Master and the Sub

The words look simple but are they? Do you show people your true self or hide behind a false you. Can you be honest enough to tell people how you feel or do you hide your emotions? In this lifestyle or in the real world do you put on a fake persona to please someone? is it ok, probably not but why do you do it, the words exposed, vulnerable, naked, come to mind, why because we don't want other to see us as weak or give them power to hurt us, why because human nature drives us to control others with information. Remember the old saying information is power, applies to life, work, relationships and dom's and sub's. Husband who make's the money has power over his wife who doesn't have a job, boss has power over employee who needs to pay bills, Dom has power over sub because she is insecure, so why would we ever be true to ourselves and other's? Because we have something to gain. Now you ask what do I have to gain being my true self? First off peace of mind, knowing the person you're with is there with you because they want to be, second, trust if they want the real you then you can trust they have your best interest at heart, third they truly love you for who you truly are. Now I will share something funny here, got one of those spam e-mails that stated a guy had hacked my computer and put a program on it that saw I looked at porn and if I didn't pay him 900.00 dollars he would contact my friends and family from my contact's list and let them know what I had been looking at. So fucking funny I had to laugh, my family and friends know the true me and everyone knows I watch porn on occasion, so dude what else you got. lol My point is be yourself, if you surround yourself with people that truly know you then the information they have will not hurt you but support you in all things you do. My lioness had a friend with high connections, ran a background check on me as did my second ex-wife know what they found? Absolutely nothing because I am and always will be true to myself and other's who know me. Can you say that about yourself or the one's who say they love you or want to be your Dom or Sub, ask these questions when a potential new partner is knocking on your door, are showing the true you and are you seeing the true them. Honesty is a great hope until you catch someone in a lie, please get all and I mean all the information about someone's true self before ever falling for the outside persona. Hope everyone has a wonderful 4th of July weekend, I will be spending mine with the most beautiful woman in the world to me, along with my lovely parents and damn good food my lioness is making. Big Hug and my love to all.

Ok so something I have been trying to teach my beautiful lioness is be the better person. So what does that mean, it means just that be better than those who seek to piss you off, hurt you, make you come down to their level so they can gloat. My beautiful lioness doesn't like her sister in law, but on Mother's Day we called her to wish her a good day, something hazel was totally against. I told her this makes you the better person, did her sister in law return the favor, no but that is fine it shows everyone around that she is petty. When people act like asses and you respond then you drop to their level of pettiness, you give power to those who seek limelight. Never give in to those who are not worth your time, for they have self esteem issues and seek attention. My mother always taught me to take the high ground, be the person you want to be not what others expect of you, be proud of who you are and what you have done in this life. So I have always tried to live a life that I am proud to say I'm happy with who I am, for it is us who set's our own standards in both morals, values, and how we treat others. So ask yourself are you proud of the way you act, feel, love, treat others, especially in this lifestyle, are you being the better person or are you just like all the rest. Being a good person is hard, it take work to bite your tongue when you want to cuss and yell, it take's patience's when you want to fight, it takes a better person to give in sometimes and know when to walk away. It's easy to be bad, mean, and hateful, look at the people spewing shit in the world, look at yourself when you get mad and do bad things it's not hard to call people names, use violence, do hurt full things but it takes effort and work to think before you act, to be the better person. I always told my children being evil is easy, being good is hard, words to live by. So what kind of person do you want to be and be remember as?

