Master and the Sub

This has been the plot line of many a good books, plenty of movies but what about life? What is good, well we might think about our health, the food we're eating, a book we read, movie we saw, a smell, a thought of something or someone, many things could be classified as good. Evil what comes to mind, murder, abuse, smoking, drinking, drugs, atheists, lawyers, politicians, BDSM, LGBT. Lots of things people have labeled good or evil, to one person something is good to another it's evil. Here on this site looms both good and evil, people come to this site looking for what most would classify as something or someone good but in some instances find the evil. No it's not the evil of Satan or a demon going to rip your soul out feasting on it for pleasure but more of the evil ways and thoughts people have. Reading blogs here you get the sense of it just takes that one apple to spoil the whole bunch or in this case the asshole who thinks being a dominant is asking for naked pictures, demanding a submissive on a first contact to obey them like there a jedi with mind control. I'm old so it's ghosting nowadays in my time we called it an inconsiderate prick blowing you off. This site like many others in this day and age needs a vetting process just like in my time we ask a young lady out on a date if she was interested she said yes, no ment just that, she didn't find you attractive or interesting enough to waste her time.  Not to sound one sided plenty of dominants have been subjected to this behavior as well and it seems age is not a factor young or old ghosting is just another way to fuck with you digitally. I can't stress this enough ask fucking questions, asking questions gives you information and power to make an informed decision about whether you want to invest your time, feeings, and emotions into someone who might just waste your time. My beautiful lioness is all I could ever ask for, but let me say lots and I mean lots of questions were ask, some were asked more than once because we both had been hurt before by others we wasted our time on. Doesn't matter if you're a dominant or a submissive ask questions, talk to other doms or subs hell ask the opposite side questions they can help you in how things should be in this lifestyle but remember to protect yourself, evil can come in all forms. Hope everyone is doing well,  big hug from the lion den.