"Why was The Chimera mean to me?"
"Why did The Chimera ignore me?"
If you're here asking those questions after PMing me, or approaching me- then please read this blogpost.
If you decide not to, or skim this, or just don't read it at all and continue pestering me. Chances are - you're going to get blocked/ignored, and if things continue you may even get reported for harassment.
"Why was the chimera mean to me?"
Firstly. I'm a lady. I will be treated as such. Did you approach me rudely/inappropriately?
- Approaching me with "hi slave" or "hi slut" is going to get you told off.
- Approaching me acting like I'm some object to oggle over, or a slab of meat to drool on; will get you told off.
- Approaching me acting as if you're going to be my new Dominant is going to get you told off.
- Approaching me with lewd/inappropriate compliments such as "You're tits look so fucking hawt" is going to get you told off.
- Sending me unwanted images of your genitals is going to get you told off (and more than likely laughed at.)
- Asking me rude/inappropriate questions is going to get you told off.
- Not respecting my dynamic/collar is going to get you told off.
- Flooding my inbox with messages one after the other will get you told off.
- Sending me cookie cutter copy/paste messages you've send 3+ other subs is going to get you told off. (Do I look like I'm part of a production line?)
- Making it painstakingly obvious you didn't bother to read my profile will get you told off.
- Trying to pose off as asking me general questions about BDSM, only to try and slowly nose in to the privacy of my dynamic and what I do with my Dom sexually behind closed doors so you can jerk-off to it is going to get you told off. (Yep, this happened. What we do sexually is none of your business. And that level of desperation to get your rocks off is disgusting, not to mention pathetic.)
- Trying to pretend that you want to be my friend, in order to try and wedge yourself into my dynamic, or trying to use friendship with me as a means to cozy up to my Dominant- is going to get you told off.
You wouldn't approach a stranger in a coffee shop like that would you? No? Then don't do it to me here. Just because my tag reads "submissive" doesn't make me a doormat for you to try and kick around.
I don't know you, and nor do I take kindly to people acting rude to me. If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all.
"Why did The Chimera ignore me?"
More than likely, you PMed me with zero context. Some manner of one-liner to try and make small-talk. "Hello" -- "Hi" --"Hi how r u?" -- "hi wanna chat?"
If you're new, that's great. Welcome to The Cage, please take a look around.
If you need help or want to learn, you're welcome to ask me. Just don't place a single liner of "hi" at me. There's many ways to start a decent conversation. "Hello there, I'm new to this site and I found your profile from a response you made on the forums and I was hoping to chat with you about what a submissive is?" <-- THAT is perfect, I'd love to talk with you if you're genuinely seeking info.
If you're too lazy/busy to actually start a proper conversation with context. Then I'm too lazy/busy to respond.
However, if you come to me and pretend to want to learn about BDSM - and use that as a gateway to try and fish information about what my Dom and I do sexually behind closed doors. Chances are I'll just drop you, or you're going to get told off.
"Can we still be friends?"
Maybe. If you cannot respect my Dynamic, or my boundaries. Then, no, we cannot be friends.
Also; just for others to use if they're so inclined: 
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"Whoa, Chimera, you ok?"
Thank you for asking, yes I'm ok! I'm just tired. I'm tired of repeating myself over and over again. I'm tired of having to go through being barraged in messages that don't respect or completely disregard my collar; I'm setting this up to where- if someone PMs me, I'm just going to link them to this blog. Or, they can find this blog post through my profile.
It's my way of setting up some detachment/distancing. Makes it a little easier on me~
