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-DOM ISSUES 101-
We all hear all the time about protect and take good care of our submissive partner's and we constantly post and look for the red flags for what they need to look so they don't get in/on an uncomfortable situations and all that it's fantastic and nothing wrong with that all good…. I strongly believe and encourage such"campaign" ……

But what about the ones in control what about the Dom's ...who looks after them.

We all know a real Dom's it's always in control of the Relation/Dynamics because we are allowed to have it such gift was given ..
And we think we are special ..
But be aware that also can be used against us.

-We never demand we earn it.-
That's what we want to believe but sometimes we don't earn it it's just part of what they want us to believe a game bigger or what we are use to deal with.

I get a lot of emails lately for other Dom's witch they being getting on awful situation they are being manipulated they are being played they are being used because
when we open to someone we do hard we don't keep nothing to our self we give everything at once when we got to the point of trust,
But c'mon guys we all know that Extra sense the ones is telling us to don't do it ...better start listening and believing in what our brain and guts are telling us.
The true colors always show at one point or another.

So if you "submissive" always has an excuse never had the time only when it's convenient for her and she lies over and over don't confronted her just leave ...is not worth it .
And it's not because she's being bratty and she wants to be put on her place it's because you are NOT her priority and that's ok, there are many others out there that be worth it for YOU!
Be careful OUT THERE D's
5 years ago. November 13, 2019 at 12:10 PM

• putting their hand on your back to lead you • paying for you • saying “no” in a stern but caring voice • opening doors or boxes for you • giving you reasonable instructions • ordering the food for you • telling you “come here” and/or pointing to the ground in front of them where they want you • fixing up your outfit/appearance (such as buttoning up your shirt, tying Your shoes or fixing your hair) • lifting your chin up • saying “look at me” •

Pirate Queen - See, all these are still sexual to me, or at least arousing. But that could be just me. :-)
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Sometimes its the simple things that mean the most. Its like a dance. Holding the door open for your sub or your sub holding the door open for you with a little nod of their head so you know its with respect. Pulling a chair out so you have to sit first. Being asked what you think about a cheese cake and knowing its not a question. Then something i used to do was pay, especially if he wanted to but needed to let off some steam by having fun afterwards by 'punishing me'... wasn't real punishment but a way i could support my Dom and his needs. Just like how simple things can mean a lot
5 years ago
Master Liner​(dom male) - I think no sub should never support a Dom ...I understand things can happen but still I will never let my sub pay for anything ...now however it's her choice to gave me something/present/gift .. what ever she want ....but when she's with me I'm in charge...of everything!
At the End it's the Just Me the way IAM!!
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Present is probably a better way to word it, as it would be my way of submitting (which is odd i know and not everyones cup of tea), like if i held the door open a little head tilt would go with it to show respect. It depends on the person your with, how well you know them, what makes them tick and the situation, i wouldn't do this all the time but was nice to show my Dom some kindness with cake. I personally have to be very comfy with the person to let them pay, but because of that it let the other person know where i was with submitting when i was a newbie. Its not something i would do without taking those factors into account.
5 years ago

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