Good morning everyone, hope you're all doing well this lovely hump day. Now grab your coffee, juice, or prefered drink and hang on. You're about to be hit with some truths and it's going to feel like a nail riddled paddle hit you in the ass, yes massochist I know you like it.
Ok folks show of hands from behind your computer, laptop, tablet, or cell phone who here is an bonafide exspert in the field of BDSM? What no one. Well I didn't think so, I never remember seeing anyone here with a master's degree in BDSM, and Psychology posted on their profile. So let's discuss opinions, there like assholes everyone has one but what makes yours so special?
Probably nothing, are you backing up your opinion with some kind of facts, life experience, wisdom learned throughout many years of practice. Remember perfect practice makes practice perfect, words my EMT instructor said.
Now someone writes a blog, is it a thesis from a well know professor at a highly regarded university, probably not. Is it one person giving some information, insight, from their own perspective maybe. Is it information that you could Google and find, might be, but all in all it's just their opinion, insight, information, knowledge that they share so others might gain something so as to have their own opinion about said topic.
It's not a invitation to belittle, shame, pass Judgement, criticize, crucify, or be a down right asshole about it. If you are not a fucking well know expert in the field, have a masters degree in the subject matter, have a lifetime of knowledge, experience and can back up your opinions with facts then I offer you these wise words. Keep your fucking mouth shut.
These letters were posted on the wall of my last boss, their meaning and message speak loudly. Because if you don't know about something then it truly shows how uneducated you are. Better to be thought a fool, than open your mouth and prove it. Here's a thought, all the people here with say years of experience. Goes right out the fucking window when you get a new partner, oh some of your experience may come in handy but if they are different then you start from square one.
Example of what I learned, my last sub used the title submissive so I thought all submissive's did what she did. Oh how fucking wrong I was, Hazel pointed this out, my last was a slave. Now for clarification, my last had very little limits, so it wasn't until I met Hazel that I learned, subs have limits. Many things I could do with the past wouldn't work with Hazel and I totally respect that with her.
Now folks, we all came here seeking non judgment from the vanilla world, the religious zealots, whoever you're keeping this lifestyle from. I asked you why do you pass Judgement on those who we are supposed to stand beside as a community. Why do you feel it necessary to shame others because of their opinions, choices, the way they find satisfaction from this lifestyle. Can we say out loud I'm a fucking hypocrite, those who live in glass houses really shouldn't throw stones.
If you have a bit of information you would like to share about a blog then by all means do so, if contributing said information sparks a good discussion feel free. If your words are intended to hurt someone may I suggest you K.Y.F.M.S it does this community and yourself no good.
Now on a final note, if you feel the need to write a scathing comment about me feel free, if you want to try and hurt my feelings take your best shot, if you think you have all the answers please feel free to message me I have a fuckton of questions. You see I'm old, I have been through shit I wouldn't wish on anyone and I have learned if you're picking on me then you're leaving someone else alone. I'm tough I can take it.
To all of my friends I say this, hope you have a wonderful day. To all of you who pass fucking judgment well I won't say it my mother taught me better than that. The Lion has Roared.
