Master and the Sub

Why does one blame themself for something they didn't do? The wife who got dinner on the table late because she didn't have a good day, husband berates her or hits her. She blames herself for not being a good wife. Girl blames herself for not being pretty enough or thin enough or tall enough to get the high school jock. Woman blames herself for being raped, I shouldn't have worn those clothes, shouldn't have been in the bar, shouldn't have had a drink, just should have stayed home. First off the husband was an inconsiderate fucking prick, no empathy for others all about me. High school jock, just a egotistical person or he just wasn't into you, nothing wrong with her, his loss. Lastly the woman did absolutely and I repeat absolutely not one fucking thing wrong, she is entitled to go out, entitled to have a drink or two, entitled to wear whatever she wants with a somewhat level of guarantee that no man should ever fucking touch her, period. Two dates on a calendar haunt my beautiful lioness, we had a conversation about them, she blames herself for what she was wearing, where she was, and what happened. I told her in no way, shape or form was anything she did her fault, this person was a worthless piece of shit, that deserves to have karma slowly remove his balls with a plastic knife very slowly while injecting salt during the process. I asked her if you get robbed while at the grocery store do you starve to death because you blame yourself for needing food. I am trying to help her it's been 24 years since it happened, I don't want her blaming herself for what happened, I want her to live the most amazing life being the beautiful woman that she is, I want her to be able to wear what she wants, anytime she wants. I have had things happen in my life, I did blame myself but I learned that I had to dig a hole, place said memories in hole, cover it up, say a prayer. God give me the strength to not forgive but to forget those who have done me wrong, give me the strength to find a new road or path to follow so as the scenery will make me foget the past and focus on a beautiful new memory so I may find happiness, love and contentment, letting old memories fade away until they are no longer a memory. My beautiful lioness, I will always be by your side to protect you, I will never let you feel scared, alone, or frightened, I will always Roar loudly so others will know you belong to me. With each passing day I hope to fill your mind with beautiful new memories of our lives together so one day you can live without blaming yourself for being the beautiful person you are. Love you more than you love your yarn. Love your Lion.🦁💖