Truth is something based on facts that have been proven over time with science, math, history, experiments. Water boils at 212 degrees, water weighs 8.34 lbs per gallon, pissing off a woman is as easy as telling her a lie. So not telling the truth is a deception to make the perception you or something is better than it appears. So why do people tell lies and deceive others for their own personal gain or to obtain something or someone they otherwise wouldn't be able to. Many reasons for this, lack of  lack of self esteem, lack of self confidence, lack of physical attributes, lack of financial standing, list goes on. So why do it here, seems it's easier to lie over the internet than to someone face, but don't get me wrong those. that lie will just as well do it in person if given the chance. Here's the main motive I have seen here is Pussy flat out sex why you ask because who in their right fucking mind lies to find love, or their soulmate, nobody that I know of. What's the main thing a submissive gives her dominate, her trust because he's supposed to be honest in his intentions of protecting her, not lie because he wants some Pussy and feel in control for the moment.Yes dom's this is aimed at you, all the little self righteous wannabes that haven't got the balls to tell the fucking truth so you can get your dick wet and brag about how much of a fucking man you are. Trust me when I say yes women can be a pain in the ass and some rank the words bitches and a few cunt's but look at the facts of how many subs bitch about fake dom's here over the dom's bitching about subs, you get a pretty clear picture of where the problem lies. So how hard is it to tell the truth, not hard at all, saying goes telling the truth is easier than remembering all the lies, so dom's, masters, whatever title you choose quit giving false information or as our president likes to say fake news, quit being deceptive with what you tell your new potential sub because it will turn around and bite you in the ass one day and you will be the only one to blame for your stupidity. I never lied once to my lioness, she knew how much money I made, what my house looked like, all about both my ex wives, all about my health issues, all about my past so it never was a surprise, knew about my wants in the bedroom, knew how big my cock was I told her, she saw it when she visited so nothing to hide, no disappointment, yes ladies she is quite happy with it. Telling the truth is not a difficult thing to do, telling lies or deceiving someone takes time and effort and if you have that much time and effort than maybe you should spend it on fixing yourself and your flaws and faults before taking the time to find someone who doesn't have the time to waste on your fucking bullshit. One last thing, for all you lying, deceitful, little fuck tards out there just remember this all those beautiful subs that you didn't get well all of us truthful dom's are enjoying every inch, every curve, every submissive thing they do for us while your holding your own cock and fantasizing about someone you'll never fucking have while pulling your own pud. LMFAO Stupid is as Stupid does, make a note douche bags actually learn the proper fucking way to treat a beautiful submissive woman and you might not be alone anymore. Steps down for my soap box and goes to do some lioness training, Lucky fucking ME.                                                   To all I wish a wonderful day, I hope you find your special someone. Big Hug from LION

It's nice to know I can piss someone off who I have never met or spoken to. To get blocked by you is an honor. To you good sir, my Demon raises a glass of fine bourbon and says your not worthy of my friendship or Evilness. He also says he feels kinda sorry for you for being petty or jealous maybe both, who knows who gives a shit.Good day ?

So as a child I have heard many of these and betting most have to, if they are not ingrained in your mind count yourself lucky that they don't replay like a bad song stuck in your head. I have always like to change songs verses or other things just to put a sick twist to laugh at. So the other day I had a thought what would it be like if they had a twist, so here are a few that I changed, if you would like to contribute to the list please by all means feel free. I would love to see what everyone comes up with. So without further ado this is what I got.

Jack be nimble, Jack be quick, Jack took pleasure in hot wax dripped on his dick from a candle stick.

Old mother Hubbard went to the covered to fetch her dog a bone, but when she bent over her master took over and he already had a bone of his own.

Little Jack Horner sat in corner eating his pussy pie, when he inserted his thumb into his subs bum she came quickly to his surprise.

Jack and Jill went up the hill to fetch a pail of water, Jill let out a squeal when Jack whispered into her ear, tonight its ropes and high heels.

One, Two, he removed his shoes, three, four, he locked the door, five, six, in each hand he placed a whip, seven, eight, oh the lines on his subs ass were straight, nine, ten, crack he made her cum again.

Mary had a little lamb its fleece was white as snow, but only Mary's Dom knew she like to be flogged from her tit's to her toes.

Little miss muffet sat on her tuffet, eating her curds and whey, when along came a Dom to sit down beside her and whisperer I want you in every way.

One little, two little, three little, bratty subs, four little, five little, six little bratty subs, seven little, eight little, nine little bratty subs, one extremely stressed out Dom.

Rub a dub-dub One Master and three subs, oh what a lucky master is he. One's a butcher, one's a baker, one's an undertaker, Oh how nice a master he is to all three.

Now this one is not a nursery rhyme but had to include it.

There once was a man from nantucket, who had a dick so long he could suck it, as he wiped of his chin and said with a grin I wish I had a sub that could take it all.

Just a short line to say hi and all is well and good with me and Hazel.  Working on a blog I think everyone will find very interesting, just taking some time to do my research. Oh not that kind something from everyone's childhood no matter your age. Ponder that. Lol until then, hugs and love to all. ??

Ok doms new punishment, 50 lashes with a wet tongue, no more no less. But be prepared for lots of begging or them breaking rules to get punished. Have a wonderful time. ?

