Master and the Sub

I just read a friends blog and would like to ask all of you this question. Are you happy? Now let me start with this I'm happy I have damn good reason to be I found my soulmate, but wait there's more. I was happy before I met my beautiful lioness,  how can that be you ask, let me explain. My life has been a interesting one, moved 31 times in 29 years, been abused both physically and mentally, seen things done things most will never do. But I learned a valuable lesson in life its not others who make you happy it's yourself. Someone comes into your life to make it better, whether it be love, strength, companionship or some other reason. Truth is I don't need one specific person to make me happy I have my parents who love me, I have my children who love me, I have friends who love me, I have pets for companionship, I can play with myself if I'm horny. Don't need anyone to wash my clothes, do my dishes, mow my yard, run my errands, no one to fix my problems, I can go to concerts, the movies, out to dinner,  whatever I want, I'm a grown adult who was taught to take care of myself. Now let's talk about want I want out of my life, someone to love, someone to share my life with, someone to correct me when I'm being an ass, someone who helps me when I'm to stubborn to ask, someone to make memories with, someone to take care of, someone who will think about me when I'm gone, someone I can say makes me whole when I already think I am. This is what my beautiful lioness brings to me, I don't need her to do my bidding, I want her to know where she stands in my life, as an equal no better no worse. So in this lifestyle and in a dynamic don't think what can I do think what can we do because you should already have everything you need go after what you want. If you truly are happy then your partner can only take you to a new plain of happiness you didn't know existed. Love yourself for all that you are and share your love with someone who sees it. Just my crazy thoughts from my life. Big hug to all,  love from Lion.