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4 years ago. February 1, 2020 at 12:47 PM

Perception a way one perceives how someone or something is looked at. Glass half full, half empty, color of your skin, which sex you are may be factors of how you are perceived by someone else. Many factors can affect why one sees things the way they do, way you were raised, social influence, economic influence,  religious beliefs, lifes bitter experience may open or close your eyes to how you perceive people or things. Judgment comes from our perception of people and things. Acceptance, ones ability to understand, be educated about something and come to terms with it. This may not be something that you believe in or participate in but you have accepted it as part of life or the way things are. Tolerance, ones ability to put up with, live with, someone or something that may irritate or rub us the wrong way we may do this out of love, respect, or just not to cause more problems. This lifestyle is perceived by others as wrong, some are accepting, some are tolerant but for the most part no physical harm comes from society,  people don't physically abuse you at a bar, nightclub,  or just walking down the street because of your choice to live this life.  LGBT people are perceived as not normal, their rights are taken away, they are physically abused,  discriminated against, left feeling alone, commit suicide. The year is 2020 when do we as human beings start to act like caring, compassionate, accepting, tolerant people instead of perceiving things we don't understand or are uneducated about and passing Judgment? I write this standing in the middle between my older parents set in their ways, misconceptions, and perceptions and my 2 transgender children who have to live in this world full of racism, hate, the perception that they are not normal. I only see how loving, caring, helpful, friendly, outgoing, funny they are why can't others. As with this life style perception can give it a oh that's not normal, but education can bring acceptance or at least tolerance.  I implore all who have been passed Judgement on to educate those who perceive people who are different as wrong or not normal. For my children I will always protect them, stand by their choices and be accepting and tolerant because I lovek them. My only wish is to one day see a world where we are all seen as humans with no labeling. Peace be with you all.

Hazel Eyes​(sub female){Lion} - People need to be educated for what they dont know or understand.... there are numerous resources to do so... my favorite is to have them read the articles from GLAAD.com or this article as well https://tcf.org/content/commentary/can-education-reduce-prejudice-lgbt-people/?agreed=1 I am annoyed with people, and as you know personally, that I am very defensive, and I do stick up for people who are being wronged. Acceptance is not going to be greeted by everyone... There are ethnic groups that are also being targeted, such as Iraqis... Many still think they are all terrorist, and all Iraqis are horrible people... Well, honestly can the rest of the world think that of the USA? That we are bullies? We dont think we are, but many countries do see us as such... the world of hate will not ever leave, but that is where we teach the younger generation to fight for their rights, stand up for themselves, and hive them the resources to be strong people.... love, affection, trust and honesty are earned...I am very passionate about acceptance, and will always have an open heart....I love you!
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Satindragon{Not Lookin} - Great blog and comment. People fear the things they don’t understand. Big hugs to you both.

Hazel my hope for you is the have more pain free days. I am very happy you two have each other.

❤️Dragon Hugs❤️
4 years ago
Wicked Ways​(dom male){venia} - Preach !!! It saddens me to see the world as it is. Too many people incapable of objectivity. Too many people stuck in their own narrow little world, never to step outside. The way to a positive and present life is to accept what is, something you certainly can't do if you don't accept others for who they are.

Just my 2 cents ~ W
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dawnryse{Happy} - Wonderful blog. A friend of mine also has 2 transgender children, his daughter and his stepson. He struggles with the fact that his daughter doesn't want him to visit them at college because they're afraid he'll slip up and accidentally "out" them. The world needs to change, yes, but your kids are lucky, they have you. A parent who sees them for who they are, loves them and is there. From what I know, a lot don't have that.
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dollMaker​(dom male) - Preach it on high. Well said.
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