Good sweet Evening Cage friends,
Holy freak its been a very long time. I have disappeared into the simple life focusing on myself and working at developing who I am and where I want to go.
Now tis the season for all the change. Many things have happened over the last few months and weeks. I have been keeping quiet because I havent felt led to bring my journey into the spotlight. I like sulking in the shadows and this has been a period for quiet reflection and self improvement.
I could begin to regale you with wonderful tales of how my life has shifted and I definitely will share some of the more interesting/big life changes that I am experiencing. I still plan to hold onto certain pieces of me that really are for myself and those very close to me.
Probably the biggest news is the fact that I am finalizing my divorce. Going through the process of separation/proceedings/mediation which is now coming up on 2 years in January. The interesting part is that come January 1st of 2022 I will be officially divorced and making the necessary shifts to get myself back into financial stability and moving forward. The situation will be a little bit complicated as I will still be in some contact with my ex. As part of the process will include us being tied by a property for 4 years. This is all very good and positive though as I am able to move forward and so is my ex in our respective ways that were most important to us.
There is a lot of change that has occured with work as we have moved into the reorganization of the work structure and while we have been existing inside the new system since the summer there are changes happening and being instigated now in regards to that. As much change is happening most of it is positive from my perspective despite the general low moral and displeasure of a lot of my co-workers. But its all in the perspective. I choose to feel positive about what's coming through although I don't have any issues working nights and weekends which is probably why I am less bothered than many who are up in arms over the foreseeable future.
As for my personal walk within D/s and the lifestyle things are going well. I have found a remarkable opportunity that may indeed allow me to take massive leaps and bounds forward in my walk if all works out well. My slave and I are getting more and more excited for the impending meeting that we have arranged in February. The neat little wrapping up of my divorce also brings relief in some senses that I will be a free man (so to speak) when we finally do meet in person for the first time. In some ways I have not been stretching myself in new directions in my walk but focusing on mastering what's in front of me. I have added some new skills that I am just developing and trying to tie together all the ways I apply my Dominance into my girls life. We are enjoying the routines that we have built but even those will be altering once January rolls around. So taking these precious moments and savouring them while we can is important.
There is still so much to do and so many areas where I *feel* lacking and like I may yet be so much farther along. But its the daily dedication to mastering the abilities I desire to make my life abundant, joyful, fulfilling, satisfying, exciting and thrilling. There will be new challenges on the horizon with all of these changes and a bit of a learning curve as W/we shift. Its just reminding myself that where I was a year ago I have grown so much. Giving myself grace and acceptance of where I am at. Knowing that so long as I continue to dedicate myself to my passions that I will grow more and more and continue to reach the goals I set for myself. I know I've come a long way and I am grateful I still have so much yet to accomplish. Reaching new levels will allow for more interesting interactions and I am very much looking forward to the near future and all that will unlock for me. Its a very exciting time with so much going on and I simply can't wait to see what's just around the corner.
I hope A/all are well and finding success in walking their path, whatever that happens to look like for Y/you.
As an added bonus here is a small bit of me and some of the foolishness that I enjoy doing with my mouth. This is me enjoying the learning process and testing what I can accomplish currently (really a few weeks ago)
https://voca.ro/1ePlLY5Y4YBN
