So here I was, perusing the ol Cage last night, when I came across a very intriguing profile. It started out with "My pussy is mine!" Now it went on to paint a very good picture of the person, but that line stuck with me most of the day today. So often times in this lifestyle, we place claim on such things. Or do we? This person clearly felt a need to make that distinction.
When your Dom has you properly tied to the St Andrews cross, your body fully exposed to his every whim, whispering, growling, and nibbling into and on your ears, running his hands slowly over your body, kissing and biting your neck and inner thighs, edging you closer and closer to that wonderous moment of release, and then suddenly and forcefully grabs your crotch as you know he wants to enter you with all his heart and soul, yet pauses at the critical juncture to whisper into your ear ... "Whose pussy is this?" - what does that really mean?
Does he mean "this is now mine, you take care of it, but understand it's mine just like my Harley is mine, I get to ride it whenever and however I want, I can leave it sit in the garage as long as I want, ignore it as long as I want, and you no longer have any say in the matter. And if we split up, I want it in the divorce! I am taking it with me!
Now substitute anything else you want for the pussy. Tits, head, body, heart, soul, whatever.
Get the point? yeah, that's bullshit. submission is NOT slavery. Hell, even slavery isn't slavery in this llifestyle! Submission is never EVER taken. It is an earned honor for a sub to offer her submission to her Dom to HOLD PROTECT AND CARE FOR, as long as HE DESERVES TO... not to own forever regardless of his actions or deeds. If the Dom violates the trust of the sub, or the sub simply wants to be done, she has every right to do so for little or no reason at all if she chooses. And in doing so, everything that was is laid to ruin.
So when A dom makes such a claim, please remember, it really only means "while you choose to see me as your Dom" - and God willing, that will be to the end of days together :)
