Yes I know this is my second blog of the day. This needs to be said. It has been on my mind for days bothering me. Almost painful in its intense hammering and yearning to be put out there. So here we go.
This is a letter to all the New Impressionable Subs. I am sure your mailboxes are being deluged with messages from Doms of all kinds. It can be overwhelming. I have been there. Even collared I still get messages. Some Doms feel they have the right to claim you as theirs and you have no choice. WRONG! Your submission is yours to give. Go slow, have conversations, learn who the Dom is beyond... "Your Mine, you live to serve me". Don't rush the decision, because the power you hand over is heady and intoxicating. In the wrong hands it can be misused and you can end up physically, emotionally, and mentally scarred. Don't fall for the sweet sugary words some pour upon you. Claiming you are a beauty, sweet, the only one they need. This can pull a shade over your eyes and you fail to look deeper, because more than likely you need to hear these things. This is a ploy to batter past your defenses, don't fall for it. Look beyond it and seek a deeper connection.
Pff sometimes a Dom may have hidden subs you have no clue about. If he isn't willing to put your tag next to his name when he claims you, I implore you question why. Does he have a reason such as not wanting these other subs knowing of your existence in his life? Contact, if possible, his past subs. Find out why they were released. Sometimes the image you see of a Dom is a mask hiding a snake, whose only purpose is nudes and the sense of satisfaction knowing you are powerless to him. Question the length of time and experience he truly has. It is easy to say he has 10-15-20 years experience, but truly that experience could be all his fantasies in his mind. I'm not saying there are not amazing Doms on here. Whose whole reason for living is to nurture your submissive side, to help you grow, and protect you, because there are. I have talked to many of them. But they are far out numbered by the ones who come here for the power rush, fulfillment of their kinky desires. Yes you may be submissive, but you have rights to know the person you are submitting to. Stop, think, listen and question. Don't lose yourself in your submissive state, and unknowingly put yourself in the wrong hands. Don't ignore red flags. Feel free to message other subs you may talk to for input. They can see things you may not, because they are not overpowered by feelings. Be safe, protect yourself, and enjoy the ride.