This is nothing information, educational, here but kinda funny story. So last year before my beautiful lioness got here to visit we were talking on the phone one morning and she got rear ended, did a significant amount of damage to her jeep, guy wasn't paying attention. So a few weeks later after all the damage is repaired, she has her mom drive the jeep home after picking up her motorcycle. Mom leaves before her, on her way home she sees an accident, thinks that looks like my jeep, oh shit it is, mom wasn't paying attention and rear ended a car, so back to the repair shop, she got it back right before her visit. So Saturday night I ordered pizza after we both worked in the yard all day, quick and easy. Went picked up the pizzas, turned on my street, tried to hurry up and back her jeep into the driveway before the car behind me got up the street, boom hit the speed limit sign that has been sitting at the end of the driveway for almost 30 years I've lived here. My first thought oh shit, second thought she's going to kill me, parked the jeep, grabbed the pizzas, looked at the back of the jeep, oh shit just a scratch, now the sign on the other hand is leaning 45 degrees pointing towards my backyard. Luckily she loves me, I will never live it down but I'm still breathing as of now. Hope everyone had a wonderful weekend. Big hug 

In a conversation with a dear friend of mine he used the term old guard in this lifestyle, now my mind went to an image of an old white guy sitting in a chair with a finely tailored suit, a glass of expensive bourbon in his right hand, and a tightly wrapped cuban burning in between his fingers grasped in his left hand, with a beautiful young naked girl at his feet and him with a wry smile knowing what wealth and power could get you. He replied it was when you served as a submissive before coming a dominate, not at all what I was thinking, I ask if he had been trained this way and he replied no. So after a few days of pondering my thoughts I can say I was born a submissive, now unless your born with a attitude of an evil fucking person or on the day you had your first thought after soiling your diaper I am a dominate, I think we are all born a submissive and at some point in life decide to become either a dominate or submissive via our own decision or life experiences. As a child I was always told children are to be seen not heard, many relatives told me to sit down and shut up, one baby sitter used to lock me in a room until lunch then I made the mistake one day of putting my elbow on the table and getting the back of her hand across my face knocking me to the floor, think she might have been a sadist, needless to say I didn't get lunch and back to the room for not having proper manners. Years later I had my ass beat by a lady we were staying with at the time with a razor strap, blood running down both legs because I got caught playing hide and seek with my brother when we should have been in bed. Countless school bullies would keep me a submissive, as I got older bosses would because of the threat of losing my job, an ex wife because I didn't and still don't enjoy confrontation and the children were involved. I have always known I was a master, I always wanted to be in charge and took charge in my jobs when I could, was told I would make good boss because I was fair but stern. I'm a Leo so for me it's always meant being strong and fight back which I've had to do most of my life, being submissive when the occasion demanded but deep down always knowing who I truly was. Today I still don't enjoy confrontation but I will fight you if I believe I'm right and I stand my ground if I truly believe in my cause. So I say this if you have compassion, empathy, love for all things good and wonderful, can bring yourself to see how others feel, wisdom from a lifetime of pain and servitude, knowledge from what life has taught you then you might make a good master. I wish everyone a wonderful day, big hug but I'm headed off to be a lioness tamer. Until next blog I bid you all a fair well. Lion

I just read a friends blog and would like to ask all of you this question. Are you happy? Now let me start with this I'm happy I have damn good reason to be I found my soulmate, but wait there's more. I was happy before I met my beautiful lioness,  how can that be you ask, let me explain. My life has been a interesting one, moved 31 times in 29 years, been abused both physically and mentally, seen things done things most will never do. But I learned a valuable lesson in life its not others who make you happy it's yourself. Someone comes into your life to make it better, whether it be love, strength, companionship or some other reason. Truth is I don't need one specific person to make me happy I have my parents who love me, I have my children who love me, I have friends who love me, I have pets for companionship, I can play with myself if I'm horny. Don't need anyone to wash my clothes, do my dishes, mow my yard, run my errands, no one to fix my problems, I can go to concerts, the movies, out to dinner,  whatever I want, I'm a grown adult who was taught to take care of myself. Now let's talk about want I want out of my life, someone to love, someone to share my life with, someone to correct me when I'm being an ass, someone who helps me when I'm to stubborn to ask, someone to make memories with, someone to take care of, someone who will think about me when I'm gone, someone I can say makes me whole when I already think I am. This is what my beautiful lioness brings to me, I don't need her to do my bidding, I want her to know where she stands in my life, as an equal no better no worse. So in this lifestyle and in a dynamic don't think what can I do think what can we do because you should already have everything you need go after what you want. If you truly are happy then your partner can only take you to a new plain of happiness you didn't know existed. Love yourself for all that you are and share your love with someone who sees it. Just my crazy thoughts from my life. Big hug to all,  love from Lion.