it is us who set's our own standards in both morals, values, and how we treat others. So ask yourself are you proud of the way you act, feel, love, treat others, especially in this lifestyle, are you being the better person or are you just like all the rest. Being a good person is hard, it take work to bite your tongue when you want to cuss and yell, it take's patience's when you want to fight, it takes a better person to give in sometimes and know when to walk away. It's easy to be bad, mean, and hateful, look at the people spewing shit in the world, look at yourself when you get mad and do bad things it's not hard to call people names, use violence, do hurt full things but it takes effort and work to think before you act, to be the better person. I always told my children being evil is easy, being good is hard, words to live by. So what kind of person do you want to be and be remember as?

Truth is something based on facts that have been proven over time with science, math, history, experiments. Water boils at 212 degrees, water weighs 8.34 lbs per gallon, pissing off a woman is as easy as telling her a lie. So not telling the truth is a deception to make the perception you or something is better than it appears. So why do people tell lies and deceive others for their own personal gain or to obtain something or someone they otherwise wouldn't be able to. Many reasons for this, lack of  lack of self esteem, lack of self confidence, lack of physical attributes, lack of financial standing, list goes on. So why do it here, seems it's easier to lie over the internet than to someone face, but don't get me wrong those. that lie will just as well do it in person if given the chance. Here's the main motive I have seen here is Pussy flat out sex why you ask because who in their right fucking mind lies to find love, or their soulmate, nobody that I know of. What's the main thing a submissive gives her dominate, her trust because he's supposed to be honest in his intentions of protecting her, not lie because he wants some Pussy and feel in control for the moment.Yes dom's this is aimed at you, all the little self righteous wannabes that haven't got the balls to tell the fucking truth so you can get your dick wet and brag about how much of a fucking man you are. Trust me when I say yes women can be a pain in the ass and some rank the words bitches and a few cunt's but look at the facts of how many subs bitch about fake dom's here over the dom's bitching about subs, you get a pretty clear picture of where the problem lies. So how hard is it to tell the truth, not hard at all, saying goes telling the truth is easier than remembering all the lies, so dom's, masters, whatever title you choose quit giving false information or as our president likes to say fake news, quit being deceptive with what you tell your new potential sub because it will turn around and bite you in the ass one day and you will be the only one to blame for your stupidity. I never lied once to my lioness, she knew how much money I made, what my house looked like, all about both my ex wives, all about my health issues, all about my past so it never was a surprise, knew about my wants in the bedroom, knew how big my cock was I told her, she saw it when she visited so nothing to hide, no disappointment, yes ladies she is quite happy with it. Telling the truth is not a difficult thing to do, telling lies or deceiving someone takes time and effort and if you have that much time and effort than maybe you should spend it on fixing yourself and your flaws and faults before taking the time to find someone who doesn't have the time to waste on your fucking bullshit. One last thing, for all you lying, deceitful, little fuck tards out there just remember this all those beautiful subs that you didn't get well all of us truthful dom's are enjoying every inch, every curve, every submissive thing they do for us while your holding your own cock and fantasizing about someone you'll never fucking have while pulling your own pud. LMFAO Stupid is as Stupid does, make a note douche bags actually learn the proper fucking way to treat a beautiful submissive woman and you might not be alone anymore. Steps down for my soap box and goes to do some lioness training, Lucky fucking ME.                                                   To all I wish a wonderful day, I hope you find your special someone. Big Hug from LION

It's nice to know I can piss someone off who I have never met or spoken to. To get blocked by you is an honor. To you good sir, my Demon raises a glass of fine bourbon and says your not worthy of my friendship or Evilness. He also says he feels kinda sorry for you for being petty or jealous maybe both, who knows who gives a shit.Good day ?

So as a child I have heard many of these and betting most have to, if they are not ingrained in your mind count yourself lucky that they don't replay like a bad song stuck in your head. I have always like to change songs verses or other things just to put a sick twist to laugh at. So the other day I had a thought what would it be like if they had a twist, so here are a few that I changed, if you would like to contribute to the list please by all means feel free. I would love to see what everyone comes up with. So without further ado this is what I got.

Jack be nimble, Jack be quick, Jack took pleasure in hot wax dripped on his dick from a candle stick.

Old mother Hubbard went to the covered to fetch her dog a bone, but when she bent over her master took over and he already had a bone of his own.

Little Jack Horner sat in corner eating his pussy pie, when he inserted his thumb into his subs bum she came quickly to his surprise.

Jack and Jill went up the hill to fetch a pail of water, Jill let out a squeal when Jack whispered into her ear, tonight its ropes and high heels.

One, Two, he removed his shoes, three, four, he locked the door, five, six, in each hand he placed a whip, seven, eight, oh the lines on his subs ass were straight, nine, ten, crack he made her cum again.

Mary had a little lamb its fleece was white as snow, but only Mary's Dom knew she like to be flogged from her tit's to her toes.

Little miss muffet sat on her tuffet, eating her curds and whey, when along came a Dom to sit down beside her and whisperer I want you in every way.

One little, two little, three little, bratty subs, four little, five little, six little bratty subs, seven little, eight little, nine little bratty subs, one extremely stressed out Dom.

Rub a dub-dub One Master and three subs, oh what a lucky master is he. One's a butcher, one's a baker, one's an undertaker, Oh how nice a master he is to all three.

Now this one is not a nursery rhyme but had to include it.

There once was a man from nantucket, who had a dick so long he could suck it, as he wiped of his chin and said with a grin I wish I had a sub that could take it all.

Just a short line to say hi and all is well and good with me and Hazel.  Working on a blog I think everyone will find very interesting, just taking some time to do my research. Oh not that kind something from everyone's childhood no matter your age. Ponder that. Lol until then, hugs and love to all. ??

Ok doms new punishment, 50 lashes with a wet tongue, no more no less. But be prepared for lots of begging or them breaking rules to get punished. Have a wonderful time. ?