Q: What do lesbians drive to a second date?
A: U-Haul.
It's been a few more than 2 dates, but we're making the stereotype happen, folks.
Almost one year ago I experienced the greatest heartbreak I'd experienced. My (vanilla) partner of 5 years broke up with me after our dream vacation, telling me she was no longer in love with me. I took it hard, withdrawing into myself and destining myself to never find love again. I did want to find a play partner though, because after 5 long years of no kink I was ready to get beat. I had a string of bad dates to meet potential play partners and then started hanging out and making out with a long time friend. I also found the Cage and started chatting.
Enter Djinni. We chatted a bit, and then I traveled to DC for work. Then we chatted a lot (and I got a LOT of super hot pictures. She's crazy hot, ya'll) and then it came out that she had feelings for me (and I had 'em back, I was just a hot mess). A few months later (after she was EXCEEDINGLY patient and never gave up on me) I gave in, visited her in November, ended things with the kissing friend, and well, here we are. She was supposed to come visit me a couple months ago and covid-19 went and fucked that all up. So we're taking the leap.
I don't do things like this. It takes me weeks to decide on a pair of shoes, so this has been a big decision. A big, exciting decision. I've never gelled with someone so easily. I was just remarking to my best friend last night that I've never been in a relationship this easy. This genuine. This perfect blend of romance, D/s, kink, silliness. She see's me for who I am, and laughs at the goofy boi, and gently reminds the naughty boi who is in charge.
THUS, we are going full lesbian and U-Hauling it across the country in less than 3 weeks. She is moving from her hometown in Atlanta, to mine in Denver. I'm flying out there and then we're driving back with a car full of dogs and shoes (don't believe her in her blog. She literally has 2000 pairs of shoes). She's leaving her job, her friends, the city she's lived in (not gonna lie, I really like Atlanta. It actually feels a lot like Denver. Now, everything I love will be in the city and state I love, and I can't be more excited. She's going to have to deal with a lot- my family is whacky, and I'm in the middle of considering leaving a stable career to go back to school to earn a Ph.D, so that fact that she's willing to deal with all this to be with me says a lot.
This will be change for both of us. But a very, very exciting change. The Cage can drive me bonkers some days (it's so hard to keep my mouth shut... 16 years of real life experience tends to make me a little cocky) but I'm grateful for it because it brought me my forever.
